Kaylie Love P2BT

Hi Everyone... My name is Kaylie Love and I am here to talk about anything and everything associated with being Transgender. It will be a community of support to provide valuable information to everyone who needs it or wants it.

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Trans* people are exactly who they say they are. No matter what the culture or media would lead us to believe. @kaylielovep2bt facebook.com/kaylielovep2bt instagram.com/kaylielovep2bt twitter.com/kaylielovep2bt #Pride #TransPride #TransgenderPride #Proud #Trans #Gender #Transgender #ProudToBeTrans #ProudToBeTransgender #Rights #TransRights #TransgenderRights #Equality #TransEquality #TransgenderEquality #TransWoman #TransWomen #TransgenderWoman #TransgenderWomen #TransMan #TransMen #TransgenderMan #TransgenderMen #BeingTransgender #MtF #FtM #Enby #KaylieLove #P2BT #KaylieLoveP2BT https://www.instagram.com/p/CCbngyjj1bl/?igshid=1d1cd6h3f5uek

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“You are the artist of your own life. Don’t give the paintbrush to anyone else.” There are many ways to color a picture. From chalk to crayons, or colored pencils to paint, you’re able to make that picture beautiful in your own special way. From a young age you may have been taught to color in the lines, but the choice of colors was yours. You may have had suggestions, you may have had examples, but nothing was stopping you from picking up any color you wanted and coloring that picture your own special way. Your picture was unique because you did what felt right. Just as you chose the colors in that painting, you get to choose the colors in life. You are unique because you do what feels right. You may have people who try to help guide you. Perhaps they teach you skills such as styling or accessorizing. These helpful reminders can be useful, but they don’t define your limits and they don’t define you. You still have the power to paint your own colors in life. Schools are now teaching kids to color in the lines while also allowing them to have the freedom to color anything anywhere. Parents are now letting children choose the clothes they want to wear and giving the power to wear it proudly. And society is now allowing people to express themselves in anyway they feel they want or need. This sense of freedom allows for a more honest world. We are no longer trapped in the constraints society has set on us and we can live a life that’s true to ourselves. Studies have shown this allows for happier and healthier people while living in a world that is more beautiful than ever. So don’t let anyone dictate how your picture should look as you are the one holding the chalk, the crayon, the color pencil, the brush. Go ahead and paint your picture! Lots of Love, ~ Kaylie Love #paintyourpicture #beyourself #transgender #beproud #proud #kaylielove #p2bt #chalk #crayons #coloredpencils #paint #brush #beyou https://www.instagram.com/p/B0l6P-XgOCz/?igshid=b6e6a3v1hlfm

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A lot has changed since I started coming out 6 years ago, albeit only 4 years on hormones. I love looking back on comparison phots and reflecting on what all has changed, including the changes beyond my reflection. Yes I look much more feminine and my closet has filled immensely. But I also have changed mentally and emotionally. Mentally I am happier inside. Before I had to fumble through the darkness. Now my light shines bright and I can see life clear as day. Emotionally I am more in tune with my feelings. No longer do my emotions feel bleak and forced. I can cry and be ok with that. I can smile a genuine smile. I can be me and that feels amazing. I could say I wish I came out sooner, and yes a part of me does wish that. But this is the process I had to go through with the tools I had at the time. If I transitioned sooner, I likely wouldn’t have met my wife. I likely wouldn’t have had to go through the challenges that made me the strong and empathetic person I am today. I did what I felt I needed to and it turned out amazing. So amazing that I am able to share my inspirational story with so many beautiful people who follow my journey (Yes, I’m talking about you ❤️). And for that, I say thank you for helping me become me! Lots of Love, ~ Kaylie Love #BeYou #BeTrue #Love #LoveYourself #Happiness #KaylieLove #P2BT #FollowMyJourney #PleaseShare https://www.instagram.com/p/B0b6sQoJUPI/?igshid=cavx3wtknpfq

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*** [Important Survey] Seeking those assigned female at birth on the trans masc/non-binary spectrum between the ages of 14-24. *** Do you experience chest dysphoria or discomfort with your chest? Researchers from the Center for Transyouth Health and Development at Children’s Hospital Los Angeles are conducting a research study about chest discomfort/chest dysphoria and how this affects participation in life events. If you are eligible, you will complete an anonymous survey that will take about 10-15 minutes. Who Can Participate? · Currently experiencing chest dysphoria and/or discomfort with your chest Eligible participants may enter in a drawing to win one of 200 $10 Amazon gift cards. Take Survey Here: https://is.gd/chestbinding https://www.instagram.com/p/B0Yj6HwpUnK/?igshid=1vzgu1uaezqxw

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It took me a while to understand the feelings I had inside. Why as a kid did I always take my female family members clothes? Why did I like wearing women’s clothes but felt ashamed to tell people. I hated mirrors but love taking pictures dressed up. Was I a pervert? Was there something wrong with me? It wasn’t until I could do some research that I learned that these feelings were normal. And there was actually a valid explanation why I felt the way I did. I was simply transgender. I was a woman trapped inside a male body. I learned that this woman is who I am. I found myself. From that point on, I owed it to myself to be just that. How did you find yourself? #FindYourself #BeYourself #LoveYourself #Transgender #TransIsNormal #KaylieLove #P2BT https://www.instagram.com/p/B0YiqgKJhAS/?igshid=1r7dgyvlu8qol

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At a group therapy session I attended last night, we discussed ways to take care of yourself from a emotional and mental stand point. I sat back and listened as hands were raised and ideas were shared. Some were specific while others were vague, but they all had a common theme: “Learning to Love Yourself.” It’s something I have said for a long time, “You deserve love, and that starts from within.” It doesn’t matter what if you do something specific like take a warm bubble bath. It doesn’t matter if you are vague and just want to work on addressing yourself with love and respect. However you are able to do it, just make sure you work on strengthening the love you have for yourself. For me, I often reward myself by working hard to meet a goal and then give myself something in return such as a hike through the forrest, buying something cute, or sometimes even going somewhere special. It’s just enough motivation for me to keep moving forward and keep achieving my goals. Outside of these specific goals, I found it equally as important to set vague goals as well. I will tell myself that once a day I will tell myself something I like seeing in the mirror. I will make sure my internal thoughts are the same towards myself as a I would treat a friend. And I will encourage myself to find reasons to smile throughout the day. At first these goals were hard, and often I failed to succeed. But with determination and continued effort, these things have become second nature. No longer do I need to remind myself to smile, I just do it naturally. No longer do I hide from the mirrors as I know many reasons why I love what I see. I now receive love constantly, and that love starts from within. #Love #LoveYourself #TransPositve #SmileMore #LoveYourReflection #Transgender #Proud #KaylieLove #P2BT #GenderTherapy #GroupTherapy #Reflect #TakeCareofYourself https://www.instagram.com/p/B0WU4h8Jm2B/?igshid=iw25ynyctasl

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Today was a day not without challenge. However, the outcome was a lesson that will stick with me from this day forward and I would love to share it with you. Today started out different than most. A new charting program we have been working on was going live today, and I was encouraged to be on site for the launch event. This would have been nothing but excitement if it wasn’t for the fact that the launch event was happening at a location where I use to work pre-transition. The anxiety was high from the moment I walked out my front door as I wasn’t sure how the day would go. Would someone recognize me and “out me” in front of all those who don’t know my secret? Would someone see me in the bathroom and call me out in front of my peers? My mind raced with the possibilities. But I knew I had to face it head on. I noticed my behaviors were changed and I wasn’t as sociable as usual. I didn’t make eye contact as much and I even hesitated to venture away from the group. This wasn’t like my normal, happy, talkative self. I wasn’t enjoying the day like I should. Then someone came up to my coworker and asked, “Is that (dead name)?” She replied, “Yes, but she goes by Kaylie now.” Then the first person said, “Congratulations, I’m so happy for her.” It was at that moment that I realized my worries were all for nothing. I spent the day filled with anxiety and in fact prevented myself from enjoying something that should have been filled with nothing but excitement. I realized that if an issue arises, I will address it then instead of letting it ruin my day because of some “what if’s”. From that moment on I spent the day smiling more, talking more, and enjoying what I would call a successful launch of our new program. The rest of the day was exactly how it should have gone from the start. And although it didn’t start that way, I learned a valuable lesson that will stick with me from this day on; “Don’t miss out on something that could be great just because it could also be difficult.” Lots of Love, ~ Kaylie Love ❤️ https://www.instagram.com/p/B0SMpSVpLpj/?igshid=me6msmcqpnba

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It was an amazing day at the California State Fair. We ate a lot of food, walked a bunch of steps, learned a bunch of facts, and took a ton of pictures. From the gardens to livestock, the gambling to me going to jail, we made today an adventure to remember. The only down side was that the Monorail broke down right before we got on. Now that we’re home, our feet are tired and we’re ready for a nice long shower. I’m going to sleep great tonight. #californiastatefair #statefair #memories #livestock #farming #fairfood #somanysteps #sorefeet #lotsoffun #lotsofpictures https://www.instagram.com/p/B0NFDZwp0Mn/?igshid=ckr4lzf9ad8o

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“Every breath a trans person takes is an act of revolution.” ~ Lourdes Ashley Hunter Thank you to the Trans Women of Color Collective for this powerful image. #TransRights #Revolutuon #TransPOC #Equality #TWOCC #FightForEquality #LourdesAshleyHunter https://www.instagram.com/p/B0KZ2_BpAAq/?igshid=1iqrm607975zv

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Look at their hearts, not their parts. I am sharing this because I support the Transgender Community! #showsupport #transsupport #heartsnotparts #transcommunity #kaylielove #p2bt https://www.instagram.com/p/B0JnTmKp8XX/?igshid=1abvvkwv5lym9

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‘What I didn’t understand about my transgender child.’ By Paria Hassouri “After I was forced to come out of denial and get my daughter the appropriate care, her depression vanished. She is undeniably happy, radiant. She has more friends than she ever had as a “boy,” and she gives the longest, tightest hug’s now.. My daughter did have signs of being transgender. I just wasn’t properly trained to recognize them.” #transparent #transchild #understanding #thereweresigns #needmoretraining https://www.instagram.com/p/B0JL4obpwLJ/?igshid=1pjj52vnluqf5

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What better way to use a video wall at work than to fly the colors proudly! Can’t wait to enjoy the weekend! #TGIF #Friday #TransFlag #P2BT #ReadyToGoHome #VideoWall #ProudToBeMe https://www.instagram.com/p/B0HjsBNp9rS/?igshid=z7nx7b7ft9p

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This train station sign is amazing. I truly wish more signs like this would pop up in the future. #PrideTrain #NoBigotry #NoH8 #NoPrejudice #Transgender #TrainStation #Sign https://www.instagram.com/p/B0GjjVRpUHF/?igshid=19msg74lxm4nv

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A little Snapchat fun has got me thinking ... 🤔 https://www.instagram.com/p/B0FP2OzpFCa/?igshid=1it3wtxs4o93o

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Thank you Colin Mochrie for being a supportive parent. Trust me, this type of support makes an amazing difference. #thankyou #proudparent #colinmochrie #supportmatters https://www.instagram.com/p/B0E3v1hpQ2x/?igshid=weymf4burfa2

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Trans women don’t owe you hyper-femininity and their validity isn’t based on how well they pass. And with that being said... Trans men don’t owe you hyper-masculinity and their validity isn’t based on how well they pass. #YourIdentityMatters #PassingIsIrrelevant ##youmatter #youarevalid #p2bt #transgender #proudtobetransgender https://www.instagram.com/p/B0Ei-_HpZMt/?igshid=ad69jpn0tofb

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Being transgender is like being left handed. Some people are, most people aren’t, and nobody really knows why. It’s not right or wrong, it’s just the way things are. #transgender #lefthanded #itsnotrightorwrong #itsjustthewaythingsare https://www.instagram.com/p/B0D8xKFJBuS/?igshid=wnjzu6t7lktt