[kiind-devil]

Hey please send me your new page, I like what you post

I got you 🫶🏼

[kiind-devil]

on that note, i told yall i wanted a reset so i made a new tumblr. i dont plan to delete this one bc i’ve had it since like 2009 lol but i’ll be using my new one & trying to add as many of you as i can. also, feel free to dm me & i’ll send you my new one <3

[whoisjhnjsph]

if your heart's not in it don't do it

[kiind-devil]

I was never the problem.

I say that to say this: no matter how much a person wants to project their shortcomings or inability to love you as you deserve, do not allow them to belittle you or make you believe that you are the problem.

To this day, every single one of my exes reaches out to me in any way possible regretting how they mistreated or mishandled me and let me go. This may be interpreted as cocky but I’m just being transparent. It’s taken me so long to realize that I was truly never the problem. I’ve spent so much time beating myself up over my unsuccessful relationships & contemplated the idea that I was to blame for all of it. Sure, nobody is ever perfect, I have my flaws like everyone else does but, I’ve never purposely hurt anyone, and definitely not in the ways they’ve hurt me.

Also, asking for the bare minimum is only a disservice to yourself. Set your boundaries. Be assertive about your expectations. Stop settling. Stop giving multiple chances. Stop doubting your worth. Just stop wasting your time and potential on people who do not deserve you. The right person will respect, love, cherish and appreciate everything that you have to offer. The right person will reciprocate tenfold.

[thehopefulquotes]

“I will not think less of myself just because you do not know how to love me.”

— Stephanie Chhum

[perfectfeelings]

“I know—better than anyone—that once someone’s made up her mind to leave you, there’s nothing you can do to make her stay.”

— Being Friends With Boys

[21sadnes]

Sex without feelings or passion is trash and I don’t want it

[free-my-mindd]

[darkmoonlights]

My kind of loveeeee

[calmchaoss-deactivated20240612]

I literally deleted tumblr and opened a new account on instagram for her just because I wanted to show her that she is all that matters to me

[darkmoonlights]

That’s husband material right there. Hope she appreciates it and gives you back the same energy!

[feelingsoftheday]

You are not afraid of new love, you are afraid of old pain.

[uncleflex-deactivated20190517]

[feelgooddev]

Every time life just start lifing

[uchizs]

[ehyehyhwhh]

A LOT CAN HAPPEN IN A MONTH. TRUST GOD.

[self-destruct-gene]

[marvelous7]

The GOAT

[hoodtherapistt-deactivated20260]

i feel like im better off alone no matter how much i want somebody

[kiind-devil]

literally me

[free-my-mindd]

Be easy with yourself. It all takes time.

[dumblr]

"You should have loved her when you had the chance, it’s as simple as that. She is like the sunrise, something pure and good with only the best intentions, the promise of a new beginning. People like that don’t come around often and yet you had the audacity to use her for your own gain. To you she was a good time, a person you’d go to when there was nothing else to do, a convenience nothing more. So don’t you walk around spilling words of how terrible she was to leave you, when you’re the only one to blame."