[aidashakur]

[strawxbunny]

i love when ppl say “that’s so you” it feels good to know i exist and have a vibe

[scorpionlafemme]

[yourtryhard]

[akiangsl]

I dont like uncertainty i need to know everything now

[makingmeblush]

i may be sensitive but everyone else could be a little kinder too

[kaikartel]

dead ass

[anxietyproblem]

[sakuraiy]

[scorpionlafemme]

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

you won’t have to feel like you’re acting for the right people. you won’t have to pretend or change or make yourself smaller. you will be the most you you’ve ever been with them.

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

things to not feel guilty about:

putting yourself first

setting boundaries and saying “no”

resting and taking downtime

nourishing your body

“giving up” on things not meant for you

taking time to heal even if it’s longer than expected

failing (no matter how many times you do it)

feel free to add!

[fibromyalgicaf]

Sitting down while you do something that people normally stand for (e.g. brushing your teeth)

Taking the lift

Using mobility/disability aids

Half-assing something when you can't full-ass it (half-ass is better than no-ass)

Asking for help

Sleeping in

Treating yourself

[kosmogrl]

[anxietyproblem]

[pisces-core]

[asexual-amanita]

As someone with moderate support needs, I’m tired of trying to explain the difference between not being able to do something at all, and struggling to do something. I can’t live independently, and I will likely never drive a car. I cannot complete most everyday tasks without prompting. This is different than struggling to do those tasks, or the tasks being energy draining. Both of our experiences are valid and we both deserve supports, but don’t say you know exactly how I feel or have the same experience as me.

[anxietyproblem]

[anxietyproblem]