have any of you ever hooked up with other idols? spill the teaaaaa 🤭 (or is your polycule closed? which is cool too!)
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San: I’d happily spill the tea if there were any! [Laughs] We’re not technically all the way closed, but as of now, no one has done anything intimate with anyone outside the group, at least for as long as Ateez has existed. It’s just… Too risky. We trust each other and know none of us would ever spill anyone’s secrets, even by accident, and that same level of security is just not there. Even with other idols. It would probably be a fairly safe bet to hook up with another idol who also has a reputation to maintain, but… Just, not 100% safe. Not like it is with each other within the group. And it’s not like anyone is lacking for anything, seven partners is plenty! Sometimes even a little too much! [Laughs] No, no, I’m kidding. It’s perfect. But I personally have never felt the need for anything else. And none of the others has voiced any desire for that either. I’m sure it could be fun, in a universe where things are more chill when it comes to sexuality and public appearance.
There are certainly idols that some of us are attracted to - how could we not be? With so many dedicated and skilled dancers and vocalists, people who stand up for a good cause, not to mention cool choreos and costumes, it’s hard not to become a bit infatuated. We’re very open about this with each other, and we’ve all had our idol crushes; people from all over the world; nonbinary people, men and women. There’s no jealousy about this, just excitement that one of us has seen something in a public figure that they admire. Even if it were more than just aesthetic attraction - which a lot of the time it isn’t - that’s cool by all of us.
hello yunho!! a question for you, have you ever worn lingerie? and if so—when, where, and how did it happen?? im sure you’d love very gorgeous wearing some if not <3
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Yunho: I have, several times! It was just sort of a thing I mentioned in jest one day, but Hongjoong latched onto it and made me sit down with him and look up things in my size. We ordered some, and my favourite set is a classic, shiny, black satin set with a bit of padding in the cups. It has some lace along the straps and the edges of the bra. and some of the fabric on the hips is lace instead of solid satin. So it’s not overly flashy, but it makes me feel really pretty, and you know Hongjoong agreed.
Yunho: Whatever you say, captain. ‘s not like you started feverishly ripping off your clothes when you first saw me in it, and kept calling me your pretty girl and pretty doll while you took care of me. I think you actually fell to the floor trying to get out of your pants, you were in such a hurry.
Hongjoong: Okay, yeah, you looked really tasty, and I was ravenous. Is that what you wanted me to say?
Yunho: Yep! [Smiles bigly and kisses a grumbling Hongjoong on the cheek]
Hongjoong: [Grumbling even more] Look. Your legs are really long and pretty, and muscular. Seeing them come out of black fucking panties? A guy can only handle so much.
Yunho: And the bra?~
Hongjoong: Made me want to attach myself to your titties like a male anglerfish.
hey guys! i just wanted to ask if anyone was into ageplay! (because i saw it mentioned on the bdsm test discussions~)
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Yunho: Oh, there are some sharp eyes out there, huh? [Grins] Yeah, a few of us are. I don’t think anyone is downright opposed, but Hwa, Jongho, Yeosang and I are the core of that group. Occasionally Mingi too, he likes to have a bit of Little time, but he’s not a fiend about it like us four. Hongjoong and Wooyoung like to be occasionally spoken down to like they’re just little brats, but that’s not actual age play. They’re not pretending to be any age other than the one they actually are, they just like to be bullied a bit [Laughs].
Yeosang: I think that’s an accurate summary. Should we tell the anon about that one time where we all four… [Looks at Yunho, hoping he gets what he means]
Yunho: Absolutely! Why don’t you start it off?
Yeosang: Oh… I guess I can [Already blushing lightly]. Uhm, it was just that I was feeling extra small and extra needy, and the three of them decided to team up and spoil me. Because they’re the best partners.
Yunho: Oh, stop it~
Yeosang: Stop being so wonderful then?
Yunho: …Okay, listen,
Yeosang: [Cutting him off] I was feeling that way, and I went to Yunho to let him know, and he suggested we get the others in as well. I didn’t know what I signed up for… It was so embarrassing. Not like bad embarrassing, I just felt very… Pampered and like I was the center of attention.
Yunho: You were, and you were perfect. No matter if it’s on stage or in bed, you shine like a diamond under others’ admiration and love.
Yeosang: You’re gonna make me blush!
Yunho: That ship has already sailed.
Yeosang: [Hides his face in his hands to collect himself before looking back up, taking a deep breath] As I was saying, he got the others to join us, and they descended upon me like hyenas.
Yunho: Don’t you mean like a throuple of daddies taking good care of their wonderful little one?
Yeosang: [Ignoring him] They were cooing at me and encouraging me to baby-talk. And I mean, it worked. They know me. I like to slip into that space where I can be clumsy with words on purpose, and be openly pouty if things don’t go my way immediately. They all were acting strict, like they were raising me, but they were really falling over themselves to give me anything I wanted at even the slightest hint.
Yunho: Duh… You can’t say no to that face. Too precious. It’s heart breaking to see you pout, even if I know it’s an act.
Yeosang: Heheh [Pokes both index fingers into his cheeks in an act of aegyo]. So yeah, I had three daddies under my thumb, even if it felt to me like they were in control. Because they said what I should do, or at least suggested things, and I ended up covered in plushies drawing for them, and they were so quick and happy to reward me with all manner of snacks and praise for the smallest thing. I was so deep in that much younger headspace, I was just happy to be doing everything right, doing things that made them smile.
Yunho: [Eyes softening] That genuine look of happiness you get whenever we praise you… It’s so incredibly precious. I would do anything for that little guy.
Yeosang: [Turned towards the anon] He really means that, by the way. They’ll run to get me more juice if I look sadly at my empty glass. And if I get clingy and needy in other ways, they take care of me that way as well.
Yunho: Ah… We did, didn’t we?
Yeosang: Mhmm. I had only given half a hint that I was horny before Jongho had his pants off. Okay, wild exaggeration, but he really is so diligent in giving me everything I want, at any time. He was praising me the whole time too, saying how cute I looked holding Yunho and Seonghwa’s hands.
Yunho: I felt like I was going insane, it was so beautiful. Sangie… Can get a little pent up and stiff, caught up in his head. But in these scenes, all that adult worry has been melted away and there’s just a good little boy left. It’s so gratifying to watch him truly relax and just enjoy himself, and let himself soak in the praise we murmured into his ears.
Yeosang: [Blushing a few shades darker by now] It’s really that different?
Yunho: Hm… Yeah, it is. When you submit normally, you also get very relaxed and happy, but it’s just like… A different flavour of that.
Yeosang: I like that way of describing it. Feels like that, too. It’s mostly the same, but a little to the left. Different headspace but kinda the same outcome.
Yunho: Mmh. You did so well for us, Sangie.
Yeosang: Well enough that you’d be willing to repeat the success some time?
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Hongjoong: First of all, it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks about your sexuality and romantic attraction. Those things are your own, and you’re the expert on them. Only matters what you think. But since you’re asking, it’s cool. Both aro and ace-ness.
Mingi: Hell yeah!
Wooyoung: Hell hell yeah!!!
Seonghwa: [Looking at Wooyoung and Mingi, exasperated but fond] I personally find that it’s disgraceful how a lot of people in the queer community feel any need to punch down on people under those umbrellas. Homosexual people have fought for their own rights for decades, and to not be looked down upon… And then they turn around and do that same thing to other groups. It’s frankly unbelievable and very tone deaf. Even if they feel like they don’t have anything in common with aromantic and ace people, what does that matter? Queer experiences are vastly varied, also just between gay men and lesbians. Just because they don’t personally have felt the struggles of those groups and don’t understand them, doesn’t mean they’re not real and don’t deserve community or respect.
Jongho: [Looks off to the side, the corners of his mouth curling up in a tiny but grateful smile]
not a question, but i really enjoy your writing especially the format it’s in. i hope your arm is healing well and you’re getting better 💗
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My arm is doing well! :) It's been like 4 ish months since it happened, and there's still some discomfort when i make certain movements, but overall i'm using the arm pretty normally with barely any pain at all. Thank you for your concern <3
Oh my god you’re one of my favourite blogs, and I was getting worried about you because id never seen you disappear for like 2 months straight before. I hope you’re doing okay.. don’t rush into getting back though, broken arms are painful asf, take your time and get well soon!
A/N: And then I did the same thing again!! hnjhf i'm sorry, and i'm happy you enjoyed the blog so far! i keep meaning to come back, but i've been doing a lot of other creative things recently, mostly crafts stuff. but!! now at least i logged back on here, and i'm taking stock of the questions i've yet to answer. thank you again for your patience :))
I've taken a break from this blog since I broke my arm ~5 weeks ago and at first couldn't really type and then didn't feel like it for a while. I'm going to be back! No quite there yet, but I hope to find more spoons soon. Thank you for your patience! <3
For everyone to answer: do you guys like spanking? Whats your favorite implement to receive/give? Do you prefer it as foreplay or as discipline?
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Jongho: I think everyone likes it to some extent, either giving, receiving, or both. I personally don’t like being spanked, and the exclusive subs don’t care for spanking anyone.
Yunho: I don’t really… Well, I guess I think I would probably like giving a spanking, I just haven’t been brave enough to try it yet… Other than like an occasional smack on the ass, anyway. For some reason I’m still a bit intimidated by pain play when it comes to playing the dom part.
Jongho: That makes a lot of sense. It’s a lot in terms of responsibility, but I find that the reward is more than worth it. All in your own time though, there’s no rush. The members that like being spanked have more than enough doms who are more than willing to indulge them.
Yunho: [Purses his lips] Mmh… I’m trying not to push myself. But, speak more on the reward you mentioned?
Jongho: Well, there’s getting to listen to the beautiful and depraved sounds they make when I’ve worked them for a while and it really starts to sting, but you get that too when you’re watching from the sidelines. Seeing them with glassy eyes or full on sobbing, begging for mercy, is a huge rush. Not just because it’s hot, but because I know how much of a relief and a cathartic experience it can be for them. I know this sounds cheesy, but being the one to bring them there is a privilege and an honour. Their submission is a gift that I value highly.
On top of that, I think the biggest reward is getting to see them happy and spent after a good session, seeing how sated they are. Hongjoong and San have both said that the sense of calm and relaxation they feel after an intense impact play session, is nearly unparalleled.
Yunho: Yeah, I know just what they mean. It’s a special kind of relief. I want to be able to give them that as well, but… Ah, all in due time.
Wooyoung: My butt shall await you with bated, uhh… No, not gonna continue that sentence.
Yunho: [Wheezing] Oh my god, you’re really selling me on it now!
Wooyoung: I know, right? But to answer the question, I love spanking! And caning, and cropping, and paddling, and whatever else variations you can think of. I’ll never get enough of the feeling of being reduced to the soggiest, most regretful and sorry guy you can imagine, and I love to be made to cry and beg for forgiveness, even if I didn’t do anything wrong. Because uh, yeah, I like spanking as the main act, doesn’t have to be as a punishment for any reason in particular. Of course it can continue into other things like sex or edging after, but sometimes I just want to have my ass beaten. Or my thighs, or my back.
Hongjoong: Same as Wooyoung, just fuck me up any time for any reason, or no reason at all. You need 0 excuses, you can just tie me up and beat me until I cry, and then use me to get yourself off. Ten out of ten.
I like most implements, save for paddles because they’re kinda boring. I like for things to sting, and paddles are like… I dunno, the pain they give is just a little dull to me. But I like using everything on others, so long as they like it too.
Yeosang: I’m… Uh, kind of same, but as per usual, I need the things to be done quite a bit differently. I like to be in pretty significant pain, but only when my partner is doing it in a way that’s caring. Woo and Hongjoong don’t mind being scolded or belittled while they’re being beaten, and as hot as that is, it’s not for me. At least currently. I need my partner to praise me for how well I’m doing. How good I am at taking what they’re giving me. That makes me feel really good.
San: I like all of the above. I don’t think I’d be happy with only one kind, I need both the sessions where my partners act cruel and the ones where they are kind and loving. That balance is important to me.
Seonghwa: Good thing you’re an absolute treat to scene with no matter which kind of spanking you’re in the mood for. [Grins cheekily when San blushes] You all are! Always my pleasure to make everyone’s beautiful behinds all pretty and red.
San: [Whines] Hyung, don’t say it like that!
Seonghwa: And why not?
San: …Embarrassing.
Seonghwa: I’m sure it can’t be more embarrassing than actually having it happen in real life?
San: You know, oddly, I think it is.
Seonghwa: Noted.
As for myself, in terms of being spanked, I do usually prefer that over cropping and caning - although those have their time and place too. I like spanking because of how naughty it feels. And I like to feel my partner’s hands.
I like to use a crop on my partners when I’m on the dom side of the scene. It feels sexy, and I don’t have to exert a lot of energy to make my partners cry so prettily for me.
Mingi: I’m a little bit picky about this kind of thing, sorta have to be in the mood for it, and that doesn’t happen like super often, I don’t think. When it does, I only really like spanking, and not so much the types of impact play that uses implements. Spanking feels more personal and, literally, hands-on. The dom setting up a whole thing where I’m restrained and they don’t touch me, feels a little artificial and cold. For me, anyway. It’s really hot to see the others in that kind of scene.
I have a question for Jongho but also any and all autistic members feel free to answer. It's just related to something Jongho has said in the past.
Right OK here goes. Jongho you've said in the past that your schedules don't really have a consistent structured routine and I was wondering how that feels for you and if it feels bad how do you manage that?
I'm about to start a different job that has the "There's no structured routine every day is different isn't that fun" vibe and as a (99% sure) autistic person who really really really needs structure and routines to feel like a functional human being and be able to do things right no it is very much not fun and I'm very much scared about this. You're someone I really admire and respect so any advice from you really would mean the absolute world to me. 🌙⚡️
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Jongho: Hi hi! I apologize for getting to this ask kind of late, but I hope I can bring you just a little bit of comfort.
Firstly, it’s awesome that you’ve landed a job! Congratulations, that’s really great! [Smiles a really big smile] I hope you don’t mind me saying this, but I’m proud of you.
This is just an idea, and it might not work, but if you work at structured hours throughout the week, try thinking of your overall schedule as blocks of things. If the work block is in the same place as it usually is on a given day, what happens within that block is less important. You’re at work, so the block is in its proper place. Maybe if you draw a visual representation of your week with colour coded blocks marking your activities, it would help your brain accept that the things within each block might be different from day to day? Hope this makes sense!
I’d like to encourage anyone autistic who sees this to chime in if they have any advice on this topic. I’m by no means an expert, and this isn’t something I’ve personally struggled with to a super high degree.
Hwa-hyung has had a bit of a hard time with sudden changes in schedule. It’s helped him to make it clear to our management and crew that he needs to know about changes as soon as possible. And as for the stuff that’s varied but known about in advance, he makes detailed spreadsheets of his schedule each week, outlining exactly what’s going to happen and when, so he’s on top of things as much as possible.
I know you must have already started your job by now, but I’m rooting for you! Hwaiting!
this might be crazy but we’re all weird and horny here so….. inflation. thoughts? in theory or in practice or whatever
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Hongjoong: Oh, that internet thing where people get all swollen? Not my thing.
Seonghwa: Hmm. Are you sure?
Hongjoong: Yeah, looks weird. And not in a way I really care about.
Seonghwa: What if there was more to it, though.
Hongjoong: Like what?
Seonghwa: Care to follow me on a little mind journey?
Hongjoong: …You’re not gonna let me say no, are you?
Seonghwa: [Beams]
Hongjoong: Okay, okay. I’ll join you.
Seonghwa: Happy to hear it! Imagine you’re home alone, awaiting all the other members to come back home. You’re in your room, and you hear the front door finally open. Wooyoung is home first, and he comes straight to your room, and badgers you about getting to fuck you - he wants to top for once. Do you say yes?
Hongjoong: Fuck it, sure.
Seonghwa: He’s so happy that you are willing to indulge him, and he spills inside you in no time, moaning and panting so prettily for you. Before he can help you get off as well, Jongho comes home and finds the two of you, and asks if he can have a turn as well. What do you say to him?
Hongjoong: I imagine I’d be pretty riled up by then, so I’d probably say yes to him as well.
Seonghwa: He doesn’t bother to prep you any further since Wooyoung already warmed you up, and there’s just the smallest bit of a sting as he pushes inside you--
Hongjoong: Are you literally just trying to turn me on?
Seonghwa: I have a point I’m making, promise. So, he fucks you nice and slow, most likely making you come on his cock in the process. He comes deep inside you, just like Wooyoungie did. Then, you hear a knock on the door - San and Yeosang are home, and they want to say hi. They’re very affected by the scene that meets them in your room, and they both are by your side so fast, kissing your face and asking if you can take two more.
Hongjoong: Hmm, I’d take a moment to think about it, but a couple more probably can’t hurt. I’m usually good for a few rounds at least.
Seonghwa: Yeosang’s eyes are gleaming hungrily as he gets out of his clothes and pushes inside you. San is by your side as Yeosang fucks you, fast and desperate, and he murmurs in your ear how sexy you are, how he can’t wait to be inside you too and feel you for himself. Yeosang can barely pull out before Sannie is mounting you, and he fucks you so good, fucks the others’ cum deeper inside you.
Hongjoong: Fuuuck…
Seonghwa: I know~ You would be so full of cum at this point, they wouldn’t need any lube at all. San would add his load to the mess inside you as well, and after he’s done, he would scooch down to kiss your tummy. You know what a sap he is. You’ll never guess what happens then, Jjoongie…
Hongjoong: [Groans] More members coming home?
Seonghwa: You got it! Yunho just made it home, and he’s in your room to see what all the fuss is about. He falls to his knees by your bed, touching your thighs and your stomach, hands shaking. He looks up at you, biting his lip--
Hongjoong: Yes, fuck, he can fuck me. Get on with it.
Seonghwa: Yunho is very grateful and happy. Even with the prep from all the others fucking you, you can still feel him stretching you as he pushes in. His body would cover yours, making almost a cocoon for you to hide inside while he fills you with his cum. When he’s pulled out, he sits back and kneads the flesh of your belly, asking if everyone else really also came inside you. And when he stands, you spot Mingi who’s home now, too, standing in the doorway with a bright blush on his cheeks.
Hongjoong: [Breathing heavier] Fuck me. More? Couldn’t he go find you instead?
Seonghwa: I’m not home yet. And Mingi is in bed with you now, petting your head and your thighs, nuzzling into your chest and stomach, asking so prettily if he can please have a turn too, promising he’ll take good care of you, that he’ll make you come again.
Hongjoong: It’s so much…
Seonghwa: He’s tearing up.
Hongjoong: Nevermind, I need him inside me.
Seonghwa: Oh, our little Mingi sobs as he pushes his cock inside your hole. He’d babble, saying how soft and warm you are, how easy the glide is with everyone’s cum in you already, how wet you feel. How he can’t wait to fill you with his cum, too. He’s incoherent, probably, but his stomach is rubbing up against your cock and if you want to, you could easily come from how it feels.
Hongjoong: I want it so bad, Hwa… [Whines, not at all subtle as he adjusts his hard-on in his pants]
Seonghwa: Then you do. And Mingi comes too, his cum mixing inside you with everyone else’s. Filling you up. When you open your eyes, I’m there in bed with you too--
Hongjoong: God fucking damn it, Park Seonghwa, this is an imaginary scenario! You can come in me as much as you want, just get on with it!
Seonghwa: [Laughs] Oh, you want it that bad? I would love to, if you let me. I bet at this point, your pretty little hole would be so spent, sliding inside would be the easiest thing in the world. So warm and soft and welcoming. Fuck, Jjoongie… It would feel so good. I’d make it last until you’re ready to come again. And then once you have, once you’re so tuckered out, I’d come inside you too. I’d stay inside you for a bit, making you feel so, so full. Full of me, and full of everyone’s cum. Can you imagine how it would feel, Jjoongie? Everyone’s cum inside you all at once?
Hongjoong: I’m going to scream. What can the point possibly be to all of this aside from making me rock hard?
Seonghwa: If you were to look down, do you think you’d see anything different? Perhaps… Your tummy would be ever so slightly swollen with the sheer amount of cum inside you? All your partners having contributed to the mess, pent up after a hard day’s work? And my cock pushing it all deeper inside you, keeping it safe and warm in there? I’d bring my hand down to feel the little bulge, knead it from the outside. I’d bring your hand down to feel it too. Can you feel it?
Hongjoong: Fuuuuck me, Hwa [Groans]. Why is that hot as hell?
Seonghwa: That, my dear captain, is called cum inflation. Doesn’t it sound quite appealing?
Hongjoong: Okay, I’ll eat my words. This way, it’s really sexy. And, unrelated, but if you don’t get inside me righ this moment, I’m going to throw a tantrum.
Seonghwa: Want me to text some of the others to drop by as well?
Now you guys totally let captain use you whenever he’s frustrated … specially you wooyoung and i bet you like it don’t you hmm?
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Wooyoung: You bet! I don’t even just let him, I ask him to. Very nicely.
Hongjoong: What a fun way to say you pester me until I fuck you until you’re too exhausted to speak.
Wooyoung: Hey now! [Laughs] Just because it’s completely true doesn’t mean you should say it. I have a reputation, you know?
Hongjoong: And what is that? An insatiable little minx who prioritizes getting in my pants over my work and my sleep schedule?
Wooyoung: …Okay, on here, maybe yeah. But are you mad about it?
Hongjoong: [His expression turns stern] No. If It were more than I could handle or if I weren’t feeling it, I’d tell you.
Wooyoung: [Surprised by the sudden honesty] Aish… I know that, captain. But thank you for reminding me.
Hongjoong: You’re welcome, baby. Any time. In return, can you tell the anon what happened the other day? You know what I mean, yeah?
Wooyoung: [His smile turns just the smallest bit sinister] Oh, I know. Hongjoong was at the studio late at night as always, he’d been there for hours. And I thought it wasn’t fair that he was working so hard when the rest of us had had most of the evening off! So I went into my room and took a few cute pictures to send to our hard working captain to keep his morale high. [Nods, satisfied]
Hongjoong: I feel like this leaves out some pretty crucial details. Namely that you were entirely nude in your “cute pictures,” and that your back was arched, and that you were touching yourself. And that you wrote a message with them saying that you missed me and you wanted my cock.
Wooyoung: Oh, you’re right! [Sticks out his tongue] I forgot!
Hongjoong: [Scoffs] Sure.
Wooyoung: I also nearly forgot how you came home exactly fifteen minutes later, marched straight over to me and dragged me into your room without a word, and then proceeded to have your way with me for a pretty significant amount of time. I was beyond ready to go to bed afterwards, and I think you were too. By the way, you’re welcome. You would have been a zombie the next day if I’d let you stay working.
Hongjoong: [Scratches the back of his neck] …Maybe a little. Didn’t realize how late it had gotten. I needed something to think about other than semi quavers and major 6th’s.
Wooyoung: And I was that something? [Beams]
Hongjoong: [Laughs] You really need me to say it? Of course you were, baby. No matter how bratty you are, I always feel like I’m the one in control when we’re together. Feels good to have something work brilliantly without having to have too much of my brain engaged. It takes my full attention, sure, but it’s not… Scholarly, the way music writing and production is.
Wooyoung: Are you saying I’m easy? [Doesn’t seem the least bit upset]
Hongjoong: Do you want that to be what I’m saying?
Wooyoung: Don’t mind being easy when it’s for you, captain. [Blows Hongjoong a kiss]
Hongjoong: [Nonchalantly catches the kiss and overhand tosses it in the nearby trash can]
Wooyoung: Why you-- [Throws himself on the defenseless captain and covers him in kisses]
This is a SFW ask. Sorry if that's disappointing or not allowed!
How do any of you feel about agere? Either amongst yourselves or amongst atinys?
A/N: Hi, anon! I've been sitting on this for a while, pondering. Not because I have any negative feelings towards agere, because I don't! And it's not disappoining at all, I've answered many sfw asks and those are always welcome. Rather, my problem is that I don't really know anything about it. I know a bit about littlespace and age play, but if I understand it right, agere is not really any of those things?
I'd be more than happy to learn, and I was wondering if you (or anyone) has any recommendationg on where to start. Anything that's light on reading would be awesome, as my attention span is not the best lol <3 If there are any creators out there that make videos about it, that would be really cool. I suppose I could just google it, but I would trust you guys' directions way more.
Have any of you ever had to nope out of sexytimes? How did it go and what happened after? I've always been a bit too scared to. (A/N please give this one a happy ending with fluff and hurt/comfort and it goes OK by the end & no one is angry at the member who had to say no/stop. I don't mind it going badly at first for the sake of realism - I know often it doesn't go well, just a happy ending please).
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San: There haven’t been any huge disasters, luckily. Only smaller hiccups. We kind of all amped up our collective kink level together and grew alongside each other, and we always made sure to be well prepared and ask about each others’ expectations in advance of a scene. And if we’re experimenting with new things, we check in along the way as well, to be safe. We tend to err on the side of caution. We’ve agreed that if someone gets struck with sudden inspiration to try something new and undiscussed in the middle of a scene, to wait and talk about it after. Even if they’re almost certain it would be received well. It’s better to wait and do it safely than to risk hurting your partner for a chance of making it just a little bit better in the moment. It’s not a hard rule, it’s more of a rule of thumb that we tend to stick with to minimize the risk of things turning sour.
But yeah, I’ve had to nope out before. Not full on red, but I’ve definitely had to call yellow. There’s the usual “we’re reaching the maximum amount of pain play I can enjoy,” and the occasional cramp and stuff like that. But that’s not very interesting, I don’t think. Instead, I want to tell you about this thing that’s happened to me a few times. With a few different people. Seonghwa and Yunho in particular have set this off a few times, and Jongho a couple of times too. It’s not necessarily a bad thing, just always unexpected.
I’m sure if you’ve read just a little bit of what I’ve said on this blog, you probably know about my love for edging and denial! It’s a go-to for me and everyone who doms me. It’s just so good, and I’m always in the mood for it, pretty much. And uhm, it’s a thing that happens sometimes during that type of play. Not often, but it’s been a couple handfuls of times.
Suppose I’ll tell you about the first time, which was with Yunho-hyung! It was just the two of us scening, but a few members were watching too - I think Yeosang and Hongjoong? Yunho… Ah, gosh, I’m getting embarrassed. He had touched me that same morning without letting me come, and sent me off with a promise that we would play in the evening. So here we were! Me with my hands cuffed to the headboard, and him on all fours above me, caging me in and making me feel protected but also like… Captured. And we’d been at it for a while, I think like… Not quite an hour, but close. I was in tears, I’m sure you can imagine. He had gotten me right to the edge so many times, and several of them had me doubting for a brief moment if I’d be able to hold it back. But I had made it so far.
Yunho was praising me so sweetly, grinning that wickedly handsome grin of his and murmuring to me how good I was for listening to him. For taking it so well. It made me feel like my brain was leaking out of my ears. All floaty and wonderful and like I was being good. I felt so cared for and I fully trusted that he would take care of me and hold me and keep me safe. That’s true for all scenes. I trust my partners so much, and they have yet to let me down. Sometimes, their care is shown by not letting me come at the end, and then fussing over me and cuddling with me as I calm down. Often, in fact. And the thing is, I never know what they plan ahead of time. I like not knowing, and the others like to be secretive about it to keep me guessing. It’s like another layer of control taken away from me since I only have to be there in the moment and let them do what they - and I - want until they say it’s over.
After a particularly close call, Yunho let me catch my breath before dragging the pad of his index finger down the length of my dick. I remember trying so hard not to grind against his hand, it felt so good. I was so hard it nearly ached. Then, he told me that I was going to have to wait until the next day - that I wasn’t getting to come that night. Usually I’d be frustrated, but ultimately happy and horny about it. But on that day, it was just a little bit different. Being denied felt bad, and I could feel myself getting upset. Without thinking - which is probably a good thing - I blurted out my “yellow” to communicate that I wasn’t happy.
His demeanor immediately shifted from teasing and in control to doting and a little worried. Asked me what was wrong, if I was hurting anywhere. I shook my head and tried to make words happen in my brain and my mouth. It didn’t work. I wasn’t sure what was happening, only that the thought of having to wait upset me. In the heat of the moment, I didn’t know how to say that in a way that made sense, and I ended up just sort of sniffling and begging him, “please, please.” It’s a bit blurry in my memory, but my body language must have been… A lot. I spread my thighs further apart, trying to coax him into changing his mind, and at the same time weakly tried to buck against him.
It made enough sense to him, luckily. He teased me, oh, my sweet Sannie, you want to come that bad? And I sobbed when I told him yes, please. A lot of please’s actually. He kissed me and promised that he would make me come, and asked if I thought I’d be able to take one more edge first. That, I knew I could handle. I nodded, groaning, and the only thing on my mind was the need to keep being good for him.
And I was! He wasn’t too mean with the last edge, and he cooed over me and praised me the entire time, saying I was doing so well and that I was so hot like this. That he loved taking me apart and making me feel good, loved seeing me lose myself to the freedom and pleasure he could give me.
Finally, he let me come. I was a wreck; all tears and sweat and heavy breathing. And above all else, I was happy that I was able to follow his instructions. Because I had. The rules of the game are that I follow his instructions unless they don’t feel good. If they don’t, there’s no reason to be following them. I noped out of the one thing that made me feel bad, and he set a new frame - one we could both be happy with.
Now, what made this happen? To me of all people, me who usually loves denial? I wish I had one solid answer, but I only have two guesses that I think are both part of the reason. One thing is that… I really had spent the whole scene expecting him to let me come. He had teased me in the morning, and I thought surely that’s enough, yeah? Surely he meant to let me come this time? But I’ve felt that way in scenes both before and after this, scenes where I’ve been denied and been happy about it. The second thing is that he was being very soft and gentle with me. And on this day, for some reason, that soft and kind treatment made me slip into a headspace that was just a little bit more needy for being pampered and taken care of. In the making me come sense. His sweet dom side doesn’t always get this need out in me - most of the time, I’m plenty happy to wait until the next day or even later. I guess it was just something in my brain chemistry that day that made things be a little different for me. He and Hwa sometimes… Make me this way? Get this side out in me? And of course they’re happy to work with those sudden changes in limits. Ultimately, what we all want is just to make each other feel good and happy.
We were both very happy at the end of this, as were Hongjoong and Yeosang. They had become a bit extra alert when I yellow’ed, but it became clear to them very fast that Yunho had it under control. We talked it through with a few of the others as well, let them know what went down so they were all aware of this thing that can apparently happen. Again, not a bad thing really, just a change in needs mid-scene, and something that’s easy to accommodate at that. As long as I know my partners will listen to me when I say I’m not feeling something - and they will, obviously - I know I’m totally safe.
There is one last thing I want to say, anon. I don’t want to poke into your personal life, but in your ask, did you mean that you have a hard time saying no during sex or scenes? If that’s the case, I’d really like to encourage you to do so even if it’s difficult. Talk to your partner(s) and tell them you struggle with this, and ask them what they think. Maybe they have ideas and suggestions to make it easier! Maybe they can tell you how it would make them feel if you had to pull the plug, which might in turn make it easier for you to do so. My hope here being they’d tell you that it would make them happy to know you feel safe to tell them something is wrong, and that they only want to do things with you that you enjoy and are 100% into. In my opinion, that last part is the bare minimum for any partner, one night stands and other casual things very much included.
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