Hi I’m Theo / Boy ( you can use them interchangeably !! Preffered pronouns are it / its / he / they ( you can use interchangeably ) ⭐️ I am queer + demiboy ! I am apart of a system ! Body’s age is 24 !
I am chronically ill + disabled and diagnosed with the following :
hEds ( Hypermobile Ehlers Danlos Syndrome ) , pots , gerd & seizure disorder ( my seizures are photosensitive / flashing lights do / are a trigger for them / trigger them ) 🥄 🦽 were an ambulatory wheelchair + mobility aid user !
Due to eds we deal with chronic pain + frequent sublaxations / dislocations of our joints . With pots we pass out fairly often . Our seizures have become a lot more prevalent ⚡️ 🧠
We are dx autistic ( msn ) & adhd !
We also struggle with ocd , arfid , c-ptsd ( also all dx ) ! We greatly appreciate tone tags and can make a post showing ones we mostly need / how to use them / what they mean etc .
Some important things before you interact ! 🗡️ ⭐️ 🍙
- absolutely ZERO fakeclaiming ! You are not around that person 24/7 and what they choose to show online doesnt correlate to their life outside of social media ! It’s not uncommon to only want to showcase the pretty / good parts only. You don’t see their constant symptoms / day to day struggles .
- we are also on insta / some of our other alters have their own blogs / accs as well !
💭 🫐 🌕 DNI !
- a minor ( under 18 ) do not msg if you’re a minor !
- nsfw acc / sxl accs
- map + zoo
- homophobic + transphobic
- racist
- support trump / ice / his ideals
- support the genocides happening in Gaza , Sudan , Congo ! Or are against basic human rights ! I stand with Palestine 🇵🇸 🍉
- openly endo systems + supporters
- if you body shame or put others down for their appearance , weight , wether or not you think they “ pass “ we / no one owes you passing / being on hrt / surgery !
- put others down
- harass adult regressors
- against the use of tone tags completely
- if you’re ableist or support it
- if you support autism speaks
- here to keep tabs for other people
🤍 pls just be kind ! If you have nothing nice to say than just say nothing at all. Be understanding ! Thank you ! As long as you don’t break my DNI you are welcome here ! 🤍
Just a reminder for systems, you don't owe people an explanation for anything, especially not your trauma
Don't tell people your triggers, especially any negative ones
You don't even have to tell them your name if you don't want to, you don't have to tell anyone all your alters/headmates names, you don't have to tell anyone how many alters/headmates are in your system
You don't owe anyone every detail about your system, especially if it can be used against you
ik im safe .. but since seeing abuser last month .. i rly feel it’s brought back nighttime anxiety ( due to an extremely traumatic moment which occurred at night ) nighttime feels so scary n i feel scared to go to bed .. which then causes me to get rly fussy . It’s def caused lots of invol reg episodes which are typically very scary and sad :(
Been struggling to sleep :( dunno if it’s anxiety or smth .. just get rly fussy at night .. and like get rly small :( and I just get rly frustrated n cry .. so tired n sleepy :( dunno why sleep is so hard now :( don’t understand ..
