Knot Altogether There

Random musings of an evolving pervert.

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DIY Stores prepare for 50 shades fans.

Much has been said about the unrealistic and, frankly, dangerous portrayal of BDSM in this horrible piece of 'writing.' 

What I find completely ridiculous is the notion that a millionaire, playboy pervert would have to swing by Home Depot to pick up rope, zip-ties and tape.

More realistically: He'd have sets of rope at home. Custom rope made from some blend of silk and bamboo. The zip-ties and tape? Delivered semi-regularly via Amazon. 

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I dont want to ask anything, but I would like to give you my appreciation for your blog. I have recently been introduced to Shibari and I am addicted. I love that you put instructions with pictures to show us how to do it. I am truly glad that I found your blog, Sir. I can't wait to see what I learn from you. Thank you very much

Thank you for your appreciation! Looking at your blog, it's clear you're getting yourself settled into a community. Consider events like Shibaricon. It will blow your mind.

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hello I like your blog. I was at the hardware store but didn't know which diameter or length or material or if I should get the diamond braid or double twist? where do I begin. pleas e help thank you

Asking a rigger their opinions about rope! Now there is a time suck. Since you're starting out, aim for 3/16" (~5mm) - 1/4" (~6mm). You'll want 5-6 lengths that are 5-6x your arm span. Most people use 26-30ft segments. Go with the double-twist. Diamond braid (usually MFP rope), is very 'fast', that is, it causes friction burns really easily. (Natural fiber ropes are very 'slow').

Here's some other thoughts on my early preferences (now I mostly use 4-5mm jute), and issues with hardware store rope. 

Good luck. And use common sense when you tie!

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[Triggers warning: Feelings of inadequacy, not being good enough]

For the longest time I used get down on myself because I wasn’t flexible to make my elbows touch and since they couldn’t do that, I couldn’t possibly be a good rope bottom. I know dozens of rope bottoms who can’t do suspensions or...

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For all the bottoms. This series will be reblogged.

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Off to FetFest. Strangely, not as excited as previously. The lighter-than-average educational offerings may have something to do with it. You'll probably find the brat and I in the rope barn.

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"For the book ‘Tattooatados’" by Tentesion, Model: Patricia Palmer.

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David Lawrence Hip Harness (2/2)

In part one, we covered how to build one half of the hip harness. It was left as homework to mirror the tie on the other hip. You now have your rope bottom in the full David Lawrence hip harness, with both hips tied. Let’s get them in the air!

Face-Up

For a face-up suspension, you will tie your lift line in a standard N-anchor, through the leg and waist lines. Clip a carabiner on the hip lines. The rope runs up to your hard point, back down to the carabiner. You are ready to hoist.

Face-Down

For a face-down suspension, just turn your bottom around. The tie is symmetric, after all.

  Side

For side suspensions, just do an M-anchor around the hip post. Easy as pie!

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Someone needs to create a word to describe the feeling of horny while also afraid.

Where are my vocab nerds?

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This really needs to happen. Ok word nerds, whatcha got?

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An undeniable lapse. Truly.

I would go with 'formidophilia,' from 'formido' : to dread.

But it might be confused with 'formidophobia' : the fear of scarecrows.

Know the difference between phobias and philias, kids. It's the difference between a hot scene and a lifetime in prison.

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I am really gaining alot of interest in this topic. I am starting with losing weight toning and getting flexible again like i was in cheerleading. but this is my ultimate goal not a stupid dress or jeans my goal is kinbaku. any advice or information or resources or people i can talk to would be oh so helpful. your blog is amazing.

Thank you, S&S. This blog would be better if I'd remember to post more frequently. In general, toning and flexibility are good things to improve, and while it can make the difference between a good and a great rope bottom, it's not strictly necessary. Experienced riggers have little difficulty tying & suspending bigger bodies. We're all sexual creatures and can all enjoy rope. That being said, a bottom's fitness is generally what determines the amount of time in the air and the... extremity of the tie. As for resources, I'll point you where I point everyone. FetLife.com (free kink forum-not dating site). A simple search will give you all your local riggers and clubs. If you live near a major city, you'll likely find a rope bite, munch, and even dedicated events. Rope education is generally best done face-to-face and hands on. Shibaricon in May, is an amazing rope education event. Here on the east coast (us), there are multiple summer camps and monthly large events. Don't be shy. Introduce yourself to the local community. Watch your local riggers and talk to the local bottoms. It won't be long before you're inverted in the air. Good luck.

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testing

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Still a better love-story than Twilight.

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Teletubby Critter Crush?

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You have a fantastic blog! Much much respect. Is there anywhere to purchase pre-dyed rope? I'm super new at this and finally got my wife to agree to try but don't have time to dye. I want to do this before she changes her mind...

Yes, there are bunches of vendors, but here's the deal. If you are new, I recommend people just buy 150' of white nylon from your hardware store. 3/16-1/4" (4-6mm) in diameter. Cut into 5-6 equal lengths (27/30') It's cheap and soft. If your wife doesn't like rope bondage, you've got emergency rope for your car. If she does like it, use fabric dyes and you've got something fancy (dying rope is dead simple, just follow the fabric instructions)Nylon is machine washable/dry able too. I always recommend nylon to start. As you develop a passion for this, then you can start build a natural rope collection : silk, bamboo, jute, hemp, etc. experienced riggers love natural fibers as they hold knots super well, but can be between .50-1.50$ a foot. Good luck.

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Beautiful Rope Work

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Shibaricon!

It was awesome, but has come to a close. Sitting here at the hotel bar, getting gouged for a drink and passable sushi, I am reflecting on how this poor blog has languished. Time for a comeback, bitches!

Now that the brat and I are living together, with our very own dedicated play space, original content should be coming at a more regular basis. Already in the queue is the long over due tutorial on David Lawrence’s woven hip harness, more entries in my ‘everybody’s a critic’ series, and other general hotness. In prep are my thoughts on Shibaricon, a few of the specific classes, and my reviews of the stage performances from the opening ceremony and Graydancer’s cabaret.

Stay tuned, kiddies.

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Rope orgy!

Rope orgy at outdoor dungeon at FetFest. 8 riggers & 10 models. Awesome.

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Like always, the BGSC adapts to their surroundings.  The Awakening at The National Harbor was begging to be dangled from.

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Glad to see you guys finally do this one. It's been at the top of my local list for over a year now!

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First, I love what was done here with the red rope. Good, solid design. But add in the zentai suite, a corset, and the white accent rope and it's just too much. Editing, my riggas, it's not just for writers.