just me

I am what I am. I'm not what you think I should be or what you want me to be. I'm just me. just a 50+ yr old finding my way and growing

[miyoriia]

Don't fuck around with hardcore kink if you won't take it seriously.

[miyoriia]

via @bissmut

Seconding this. It's not fun and it's not cute when you get hurt in a way that can't be fixed. Even if it feel like just pretend to you it is still real life with real people, and can have real consequences.

[sin-seraphilia]

These are good tags I hope you don't mind me taping them here <3

[skywalkerangst]

adding these tags too <3

[onelittlekingdom]

How do you tell if someone is genuine in their motivation vs good at presenting themselves as a good person (especially online)?

Time. People who have pure motivations toward you will invest lots of time, energy and patience towards you in pursuit of you. People who treat subs carelessly and selfishly don’t stick around and invest too much energy in one person. They’re like... “eh I don’t need a hard time and to waste mine, so I’ll go find someone less demanding.” Here’s often where the “too much” or “too little” syndrome starts. A shitheel will tell a girl he’s lost his patience with waiting for her to be comfortable, or vanish into thin air, and the trauma left behind is a girl thinking she was “too much” or “too little”, and this was the reason they were left. The truth is almost always that the shitheel really never saw or appreciated you for who you were, and you are lucky to be done with them. Make them take time to woo you and show you their intentions. That’s nothing you can get from a prospect in a couple of days of chatting with someone with flags and hints. Intentions take time to glean.

[simplymarge1974]

Hell yes..

[thehopefulquotes]

“I want to inspire people. One day I hope someone looks at me and says “because of you, I didn’t give up.””

— Unknown

[catchymemes]

[twofeetonthedashboard]

[bookkeepert]

[kubas-things]

[simplyasoutherngal1]

💯💯💯💯💯

[motivationquotesworld]

[masterxdanx]

[masterxdanx]

[thepersonalquotes]

[simplyasoutherngal1]

😊😏

[jimshortz]

[metapianycist]

hello, internet, this is your reminder that there is a difference between “I am only willing to have sex with people I know well” and “I don’t know if I’ll develop sexual attraction to a person unless I become basically best friends with them first, and there is no guarantee I’ll experience it even then.” the first set of quotation marks describes a common attribute of people who experience sexual attraction. the second set of quotation marks describes demisexuality.

[lakegirlfun]