Wdyt about svt member love language? And how will they do it?
a deep dive into what seventeen's love languages are
a/n: omg anon i wanna cry you're request is just 🤌,,, also this has been in my drafts FOR AWHILE so it's not perfect T__T
recieving : words of affirmation ; giving : giving gifts
being a leader of a fandom and 12 crazy members, it's normal too feel ver pressured that's why he enjoys being given words of affirmation
like after a tough day of work or after an interview this man would just like to hear that he did well :(
as for the giving end, he's not called carats' sugar daddy for nothing ridhdbdhd
he would LOVE to spoil his s/o, i mean he already spoils his members so much, what more his s/o?
receiving : quality time ; giving : acts of service
the members had said before that jeonghan is one of their most caring members but he does it in a lowkey kind of way... that's why i think he would give his s/o acts of service...
i can imagine him being the type of s/o who would do subtle little things, like for example arranging your vanity so it eould be easier for you to get ready in the morning
as for recieving, i think that he would LOVE to spend time with his s/o. he's a veey simple man who just enjoys your company
one of the scenarios i picture is you and him just casually building a lego set together while talking about god knows what
recieving : acts of service ; giving : words of affirmation & giving gifts
so for the giving part i could not for the life of me choose one so i put both of them there... so idky but joshua just has this comforting aura that would literally validate ur feelings, that settled the woa as for giving gifts, HANDMADE BRACELETS that's all i have to say
if he notices that you'd had a bad day he would give you a gift and smother you with compliments and affirmations to lift up your mood
now, joshua def seems the type of person who keeps their frustrations inside and deal with situations calmly. that could be very draining that's why i think it would be very comforting for him to not worry about certain things since you've done them already
an example of this would be washing the dishes after you guys ate dinner. it was his turn to wash the dishes but you saw how tired he was from dance practice since they had to dance over and over again until all of them got the dance right
recieving: quality time ; giving : acts of service
we all know that jun is one of the quieter members and needs a little push to speak up and interact, that's why i think he would love to recieve quality time from his s/o
i can just imagine him being the happiest when you and him do some sort of activity which ends up with random conversations throughout it i love jun so much i wanna cry
as for how he gives love i have one explanation:IN THE SOOP,,, DID YOU SEE HOW CONSIDERATE THAT MAN WAS TO HOSHI AND HOW HE COOKED HOTPOT FOR THE MEMBERS??? HOW HE DIDN'T ADD PEANUTS BC VERNON WAS ALLERGIC 😭
he would definitely be the type to cook for you just randomly, it wouldn't be an everyday thing ofc but if he sees you're feeling down or in a bad mood you best believe he's in the kitchen making you your favorite food
recieving : quality time ; giving : physical touch
quick little author's note,,, i was so tempted to put words of affirmation on recieving bc he just wants you to say that he's a tiger,,, HELP–
we already know from a few gose eps that hoshi is one of the adventurous people in the group so i think he would really love to have an s/o who would be down to do some "crazy" activities with him
ok but have you seen how touchy he is with his members???? HE DEFINITELY GIVES HIS LOVE THROUGH PHYSICAL TOUCH AND I WILL NOT EXPOUND ON THAT IDEA
also the way he expresses it can be lowkey or extra... lowkey like his thumb rubbing the back of your hand while he's holding it and extra like when he clings onto infront of everyone like a freaking koala!
recieving : quality time ; giving : words of affirmation
now this man is a man of a few words and most likely likes to be left alone doing his own thing, but i promise you he would appreciate just being the same room as you
he would really love reading together in the same room with your legs are on his lap and he's slowly caressing it stopping just to turn the page :((
as for giving i definitely think that it's words of affirmation... I MEAN HAVE YOU SEEN HIS WEVERSE POSTS?!?!??!!
also this man just gives of a really comforting vibe
recieving : words of affirmation ; giving : giving gifts
THIS MAN IS STRESSED 24/7 he produces all of their songs so having you beside him and saying he's doing great really warms his heart
plus, have you seen how flustered he is when the members themselves give him words of affirmations?! T_T
as for giving, giving gifts = writing songs. no need to go into that.
recieving : words of affirmation ; giving : physical touch
so first on giving part, have you seen him with his members????
have you seen the pics and clips of him cuddling his members? THAT ONE CLIP OF HIM CARESSING HAO'S FACE AND HAIR WHILE GIVING HIM A KISS?! that's all the explanation needed.
as for the recieving side, i feel like being the sunshine of the group can be very emotionally draining at times, so if he has someone to tell him he did good he would appreciate it
recieving : words of affirmation ; giving : acts of service & quality time
it's not a secret that he's one if not the most teased members. sometimes the teasing can accidentally get out of hand that he can doubt himself so having someone to constantly ground him and validate and praise him is something that he really loves
as for the giving part, i have two statements for you. and no, i will not be expounding on them.
he's seventeen's resident cook and cleaner.
he's seventeen own personal boyfriend who takes them out on dates.
receiving: quality time ; giving : acts of service
i really believe that hao is the type of person who doesn't express his feelings/love in big gestures but does it in subtle ways
like he would prepare tea for you or help you get ready, those types of things
on the recieving end , i just feel like he would be the type of person who loves getting to know their partner. so he really loves spending quality time
recieving : words of affirmation ; giving : acts of service
we all know that this man is talented af and he is also very humble, HAVE YOU SEEN HIM WHEN HE GETS PRAISED??!?!?!
so i think that he would love to rwcieve words of affirmation bc it just boosts his confidence and assures him that he really is talented
as for giving, idrk what to put here but i just put acts of service bc i know that this man would just bicker with you to know end yet take care of you as if you were the most precious thing in this world
s/o: can you please get me a glass of water seungkwan: get it your self lazy *proceeds to go to the kitchen and get you with water along with ice since you like it cold*
recieving : quality time ; giving ; giving gifts
being with you is enough for vernon, he's not very talkative but he enjoys the silent company that you give him whenever your with him
not to mention how this boy loves movies, so ur guys' quality time would probably movie dates and the like
as for giving gifts, it's now a known fact that vernon gets the members gifts late and just show up with it randomly, so it means that he is the same with his s/o T__T
he would just randomly come ip to you with a gift in hand, giving it to you, then leaving without any explanation
recieving : words of affirmation ; giving : acts of service
i think we can all agree that being the maknae or the youngest is really a lot of pressure and pushes us to prove ourselves, the same description can apply to dino
having his special someone validate and affirm him wod really be touching for him
as for giving, again being the youngest he is prone to teasing, whivh leads him not to show affection out on the open with some grand gestures
but nevertheless, he would make you feel loved by small actions by taking care of you with the small things. like taking out the trash and washing the dishes so you could have less things to worry about
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