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Let's find you your future partner or your partner in crime bestie. Depending on what you’re here for.

[larrietinder]

Have you been listening to love song playlists but unable to find your own person to duet? Are you tired of flirting with mutuals but never knowing if it’s just fun or love in the making? Do you wish that one anon would come off and DM you so you can share nudes? Does cozying up by a fire and reading your favorite fan fiction together with your special someone seem like a dream come true? If you’ve answered yes to any of the previous questions, you’re in luck! Here at Larrie Tinder, we’ve heard the feedback and suggestions from our users and we’ve decided to launch are own discord server! Find like minded people who want to meet, make friends, and find love in a safe, fandom inspired server. Along with curated chat rooms, we also boast activities such as game nights, movies and chill, and even mixers that help you find your special someone. You must be 18+ to apply. All applications go through a screen processes to make sure safety and compliance with rules will be met. This is a safe space for all. Please click here if you’d like to apply. The Larrie Tinder loves love and we can’t wait for you to find yours!

[larrietinder]

When will the server be active again?

I want to answer this with as much grace and compassion as I can, but I feel like I need to be honest. When we began Larrie Tinder, we had every intention of keeping the server engaged and active. We planned numerous events including movie nights, games, hangouts, and even speed dating. Yet, with every attempt to try and engage users, we were met with less and less attendance. This also included people saying they would be there and never showing up or communicating with us about not being able to go.

It doesn't seem to be a well known fact but if the mods plan an event, we rearrange our personal lives to be able to host and plan fun things to do. Both mods work full time jobs and have a lot of adult responsibilities that don't allow us to havr a lot of free time. So its been incredibly frustrating to have to move things around in our already incredibly busy schedules only for no one to show up. Or worse, only one person so group activities are not possible.

We've asked for feedback, for people to ley us know what you want to do, for any insight to make the server what you all want, and yet when we've attempted to instill those changes, the engagement is the same.

All in all, we are tired and not really sure how to move forward.

[larrietinder]

Will there be any Halloween things or Holiday Christmas things?

What sort of things were you thinking?

[larrietinder]

Hey, are you guys still active? Is the discord still up & running? 👀

Hey! Yes! It is up and running. Life has come between fandom life for the mods but it’s always open for you guys to get to know each other 🥰 We’ll try to schedule events in the future if enough people make the compromise to show up 🤍

[larrietinder]

Love the discord so much! will there be anymore events /dates soon? (friendship or romantic)

Yes! The mods are currently on vacation but we should be back next week some events!

[larrietinder]

do you need/want more mods to help with curating events?

I think we have it covered, thanks.

[larrietinder]

I don’t want to be rude but I have a genuinely question: why are there so many people in the discord when only the same 10 people have participated in events and are talking?

Not everyone feels comfortable in social situations or engaging with what are probably strangers to them. Sometimes it takes time for people to warm up in forums like this, and the point is not to dictate what/how people use the space - just that we created the space for them. I would bet that a lot of those people who aren't 'participating' want to, but certain things are holding them back.

[larrietinder]

Thank you for hosting all these events! 🩵 ps: a this is us (1D) movie night would be great

We will work on it.

[larrietinder]

Can we watch this is us in another movie night??? And will be the horror or lightly horror movie the 30th April? I thought we could see scream as it’s an iconic movie but it’s not too scary. Thanks for all the events 🩷

Sorry love, I was away from social media all weekend. I think we will be having another movie night soon, genre pending. So sure, you can always suggest something in the general chat too

[larrietinder]

Hello loves! Have you thought of changing the my policeman event? Since it’s the same day as aotv and Eurovision! Thanks 🫶🏽

Hi, love! Yes, definitely will be changing that one since we are also watching aotv there <3

[larrietinder]

Hello! Thank you for the events and the discord! I’ve loved all the events even if I couldn’t be in some of them because of time zones. I’d love to be part of the ‘create’ event but it’s a bit late on my timezone, so I was wondering if you could do one a bit earlier? I know that both mods are in different time zone than me (cest) but if it’s not available, that’s fine! I don’t want to bother <3

hello, love. The events we have already set will happen as scheduled but we’ll ask in the general chat about timezones for the next events, so we would really appreciate if you could all vote to get as many of us as possible in the future🤍

[larrietinder]

Hi hi what's the status of the event planning? Even something tiny tiny would be so cool

Sorry dear. I've been terribly sick with covid and it's kind of knocked me on my ass. I can reassure you that I am working on it now and you should see some updates shortly.

[larrietinder]

Will there be events that don’t use the voice channel? I would have loved to participate today but I have no clue how the channel works and really hate my voice. (Plus live with family so privacy can be hard)

Yes! Also, any event in the voice channels you can join without voice and still participate!

[larrietinder]

Hello! I just want to let you know that the discord is amazing. It has so many chat rooms and I can’t until we’ve talked more so we can scream even more together. Also want to mention that you can see how much you’ve worked on creating it and I know that the events will be amazing 🤍🤍

Thank you so much. We're definitely trying to give everyone the best experience possible.

[larrietinder]

Hello! When are the activities are going to start on the discord? Thanks for doing this <3

Thank you for your question. Considering the discord only started a few days ago, we're working on it! Announcements will be coming shortly.

[larrietinder]

Hiii! Can you explain how the discord will work? I mean, it’s there going to be a room and different things to do or how it’ll be??? Thanks for doing it <3333

Hi, love!

Basically it's a way for all the members of the larrie tinder to communicate more freely, in a safe environment. Everyone will post their profile within the first 24 hours of them joining the server and that's it! You're more than welcome to our group chat and our different channels including the photo album in which people can share pictures of themselves and everything else they are comfortable sharing. We also have different date rooms, that will be used for certain activities we will inform you all soon enough 🤍

Apply to join us here

[larrietinder]

Prefer to be called: Nikee (beelou)

Age: 26

Pronouns: she/her

Orientation: straight? Bi? Who knows? Not me!

Timezone: EST

Zodiac Sign: Sagittarius

Relationship Status: Single

Favorite Member of 1D: Harryandlouis

What are you looking for? Relationship? Casual? Friends? Friends! I love friends and who knows what will happen 👀

Favorite Color: purple

Favorite Food: chicken

Favorite Beverage: cherry coke zero

Favorite Season: spring

Least Favorite Color: brown

Least Favorite Food: seafood

Least Favorite Beverage: tea (I'm so sorry I try to like it I just can't lol)

Least Favorite Season: winter

What is attractive to you in a person?

Humor, ability to hold a conversation beyond the small talk

What immediately turns you off of a person?

Chewing with your mouth open. Gross

What are your red flags that you're guilty of?

I don't usually message first, I'll think you don't want to talk to me and I won't talk at all. Also not a great conversationalist. I really have trouble thinking of what to talk about

What red flags make you immediately run?

Rudeness, just overall not nice. Talking about people behind their backs, making fun of them, etc