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lavender | they/them | 21 a humble self-ship blog. see my pinned post for fictional others!

[lavender-selfship]

hello! my name is Lavender and I’m fairly new to the self-shipping community so please be gentle with me! more F/Os may be added with time. stop by and and say hi!

Basic About: Lavender | 21 years old | they/them pronouns please!

Things I am Very Fond Of:

domestic content

fluff

hijinks

Things I am Comfortable With

asks/ask memes

post interactions

anonymous asks

suggestive asks (please nothing blatantly nsfw, I’m not comfortable with that at the moment, we’ll see if I get there!)

Fictional Others:

Jackal (OC) - partner

Astarion (Baldur’s Gate 3) - partner

Roadhog (Overwatch) - husband

Gordon Freeman (HLVRAI) - crush

Ultra Magnus (Transformers: MTMTE) - conjunx endura/sparkmate

[yuzuibas]

new reblog game talk abt a trait/characteristic of your f/o that you really like that most people either don't notice or dislike about them

[self-shipyard]

Your F/O Right Now:

[enigmaticpink]

Yes this fictional character is both dangerous and hates literally everyone but what if I was the exception

[lavender-selfship]

HELLO it's been ages but I'm back!!!!! with a new f/o no less

[lavender-selfship]

What was it that made you fall for Jackal? :33

Tbh it was the banter! I am a huge fan of like, battles of wits and going back and forth trying to outsmart each other and we definitely do that a Lot!

[nougatships-deactivated20210316]

I recently discovered a few sources online that, for some money, they'll write you letters as a fictional character and send them to you.

I thought this would be nice for selfshippers who'd like physical letters that feel like they really got them from an F/O. Getting a real letter feels more special and personal so it'd be a neat experience!!

The first is Isekai Postal Service! This is a relatively new service with characters from only a few anime but its a really high quality service. You can find it here!

The other services I could find similar were from shops on Etsy! You request with the seller what character you'd like a letter from and they write it and send it to you.

You can find shops as such here, here, and here! Prices will vary so keep that in mind for these!!

I hope maybe a few people can get themselves something nice with these!!!

[lavender-selfship]

Send me asks about my fictional others?

[lavender-selfship]

Not to babble abt my F/Os but Jackal is simultaneously a bastard and so good and I’m gonna kick his ass but in a fun and cool way.

[lavender-selfship]

Coconut milk for whoever u want! -adhdselfshipper

do you like to go on vacation with your f/o(s)? Where do you like to go?

I’m going to do this with Gordon!

the best vacation for us isn’t really something big or extravagant, it’s actually more of a staycation tbh! staying home & playing video games, making home-cooked meals, and just. sleeping in a lot (we don’t usually get to bc we’re both very busy people) and relaxing is so nice!

[lavender-selfship]

In an agony of unspoken young love I watched you -adhdselfshipper

How long did it take for either you or your F/O to confess? Were either of you scared things wouldn’t go as planned?

you followed up with wanting this to be for Roadhog, so!

it took a while for one of us to confess, mostly because we both couldn’t believe that the other felt the same way. I was the one who confessed in the end but it was kind of clunky and badly worded but it worked! 

I think we were both scared it wouldn’t go as planned, so that makes it all the better w/ how well it’s actually gone!

[lilacs-flower-garden]

double date when you and your friend’s f/os get along: good

double date when you and your friend’s f/os are sworn mortal enemies and can’t stand each other’s presence: GREAT

[therequiemforthelost-archive]

Poetry/Literature Quotes Ask Meme

Okay so I’m a former AP Lit kid and I thought an ask meme with quotes from different poems and pieces of literature would be fun :>

Because I could not stop for Death he kindly stopped for me: What does your F/O do to help you relax when you are overworking yourself?

Will no one tell me what she sings?: What does your F/O sound like when they sing?

But thy eternal summer shall not fade: What about you makes your F/O fall for you even harder? What about your F/O makes you fall for them even harder?

In an agony of unspoken young love I watched you: How long did it take for either you or your F/O to confess? Were either of you scared things wouldn’t go as planned?

I came to see the damage that was done and the treasures that prevail: How do you comfort each other when you’re upset?

You know, I’m not afraid of you at all: Is there anything about your F/O that scares other people, but you find to be charming or endearing? Or do you find it scary too, but refuse to let it scare you?

It was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair: When times are tough, how do you and your F/O make it through?

Is all that we see or seem but a dream within a dream?: What dreams does your F/O have? Do you see yourself helping your F/O achieve them?

I can no longer remain away from you: What lengths has your F/O  gone to see you? Have you ever done the same?

And then my heart with pleasure fills and dances with the daffodils: What is dancing with your F/O like?

Quoth the Raven “Nevermore”: Freebie! Tell us any headcanon about your F/O or your relationship with them.

[paladinwife]

Self Ship Asks: Drinks Edition

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Cappuccino: what was your first date like? Whose idea was it? Did it go well?

Jasmine tea: how did you meet? What were your first impressions of each other? Did your view of them change over time?

Rose lemonade: what is your f/o(s)’s favorite flower? What is yours? Do you ever get each other flowers, or do you prefer other gifts?

Coconut milk: do you like to go on vacation with your f/o(s)? Where do you like to go?

Hazelnut hot chocolate: what do you do with your f/o(s) that’s the most comforting to you? How do they pick you up when you’re feeling down?

Orange soda: do you have any favorite memories with your f/o(s)? What are they?

Sparkling cider: have you and your f/o(s) ever been to a formal event together? Would you like to? What did/would you wear?

Passion-orange juice: how do you get along with your f/o(s)’s friends? How do they get along with yours? What do they think of each other?

Bubble tea: do you ever like to surprise each other? What kinds of surprises?

Chocolate chip frappe: what is the sweetest thing your f/o(s) has ever done for you? What is the sweetest thing you’ve ever done for them?

Strawberry banana smoothie: if you live with your f/o(s), what kind of routine do you have together? Do you have any rituals you like to do together?

Mocha: what is your favorite kind of date with your f/o(s)?

Chamomile tea: have you ever slept together with your f/o(s)? What position do you like to sleep in - cuddled up, spooning, maybe separate? Do you sleep better with them?

Vanilla milkshake: what is your happy ending with them? Do you get married? Do you travel together? What future do you want the most with them?