Lavender FemMenace

20s, lesbian

[lavenderfeminist]

Not a feminism post but if you have a Toyota 4Runner you should DM me and I will literally help you fundraise for a different car

[lavenderfeminist]

Anyway let this be a warning to everyone I know that if you share your secret social media account with me I WILL remember the @ and I WILL check it yearly even if we stop talking or you never bring it up again

[lavenderfeminist]

My guilty truth is that about three times a year I look at my first girlfriend's reddit account to see how she's doing (we still talk occasionally) and in response to someone else going through a shitty breakup she posted something about our breakup and how sad it made her but that it gets better and oh my god I still feel so guilty even though I've since apologized to her for the way I handled things and we've hung out and made amends. Sometimes you genuinely are the villain and all you can do with that is try not to repeat history.

[lavenderfeminist]

I've never wanted a job more in my LIFE, please root for me that this interviewer likes me

[lavenderfeminist]

It still wildly entertains me that my friend's transgender ex "girlfriend" has me blocked on here when I just hung out with the both of them a few weeks ago

[lavenderfeminist]

have you ever encountered a pillow princess who wants to learn to reciprocate? how does one go about teaching her? i don't know how to explain my ~process~ in words and i really want to fully "let go" with a girl the way she does with me...

no and this feels like a fake problem

[lavenderfeminist]

Btw I disappeared because I have a very busy life not because I'm no longer a lesbian or feminist

[lavenderfeminist]

Hello NYC lesbians if any of you wish to hang out I will be here until the end of the month

[lavenderfeminist]

love that u post about ur gf but miss when u also posted feminist content ❤️‍🩹 can we get some type of balance going 🙏

I appreciate that people like what I have to say but I'm in school and I also have a job...the fact that I post at all is a miracle and as you might imagine saying goofy stuff about being in love takes a lot less effort than crafting good takes. I have to be able to read feminist non-fiction to increase the knowledge base I have if I want to do anything other than repeat what a million women have already said before me..and that is very hard to make good progress on when one is in grad school.

[lavenderfeminist]

Girlfriend is asking me for my preferences and unfortunately for her she's so insanely my type that there's really not much to say

[lavenderfeminist]

I think it should be illegal for women's boxer companies to advertise with photos where the model lacks a bush

[lavenderfeminist]

Can you tell more about your girlfriend

Depends on what you want to know

[lavenderfeminist]

Insane seeing people on the internet thirst for a character who looks eerily like me because...that's just an average looking woman where is the taste

[lavenderfeminist]

It's crazy that I'm literally dating the most attractive woman I've ever met. I'm not even joking. If you asked me pretty much any time after age 16 who I found the most attractive it was her. Drop dead gorgeous woman.

[lavenderfeminist]

I love being normal (not a porn addict) and I love dating someone who is normal (not a porn addict) and I love having normal (uninfluenced by porn) sex!

[lavenderfeminist]

I'm out here moaning about how good the curry I just made is and my neighbor just walked past my open window :|

[lavenderfeminist]

Something weird about being called skinny when I have spent years accepting and being okay with the fact that I am literally not skinny anymore