feb 1st, 2014

Janaina Medeiros
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YOU ARE THE REASON

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Mike Driver

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almost home
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@lazarusuccubus
feb 1st, 2014
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I used to always post here when I was sad, right now I am very happy with my life.
Loving you is something I would never wish on anyone
Can't stop thinking about this book
perfume
moments from a little life
I always regret not taking enough pictures and videos, because I always miss them so much more
Saw a meme that says if Jude went to therapy everything will be fine. I know it's a meme but i think one of the points of this book is the fact that some people, no matter how hard they try (it's one of the most constant thing too that i've noticed through out the book: that jude is always trying) can never be fixed, not by love or patience or friendship or support or therapy. There are certain characters that are inevitably doomed by the narrative. That there are people who will never get better. People who died with the idea that their existence is something to apologize for, despite people who love them telling them otherwise. Sometimes love isn't enough, there is so much proof of that in this world, but many of us turn away from that fact, because in movies, in books, love was almost always enough.
“What he knew, he knew from books, and books lied, they made things prettier.” So it tried to show the grotesque side, something that pushes you to turn away, because you want the love to be enough, because you want him to get better but he doesn't. And that's why stories like these need to be told, that despite the love that was evidently there, it couldn't stop the inevitable, it didn't change their doomed faith, but it was there, it was there.
There are pretty stories and then there are the wretched ones, none of which are more worth telling than the other. Every story deserves a listener, even if it's hard to hear, especially if it's hard to hear.
“I weep because you cannot save people. You can only love them.”
— Anaïs Nin
He took pleasure in his friendships, and it didn’t hurt anyone, so who cares if it was codependent or not? And anyway, how was a friendship any more codependent than a relationship? Why was it admirable when you were twenty-seven but creepy when you were thirty-seven? Why wasn’t friendship as good as a relationship? Why wasn’t it even better? It was two people who remained together, day after day, bound not by sex or physical attraction or money or children or property, but only by the shared agreement to keep going, the mutual dedication to a union that could never be codified. Friendship was witnessing another’s slow drip of miseries, and long bouts of boredom, and occasional triumphs. It was feeling honored by the privilege of getting to be present for another person’s most dismal moments, and knowing that you could be dismal around him in return.
- A Little Life | Hanya Yanagihara
Hanya Yanagihara, A Little Life
A Little Life is not trauma porn and I'll tell you why.
If it was trauma porn it would just be about the pain but it isn't. Of course the pain is crucial to the story, but in the end it's not about pain, it's about love. And that's why people are so impacted by this story. Of course it's horribly sad and sometimes seems hopeless but love is always there. It begins with love and it ends with love and that's why it is so powerful. And love didn't change Jude. It didn't fix him. But that doesn't mean he didn't deserve it. That doesn't mean it didn't matter.
You’ll find your own way to discuss what happened to you. You’ll have to, if you ever want to be close to anyone. But your life—no matter what you think, you have nothing to be ashamed of, and none of it has been your fault. Will you remember that?
- Hanya Yanagihara, A Little Life
I weep because you cannot save people. You can only love them.
Hanya Yanagihara , A Little Life
dorohedoro - Q hayashida
fall in love with someone who wants you, who waits for you. who understands you even in the madness; someone who helps you, and guides you, someone who is your support, your hope. fall in love with someone who talks with you after a fight
Denholm Berry
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