อ อโ โก ห ๐ซ ฬ โAll grown-ups were once children... but only few of them remember it.โ ห ๐ ฬ โก โ
โโ Little Prince , Charlie, Friend โฎ French โฎ He/Him, They/Them, It/Its โฎ radqueer-adjacent
อโ โก ห ๐ ฬ โIt is such a mysterious place, the land of tears.โ หโจ โก โ
โธโธ โก Notes about me
โธโธ I am an alter in a median system. This means that there may be large breaks in periods of posting, or other inconsistencies. I am sourced from The Little Prince (Le Petit Prince) by Antoine de Saint-Exupรฉry, and do not consider myself source seperate, but do not treat me exactly as my source.
โธโธ I am bodily a chronominor, but I personaliy identify as agedox (age paradox), more specifically simultaneously ageless and ~12. Being treated as my age is not nessecaryโ given my behaviors and comprehension of serious topicsโbut please keep this in mind while interacting in any way that could be percieved as innapropriate (regardless of if sexual or not).
ย โธโธ I consider myself radqueer adjacent rather than purely radically queer. This does not mean I do not want to interact with radqueers, but keep this in mind when inquiring about stances. My opinions are typically on a case-by-case basis, but even outside of this I rarely participate in discourse. This does not mean my opinion should be assumed (and if you find yourself with any questions, feel free to ask).
โธโธ I do not have a highly functioning sense of empathy, to the degree of likely having alexithymia. This does not mean that I find myself to be apathetic, and I instead find that I care "too much" about most people and issues (likely to make up for the gap), just in a harder to identify way. I apologise if I come across as inarticulate at any point, and I truely do love listening to other people and knowing I am of any help.
โธโธ Despite considering myself an AAM, this does not mean that I desire to participate in the more paraphilic-heavy side of tumblr. While I have no issues with it, I find that a majority of radqueer tumblr is largely transharmed4transharmful and YAP4AAM thirst (for lack of a better term) accounts. I have little issue with people of this variety interacting with me or sharing possible feelings with me (as I see that this is a thing that commenly occurs on this part of the interwebs), please know that that is not the point of this account to any degree.
This is Ineffa on Friend's blog ... He has not been in front for quite a bit, but We would like to make it clear that Winterqueers are not welcome here. The entire term ignores the fact that racism against white people does not exist. The "shame" that comes from being white is not because of your race but because of the relation to your oppressors. The hatred towards you is not racism because it is not a group of persecutors pushing down against someone made to be smaller thanโbut instead it is those harmed by said persecution voicing their hatred towards what they've faced and continue to face.
i hate when girls feel dumb for trying to see the best in people and then end up hurt or disappointed like no!! itโs those people that were dumb for misleading you. they took advantage of your kindness and generosity, and theyโll rot for itย
-> for those who identify as / want to have a dream as their current reality they are living in .
PERMADREAMING
-> for those who identify as / want to be permanently in a dream or dreaming .
TRANSDREAMMEMORIES
-> for those who identify as / want to have the dreams they've had / have as their actual real memories and experiences . Can also be selective , where you only want / identify as selected dreams being your actual experiences / memories .
Feel free to archive any of my terms / flags , with credits !
Despite not being objectum, I entirely understand why one would be attracted to instruments ... Romantically at least. They're such amazing intricate things that require much skill and time to use and understand fully. Recently I have become most interested in the French horn and the cor anglais (which actually has little to no roots in England!) ... Though on the other hand, some are quite silly. Take some time out of your day to look up a double contrabass flute.
Space is so lovely. Beyond my source, just looking up at the sky and knowing theres so much doesn't fill me with dread but instead with this unimaginable hope. Hope for what I am still quite unsure, but it makes me feel warm.
I sincerely have zero clue where or when the idea that I'm highly in tune with myself came from (amongst my peers), because I am so unaware of my own emotions. I suppose pondering so much can come across that way.
I think my worst trait may unironically be finding everything cute. If it isn't causing disfavouredโor to be more specificโnonconsenting harm to others, it is cute. While this is mostly about the creatures who will bite my face off, this is also about people. Non-romantically, everyone is so cute. The idea of people going around in their day to day life is cute to me in the same way a little animal making decisions is cute when you think about it. Everyone is doing such a good job contributing to the world around them and it makes me happy to realise that these people all exist and will continue to exist after me.
I think I need to lay off of the hope-and-togetherness posting ... so here are some mundane things about me! ... Cut to spare your for you page.
1 ใข I absolutely adore theology! It has been one of my biggest passions for around four-ish years now! Faith is so curious to me in the best way, the love and fear in something so large pulls me in, despite my being an atheist
2 ใข I study marine science! Not in college... just casually. I dont think I have a favourite fish, but I love most of them! I wish more studies on antivenom with fish were done.
3 ใข I am a pretty bug music enthusiast ! I really like most soft music, but I tend to find myself not being a fan of most popular music in a lot of spheres im in, unfortunately.
4 ใข I work with animals !! I love kitties ... they are some of my favourite animals and I've only come to love them more via working with them
5 ใข I adore making friends so greatly, I don't mean surface level relationships, but I most constantly long for more friends to have deep discussions with. I'm told I'm very strong and passionate emotionally, and some people have gone as far as to say they feel inadequate compared to me on conversation. I do not think this is true! I love hearing everything people have to say more than anything else
6 ใข I was almost an ENGLISH major. Then I realised that I'd end up being a teacher and remembered that I'm not the best with children.
7 ใข I love puzzles. Every single kind. If you have puzzle game reccomendations I want them. I love escape rooms, I love internet games like wordle, I love sudoku. All of it. I love things that force you to think for a little while.
8 ใข I am a writer! We are working on a book, but I personally write poetry and contemplative essays and papers! I do not publish my work, but those who have read it tend to applaud my introspection.
9 ใข I dont watch movies ... I hate to admit it but I have failed to watch every staple film anyone has ever mentioned. I have always been a book lover, and do believe that it has an amazingly distinct way of capturing the mind (though not to say that film lacks this ... the way one works with a camera can tell you a lot!)
10 ใข Despite my endless love for humans, natal or otherwise, I am very afraid of babies, toddlers, and the elderly. This isnt a very "fun" fact, but a bizzare one nonetheless. They're just frightening!
As someone who doesnt experience empathy very highly, those who don't care about issued if it doesn't apply to them in the most direct manner irk me very badly. It isnt ABOUT your ability to feel empathy for others, nor is it about forcing you to feel pity or whatnot. If you do not stand for the people around you, you will have nobody to stand for you. As an example, there is someone in our community who does not care about non consentual harm simply because it doesn't impact them. Great. Their choice. But consider for only a moment, if you let bad things happen to everybody on and on, it will eventually be you. When it is you there should be people to care. Regardless of your stance you deserve care. Give that back. It was never about the empathy. Stand together or fall apart, regardless of your emotions. Please.
It floors me how quickly people discard and invalidate things as soon as they arent a part of the standard super-progressive ideology. Phobias are wholly unconsidered and ignored (waves at @permaprof , which I should add that h?s anons actually reminded me to make this post), and asexual and sex repulsed people are as well. This community is so hyperfocused on Only Paying Attention To The Main Things (transids and paraphilias) that we forget to be sincerely mindful of EVERYONE around us. Have more consideration. Tag your nsft and gore, read peoples boundaries, consider every perspective before making mindless arguments or claims, build a real understanding of the people around you. I love everyone here so much, but it is so out of hand what people let go by. I have hardly seen any blogs as of late that haven't had some problem with their boundaries being crossed, getting roped into drama, or being outcasted by the community. This is a safe space, not a Fend for Yourself side of the internet. Make it what you want it to be. You are the creators of your own community. Remember that harm without consent is harm that should not exist. Hold yourself to these standards.
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