Here is a tip for y'all: stop feeling betrayed.
I mean I get it, these people feel close to you because they appear to make a lot of connections to you DIRECTLY.
Let me give it to you straight; THESE IDOLS, NO MATTER WHO, ARE TRAINED FOR YEARS.
DO YOU REALLY BELIEVE THAT CHARISMA ISN'T ONE WHOLE POINT OF THE EDUCATION?
This is not the first time something happened, and i am sadly sure enough it won't be the last time.
THESE IDOLS ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS.
It is their job to give you comfort and nice feelings, it is easier to be loved when you act lovely.
As harsh as it sounds, that's how one collects fans. They literally have to act with aegyo.
They have been trained in acting. In behaviour. In keeping a performance on even offstage.
When they make you happy, you will believe your happiness comes from them. It doesn't. You just have a deep wish to meet people as nice as them and you will. But don't live in a dream world.
It is perfectly fine to get happiness from the music and funny videos, but don't get attached. Don't make yourself DEPEND on this.
It is really hard in a business like this to keep reality from fiction, and I say this as someone (who is actually not allowed to say more) who has been in a spot very close to that business.
What you see is a presented image.
There are scripted things you can't even imagine.
It hurts, I get it, especially when it feels like wasted support.
But it is also a world full of accusations, false information and lies. This industry is FILLED TO THE TOP with mental health issues and pressure.
And a lot of criminals. That's how it is. You only see their faces, not their actions.
The worst thing you can do is spread something you cannot certify as right by yourself.
This is a pure game of might and abused power in every corner.
Don't get into it because in all honesty, you make it worse for the actual investigation.
Let the hurt out and get away from the drama.
It's okay to feel supported and motivated by idols. But don't give them the responsibility of your life or your trust. You know how different you act when you work and a coworker doesn't know you. Or when you go to school and someone asks you something personal.
The privacy and reality have been melted into this mess of the kpop industry LONG ENOUGH.
THIS is what needs to stop. Big time.
And I am talking China, Japan and Korea here.
Half of that shit is none of my business. At least half of it, may I say.
You can never be sure if trusting someone is the right choice, but if that someone never had a conversation with you and all you know of them is audios, clips and pictures, that connection you feel is not really there. You are attached, baby, I am so sorry because I don't mean to hurt you with my words. But I am serious.
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