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there’s so much joy in living a private life. looking really pretty and not posting it, going to a new city and not telling anyone, getting a fancy dinner by yourself dressed up.... like it just feels like life.. i feel alive and less preformative

otherjaved

Imagine finding both love and friendship in one person

#done #happiness

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At some point you’ve made a subconscious decision that’s saved your life without even realising

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Persephone knew all about damage and secrecy and witchcraft of the loving kind. She worshipped her night flowers. She forgave the darkness. Completely voluntarily. She didn’t need a reason for forgiving it.

Lola Ridge, from To the Many; Collected Poems of Lola Ridge; “Hellish,” (via violentwavesofemotion)

assyrianjalebi

fluffygif

alaskazoo on ig

atlantisinsirri

searchingapples-blog

Over a year ago ouat ended and swanqueen is still my otp and I love them just as much as I did when I started watching back in season one. Reblog and show me how many Swanqueen shippers are still around.

mostlycatsmostly

Pickles and Sage.

(submitted by @eternallyanxiousandstressed)

amargedom

““Life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans.””

— If I Stay (via naturaekos)

blackwoolncrown

“Aw man I wish you could like go on ~platonic dates~ with friends and like sleep in the same bed as your friend and cudddle with your friends and have someone that you don’t just hang out in groups with but like, have long deep conversations and share secrets”

I don’t know what the fuck happened to you guys younger than me in your formative years but literally everyyyything you’re describing is something that was included in the concept of ‘best friends’ as it was repeatedly presented to me as a child and teen.

SOmething happened along the way that got so many people thinking that ‘friend’ is ‘anyone and everyone you repeatedly have ‘friendly’ contact with’ and that’s NOT TRUE.

We need to seriously bring back the word ‘acquaintance’. You need to familiarize yourself with it.

Because all of you complaining about having friend groups full of people who talk shit about you or exclude you? You don’t have friends, those are acquaintances.

Those ‘friends’ who don’t actually know much about you and aren’t that concerned about you? Acquaintances.

Those ‘friends’ you know who wouldn’t go one on one with you shopping, to lunch, to the movies? Acquaintances.

You are acquainted. You know each other. You are friendly towards each other. But that’s it. You’re not friends.

Somewhere along the way the term ‘friend’ became ‘anyone you know and talk to in a positive manner’ and that’s fine but in that case we ALSO need to re-legitimize the term best friend.

Because to a one, every post whining about ‘platonic mates’ and pining for ‘platonic dates’ is literally just someone wishing they had a best friend.

All of them.