anyway! i just want to say this trend of straight people saying “we’re sorry you felt like it was homophobic but it actually wasn’t” is extremely gross and harmful. by invalidating our feelings, they are able to shift the blame to us. they are able to say we made up this problem and, therefore, our reaction was overblown, too strong. this is not true. our feelings are real and valid and their inability to recognize this just shows how correct we are, honestly.
















