Long distance love or to go with him?
Having a long distance relationship can be hard to sustain, it can be torture, it can be pointless but sometimes it can be worth it. I have had my share of long distance relationship but this time I want to write about a friend. She met a guy, seems like a nice guy, hung out in a group, I saw he treated her well and could tell he is really into her and her...well, she let him be into her, lol. But, that was at first, now she is into him as well, and very much. They have been seeing each other for about 2 months I believe, not really keeping count but it has not been long, and they both feel like it works. He won her over by showing her something she had not experienced before in a relationship and she won him over because she is awesome, I mean she is my friend and I know she is worth it, lol. Anyways, when they started taking it seriously, she knew he was moving to another state for a job, she knew and she thought it would not matter because she did not think she would fall for him, maybe like him enough to hang out and enjoy the company and that would be it but she was wrong and now she feels a little upset that it got this far knowing he would leave but at the same time, she is having the time of her life and even talking about maybe, a possibility of going with him. But of course, there are things stopping her, fear, timing, security, etc. We could agree that it is too soon, that they do not know each other enough to take that step but I told her she had to make the decision for herself, that if she wanted to leave because she wants to live in a another city, because she truly cares for him and wants to stay in a relationship or simply because they are in love and plan to make the move together, whatever her reasons, she would have to be sure about it. I also brought up the fact that there is not much holding her back here, barely her job, and some family members but nothing that she would cry for. I hope whatever decision she makes, she is happy and if she does decides to go with him, I hope that it works out and if she decides to stay and wait for him, I hope they can wait a year to be together again and maybe pick up where they left off or start over. I am a believer in love and I believe love can accomplish a lot, but it is not enough to sustain a relationship. I hope they do not hurt each other but it could happen. Or it could be the best decision they ever made...to be together.









