opinions of a baby les

cis lesbian / 18 / left-leaning centrist / transmed / pro nb / exclusionist / anti-sjw / anti-mogai / anti-terf / disciple of lesbian jesus

[etrogim-deactivated20200109]

no offense but it doesn’t feel cool or fun or edgy to be lonely and bitter all the time and i’m really looking forward to loving and being loved

[gayhyuna]

[daddy-doms-are-gross]

make no mistake–reclaiming your sexuality, autonomy, and womanhood from a lifetime of socialization telling you that those things aren’t yours to begin with is not easy. really taking that hard look at yourself and consciously deciding to pursue fulfillment and happiness and contentment will likely be one of the hardest choices you will ever make. liberating yourself from this idea that your right to expression is owned by someone else according to his social birthright is a process that may take you years. but it is worth it. it is so incredibly and indescribably worth it. you owe it to yourself to at least try. you deserve to live your life as and for yourself.

[butchy-femme-fatale]

Straight people don’t realize their own privilege. They can’t ever understand how it feels when your own sexuality, something that is such a deep and primal part of us all, is alienated. When you don’t even understand what love is because the way you see love all around you is vastly different from the way you experience it. You have to relearn how to feel and how to act. Reading about compulsory heterosexuality made me feel so validated because I realized that I’m not broken. I was mad at myself for so long because I couldn’t understand my own feelings. That’s normal. That’s okay. Do whatever you need to for your own journey. I haven’t figured it out yet, but for me the biggest step has been opening up to listen to myself.

[theuninspirednovelist]

Reblog to save a Muslim

As you probably know, Punish A Muslim day is coming up on the third of April. Any Muslim who lives in England is in danger so please stay home. Don’t send your children to school. DON’T GO OUT on the 3rd of April. My non Muslim friends, please reblog this, one of your followers could benefit from it.

[asmaspeaks-archive]

Just an add on: some people in Chicago, Illinois were also talking about getting these letters too. If you live in North America or the UK area, take extra caution - travel in groups of three or more, don’t go out past night, don’t attract attention, GET PEPPER SPRAY or other essentials, and most importantly, stay safe. 

May Allah have mercy on us all and keep us safe.

[turtlepowerriiise]

Wait what the fuck? Is this real?

[trash-bookworm-deactivated20191]

I’m a Muslim. Guys. PLEASE. Spread this. PLEASE. For me, for all us Muslims, to keep us safe. We can’t deal with all the controversy. PLEASE.

[genderoutlaws]

i hate how often i have to say this but! once again:

if you think transgender women are the ultimate predatory oppressor, it’s time for you to grow the fuck up or stop interacting with my blog lol. i’m not interested, i don’t want your commentary, i don’t want you to tell me i’m a brainwashed genderist, i do not care what you have to say. trans women are my sisters and allies and i will not turn my back on them.

[dyketm]

i love butches

[blockanaphobe]

dyketm is a known aphobe

[degloved]

how is this real

[ratsouped]

clicking on their blog and reading “forty-five-year-old demiheteroromantic cis woman” felt like a baseball bat connecting with my balls at top speed

[degloved]

my dear friend rat scummy i have to congratulate you on the funniest addition to any post i’ve ever seen

[demiiwhiffin]

one long scream !

[mybuckystar]

some things i’ve learned about adulthood that no one warns you about

you will in fact continue to have acne past the age of twenty

you will eventually hit a point where you start to feel icky inside if you go too long without eating some sort of vegetables

depending on your current level of athleticism/physical activity as well as the kind of activities you did as a kid/teenager, your joints may start acting whack in your twenties, despite what everyone says about that not happening until middle age

eventually you will reach a point where you wonder how you were able to stay up until 3am nearly every night and be perfectly fine the next day (and this moment will come much younger than you expect)

it is much harder to meet new people after you’re done with school than sitcoms would have you believe

don’t let society tell you shit: it is perfectly acceptable to live with your parents after you graduate, there’s no need to be broke and miserable just so you can have some misguided attempt at independence straight out of school

[babyfairy]

i honest to god just saw somebody, not even kidding, say that it’s “triggering” for them when LGBT people say being ace/aro doesn’t make them inherently LGBT and that it “makes them feel unsafe” and “gives them anxiety” LMFAO

like you know what’s triggering? you know what makes ME feel unsafe? having people who say shit like this

or this

or this

or this

or this

feel entitled to our safe spaces and call themselves “queer” when this is how they see us. not only that but i’ve encountered several ace/aro people who vehemently deny the rampant homophobia/transphobia/racism/ableism/etc that manifests itself in their communities, even though there’s shitloads of proof lol! but heaven fucking forbid anybody says that being aro/ace doesn’t make you inherently LGBT because it’s “~triggering and makes you feel unsafe uwu~”

and even now i know there are plenty of aro/ace people who will see this post and start with that whole “you’re an acephobe! you’re aphobic! you’re a gatekeeper!” bullshit because so many of them seem to care more about “aphobia” than the fact that their community is violent, not to mention extremely uncomfortable and unsafe for actual LGBT people who also happen to be aro/ace. but my queer ass is supposed to care about how triggering it is for you when people tell you the truth? that being aro/ace doesn’t make you inherently LGBT? like we’re supposed to just accept people who think like this into our safe spaces when shit like that literally gets us fucking killed?

that shit boils my fucking blood lmao.

[lesbianherstorian]

edit of keith haring’s “dancing figures”. he would have celebrated his 60th birthday today

[ierotits]

For anyone curious, he was a gay activist and artist who campaigned for safe sex in gay communities, aids awareness, and other issues, who died of Aids in 1990

[spill-the-gender-tea]

Your opinion on people who identify as pansexual and all the terminology it entails?

To me, I personally see it as transphobic and biphobic. I used to ID as pansexual, so i have a history with it. To me, i personally hate the term. But, if someone were to ID as pan… good for them i guess? 

The term was coined by Sigmund Freud.  If you dont know who this man is, the TDLR; is that this man believes every person psychologically wants to have sex with their parents as a child. 

As you can see, This isnt really a good start. The term was coined to encompass literally everyone. This includes bestiality and so on. the term for “you can love anyone” 

The meaning was later changed, and then WHIPED from the face of the internet because people dont want to be associated with that, as they should.

Overall, the term is bad. Its just bisexuality, with specifying you can love “anyone” even though there are only two sexes. (bi still includes intersex people, because they normally want to live their life as just the sex they are. Hell, micropenis counts as an intersex disorder :/ ) That’s my take.

[spill-the-gender-tea]

Hate to break it to you, but you dont have to have preferences for bisexuality. You can be bisexual and not have a preference. 

[ghostly-nyahs-deactivated201904]

I can’t believe saying something like “lesbian is a woman only term” is suddenly wrong and gets you attacked here

[alexmishma]

[imverybluntt]

PARENTING A++

[bando--grand-scamyon]

THE PARENT I ASPIRE TO BE WHEN THAT TIME COMES

[themasterpupil]

Wasn’t even his son and he gave him the proper parenting for real

[lattelilac]

Can’t wait for the day I’m covered in tats & going home 2 my sweet honey

[squidbroom]

homophobes are not allowed to use computers because the inventor of the computer was gay

[local-chibi-girl]

People think this is just a joke but Alan Turing was the inventor of the computer and his sexuality was illegal in his time (which was not even 100 years ago) and he was arrested. They put him on drugs that destroyed his genius brain and committed suicide a year after being covicted. He was gay and a war hero as well. He helped to break enigma which was a German code that they put all their messages through. He shorted WWII by two years and saved so many lives in the process.

[anticritical-lapis]

Friendly reminder that if not for Alan Turing you wouldn’t be reading this post and we might be ruled by the nazis

[addycted]

The Alan Turing statue on my campus

[beefgameplays-deactivated202105]

wait fuck this is soooooo important always reblog

[spillybun-deactivated20190921]

I think seeing people in their 20´s and 30´s as “old” is pretty unhealthy tbh.

[spillybun-deactivated20190921]

This post was hijacked but my point remains, you don’t turn old the instant you stop being a teenager. Let people enjoy being young adults, stop making teenagers anxious that their life ends the minute they hit twenty, or adults feel like they can’t have fun anymore.

[sushinfood]

This is one of the best posts on this Hellsite.

[lesbe-logical]

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