Thinking about getting a Sugar Daddy? Here’s some advice from one
So Coronavirus is interrupting your bag. School’s online, exams cancelled? Your job got you on furlough or fully unemployed? Thinking of getting a sugar daddy? Here’s some advice from one I met last year. (We never got into an arrangement but actually became good friends).
Don’t worry girl, you’re not the only one f****** over by corona. Here are 5 quick tips to know before/ when you start sugaring.
1. Your best chances of finding an SD are on seeking.com
Anyone else who contacts you anywhere else is probably a scammer.
A man on tumblr doesn’t want to be your friend. Someone randomly sliding into your DMs doesn’t have the best intentions. If you want to rid yourself of time wasters the best place to head to is SA. Here you’re already clear of what both your intentions are.
2. There’s someone out there for everyone
So before you ask am I skinny, tall or light enough just remember this; There are different preferences out there. What is your selling point? Are you curvy, athletic, or unbelievably pretty? Showcase that. The bowl is saturated, make sure you complete your profile like your life depends on it.
When posting pics on SA, you need to have a good range of pictures. Remove the exif data. Don’t use pictures posted anywhere else. Make sure you show off your smile and body. None of your pictures have to be nudes/ nsfw.
3. Never give out any personal information
Unfortunately I spend a good amount of time looking through girls profiles and every now and then there are subtle identifying info left for the world to see. Get a burner. Use Google Voice. Use a different name. Don’t post pictures in your university clothing. Maintaining anonymity is easier if you’re in a big city. If you’re a small town gal, work extra hard to make sure you keep your identity under wraps.
4. No sex on the first date
So you made it to your first date (Meet & Greet), awesome! Now this is a chance to get to know each other and see if there’s any chemistry. Always meet in a public place like a bar or a coffee shop. Don’t expect payment beyond transportation costs. Don’t go back to their car, hotel or home. This is a stranger! Let’s be smart and not let desperation for money cloud your judgement.
5. Establish what you both want.
You can actually discuss this before you even meet. Or you can wait until after your M&G. Either way, don’t be afraid to talk about the two most important aspects of a sugar relationship: Sex and MONEY. Please don’t wait for them to bring it up. Start with ppm (pay per meet), then an allowance later on.
CASH ONLY. For your privacy, cash only and upfront before any sex. Bank transfers can be disputed and apps can show your information.
My rule is to think about how much a salary is for vanilla job at my qualification level. For example £1600. Divide this by the number of dates you’re available to go on per month plus travel and other expenses. £1600/4 = £400 minimum per meet.
Don’t fall for the YouTubers, Instagramers and other influencers telling you that men will pay ££££ for minimal work e.g. platonic/ feet pics. I’m sorry, they won’t.
This is real sex work and if done blindly, it can harm your life or your career.
TL;DR: Use SA, Get a burner, money before honey, if it sounds too good to be true it probably is and don’t let the idea of money cloud your judgment.
For more advice, send me a message or head to sugarlifestyleforum
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