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I love when California feels like this

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Beautiful day

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I put on my denim shorts and a cigarette had to happen…

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First time wearing a blue shirt in years. Walked into work and all my coworkers were flabbergasted to see me in anything other than black loll

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You are still your most beautiful. The most beautiful work of all

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Finally finished Just Kids gifted to me by my sweet J

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Hot neighbor come love meeee lol

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Even if I ever stop crushing on u, I’ll still admit I had a crush on you if somehow your the topic of discussion years later lol your that cool to me

This is so beautiful to me. I wanna print this and frame it

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What are your thoughts on women having children passed the age of thirty? And on aging in general? All I seem to hear is age is in the mind, and time is a perception ..,

Well shit lol. I’m a firm believer in do whatever you want. Something that works for one person doesn’t work for another. With stuff like this I think it’s important that the answer is your own and not something forced on you. My mom had me at 32 and my sister at 35. It’s never affected either of us. If I were to have kids I’d want to have them later in life around the same age bracket as my mom. I think aging is beautiful. Life’s too short to get caught up in worrying about that.

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Can you share some about your melatonin experience and how it works for you? I’ve heard for some people less is more, so 3mg vs 10mg actually works better? I’ve been looking into because my sleep schedule is opposite so I’m up all night😩any insight?

I take 10 mg extra strength from the Olly company. I really like it. I don’t take them all the time. I usually use them as a trade-off from my sleep edibles if I don’t feel like being high. And I started using them to help regulate my sleep schedule since I have to wake up super early for my job. In the beginning, I did notice a little bit of lethargy in the morning after taking them, but with regular intake and ensuring you’re getting enough sleep that feeling goes away. It’s definitely worth a try. I would start off with the regular dosage and see how it makes you feel. Doing things like lowering the lights and putting yourself in bed helps, it’s kind of counteractive if you’re on your phone and staying up late. It’s not an Ambien though I wish it was lol

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Were there any unexpected expenses (besides airfare, lodging, food and transportation) on your Japan trip? I just got a new job and am trying to budget for a little trip to Japan !

And , was there anything you did differently on your second trip, based on hindsight experience from your first trip?

Thank you so much <3

Well the first time I went I was there for 2 weeks with a friend. The second time I went I was there for a month solo. So $$$ wise the trips were drastically different. I did have to pay for an extra night at one of my stays because of a typhoon warning but that was the only unexpected thing really. I paid for all of my stays prior to getting there so I didn’t have to worry about it coming out of my allotted budget. As far as things I did differently the second time around, I did a lot more prepping. The first time I went, it was spontaneous. I wasn’t even interested in Japan lol. So I was going along with the flow. It was a lot of culture shock so I was cool just doing whatever she wanted to do. The second time I went, I did a lot more research since I had to entertain myself. One thing I would highly recommend is if you’re gonna take the Shinkansen book your tickets prior to arriving at the station. The lines were actually ridiculous and it’s so stressful to be on a time crunch like that. And another thing that I’m remembering is, if you’re gonna be traveling around a lot and plan on carrying a lot of luggage, utilize their luggage services or calling taxis. I will never lug around luggage like that in Japan again. It’s so fucking miserable.

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former french movie anon cause i have more thoughts: you make wearing black so chic!!!!!! and also makes me happy to see i've gotten tons of comments in the past about wearing it during summer but i've always thought it can work so so well and be classy and freeing... i dont think color should be restricted to warm seasons i feel like i accessorise and slap on many more colorful layers during fall and winter than anything. would love if u posted ootds more

I feel like I’m not good at taking outfit pictures but I do be throwing fits fr so maybe I’ll try. I almost always wear all black. It’s not intentional I’m just too far gone at this point to where I put on color and feel super out of body. I’ve been trying to integrate more earth tones though but I always end up with a bag full of black clothes lol. I believe in wearing whatever you want. We restrict ourselves so much in some many different ways. Wear black in the summer and white in winter loll free yourself

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i love u so bad everything u post makes me so happy then i remember u rated the french movie romance (1999) a high score and i start sobbing uncontrollably but youre perfect

I love that movie lol Cathrine Breillat gets me like no other. What about it makes you wanna sob?? Lollll

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