Why I still think Ellie and Sebastian are still together.
I want to get it all out as to why I think they are together. Many of you donāt seem to understand for months I waived back and forth but now Iām nearly sure they are together. I didnāt come to this decision lightly. The last straw for me was Turks and Caicos.Ā
Let me start by saying, many of you seem to be under the impression that if we arenāt fully seeing something it canāt have happened. This is both before and after December. Many fans seem to have been completely shocked that Sebastian was able to hide Ellie well for months and couldnāt believe the relationship wasĀ ārealā orĀ āseriousā because of that. But let me pull a quote fromĀ T@ylor Sw!ftĀ
āā¦Because itās 2017 and if you didnāt see a picture of it, it couldnāt have happened right? Let me say it again, louder for those in the back⦠We think we know someone, but the truth is that we only know the version of them that they have chosen to show us.āĀ
I know T@ylor probably isnāt popular on here (for good reason) but I think this is one of the most honest quotes about the current celebrity culture. Sebastian can disappear in NYC for months on end without us really spotting him, he can appear suddenly and be seen over and over again by fans. I donāt believe thatās by chance. There is this beautiful quote by Marylin MonroeĀ āWant to see her?ā The story goes that she was walking in the streets with a friend (no hair, makeup, in jeans, etc) and the friend was astonished that nobody was noticing who she was. Marylin was the most desired woman in the world, how could people not notice her? The friend asked her how and she said to herĀ āWant to see her?ā and she turnedĀ āitā on. Soon they were flanked by cameraās, fans, etc.Ā
Celebrities can go without being seen when they donāt want. We know this, we know they hire paps and show up at convenient places where people will see them. This isnāt to say they canāt be stalked and chance encounters donāt happen. But for the most part, they can choose if they want to be seen. Rarely are they taken aback. I donāt believe Sebastian is different, he knows how to play the game. He dated 3Ā āItā girls. He knows.Ā I donāt think itās so strange coincidence that we use to go every single week with getting photos of Sebastian with a fan, and since December weāve got a handful of photos. Itās intentional.Ā
So please keep all that in mind when I bring up why I still believe they are together.Ā
Back in February we a had a recent photographer of Ellie claiming she had a boyfriendĀ
She then got more people questioning her and she did backtrack but she never (from what I saw) denied she had a boyfriend. All she said wasĀ
Sorry, itās small but she basically said: āDoes it say I wrote that.ā The person had sent in an ask from my blog. I donāt really see this as a denial. I see this as a person getting freaked out her private messages were being sent around to blogs on the internet.Ā
2: Ellie deleting and going private
Suddenly in Febuary Ellie went private and then took the time to delete thousands of Sebastian fans following her. This happened when she returned to NYC in February.Ā
Ellieās a model, and in the world of Instagram having followers matter. More than anything else right now, having followers matter. Ellie doing this would have infuriated her agency, so why would she do it. She did this months after the drama had died down. She probably wasnāt getting the same stream of hate, deleting then is odd. Unless it was the direction of someone. Given this happened right as she came back to America I suspect Sebastian directed it (maybe as a condition of staying together).Ā
This is a friend of Sebastian, who works for the Ronald McDonald House. She claimed in a post that Sebastian during a visit spoke out againstĀ āCyberbullyingā and claimed in a comment below he had been a recent victim of it (I donāt have screenshots of it but if anyone does please send them in). To me this doesnāt sound like he thought Ellie was in the wrong, and if he didnāt think she was wrong why would he break up with her? (This can also be applied to Netania as well)
4: Sebastian disappearance
Sebastian disappeared, we hardly have gotten posts or fan sightings. Why is he hiding away? I guess you can argue heās over fans, but I think heās hiding to make sure he and Ellie arenāt seen together.Ā
5: Sebastianās comments at Rome Con
When asked why he left Instagram he said thisĀ āThe internetās a funny thing. I love it because it can really bring people together. You can bring focus to the right sort of situation and I love it for that. But itās also a place of extreme hate and miscommunication and lies and this kind of negativity.āĀ
So it really does seem like Sebastian does not think Ellie (and perhaps even Netania) did no wrong. That the internet ganged up on an innocent victim. Side note: this is the real problem with cancel culture, it allows the person being canceled to play the victim. So if Sebastian doesnāt think Ellie did anything wrong why would he break up with her? The story of the breakup theory is he found out and dumped her. But if he didnāt think she was wrong why would he? If he either A. didnāt care or B. believed it was all lies why would he? They could have been planning for months to be apart most of the winter. Ellie probably had planned to visit Oz for months and Sebastian probably knew his film schedule for a while. Them not being together this winter could have been something they knew last fall.Ā
6: Turks and Caicos GateĀ
Probably the biggest piece of evidence. Ellieās birthday happened on the 30th of May and that weekend all her friends were in Turks and Caicos. Her friend Dugald posted thisĀ
We have Ania (another friend) laughing about people being cut out of the photo. Someone besides Will (Sebastianās friend). To make it all the more damning Dugald privated his account after this photo was put out. He has since reopened. This is a theme of Ellieās friends, post something sketchy then private. Dugald did this at Will and Alissaās wedding a year ago, he posted a photo of Sebastian and Ellie and then quickly privated.Ā
To make the matter all the more damning we figured out it was a man and woman who were cut from this photo. Cameron (Ellieās friend) uploaded this to his instagram storyĀ
Cameron later deleted this photo from his story. Itās obvious these two people didnāt want to be featured
Then looking at photos of Ellie and Sebastian at the beach last year makes painfully obvious to me that this is themĀ
Cameron pulled a similar dog and pony show here as well. He posted then privated his account. We have other occasions of Sebastian demanding no photos of him and Ellie (the wedding, pap walk pics being taken down, Brazil). This makes it all the more likely that it was by Sebastian demand he was not featured in any of the groupās photos posted online. We have two extra people on this trip but they arenāt featured in any of the other posts by the others. To me there is only one explanation, this was specifically by Sebastianās demand.
So no Iām not basing this on nothing or saying it solely to hate on Sebastian. Iām saying this based on a series of events that have occurred since February.Ā