.:My Sweet Serenity:.

*~Welcome, My name is Minnie♡ Feel free to look around♡ & Have a wonderful day lovelies~*

[be-happy-and-enjoy-the-life]

[baph0meat]

im serious about that “stop saving things for special occasions” bit tho like. even if u aren’t in your 20s. thats for everyone. its one of the most useful things ive learned lately

stop! just stop. eat the special snack. drink the expensive hippie tea. use the incense or the bath bomb or whatever you paid way too much for because you were feeling really bad and retail therapy makes u feel alive

when we save things for special occasions/rainy days it contributes to us feeling like A.) our day to day existence is lackluster and B.) you have to be feeling a certain level of Bad, or have to reach a certain level of Socially Accepted Achievement, to enjoy things

just give yourself stuff. there are definitely sometimes reasons to withhold things from yourself - as motivation, if it’s something you consciously want to use sparingly, etc - but at least for me half the time it just turns into self-flagellation and also cool things and cool experiences and nice treats just collect dust while i wait for some fabled day when i convince myself i finally Deserve it

just fuckin give yourself stuff dude. life’s so mindblowingly short

[voidbat]

my grandmother died having only used her china like twice in her life. during the year or so before her death, she was starting to package up and give things of hers to her kids, and gave mom the china while sighing “oh i wish i had used the china more!” and mom tried so hard to convince her to just keep it, then, and eat corny dogs off it if she wanted. she insisted she couldn’t possibly, you need a special reason to use the fine china. when nana died, we used her fine china as our everyday dishes for years. i was 18 when she died, and never really stopped having that in the back of my head. now, when i hear myself say “i wish i had a reason to wear/do/eat/use X!” i hear nana regretting never really using her china. and let me tell you a thing: spaghettios taste great when eaten from fine china.

[dear-miss-adair]

I’ve seen this post making the rounds. Just wanted to add something to it that my sister-in-law once told me:

“A ‘special thing’ can make any occasion special.”

She told me this when I objected to her opening a really expensive bottle of champagne just to watch a movie. And you know, she was right. The champagne was amazing and while we always sit around and watch movies, that bottle made that night a really special occasion that I will always remember.

So, cut yourself a little slack and remember that an ordinary day can become special.

[minuty]

You don’t need to force yourself to like me…I don’t even like myself much.

Haruki Murakami (via minuty)

[minuty]

What a terrible thing it is to wound someone you really care for and to do it so unconsciously.

Haruki Murakami (via minuty)

[minuty]

So plant your own gardens and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.

Jorge Luis Borges (via minuty)

[jahminican]

Praying for the woman I’ll be in 5+yrs I hope she’s happy, and loved, living life unapologetically, doing what she loves.

[amargedom]

Daily Reminder.

[acafethatslove]

[joel]

[just-shower-thoughts]

As a natural introvert, it feels really good when someone else texts me first.

[yoonau]

goals

[lilmiina]

04082017

I think about the future with you and it makes me worried....

I just feel like we want so many different things now that...maybe one day we’ll fall apart.

[goodreadss]

I’m afraid of love, because it involves things that are beyond our understanding; it sheds such a brilliant light, but the shadow it casts frightens me.

Paulo Coelho (via goodreadss)

[goodreadss]

“I think it’s very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person.”

Oscar Wilde (via goodreadss)

[kushandwizdom]

[goodreadss]

“Be there for others, but never leave yourself behind.”

Dodinsky, In the Garden of Thoughts (via goodreadss)

[theanimalmemes]

I’m kinda glad I’m so difficult to deal with & understand bc then I know when someone stays around, they truly want to

@sexual-texts (via sexual-texts)