he wasn't even looking at me and he found me
Sade Olutola
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Not today Justin
Andulka
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祝日 / Permanent Vacation
"I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas"
Product Placement
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Sweet Seals For You, Always
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Kaledo Art
Origami Around
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KIROKAZE
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ojovivo
PUT YOUR BEARD IN MY MOUTH
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@lilowl
personally I think the obsession with anti-aging is particularly heinous when every single day we’re seeing people in many different countries be murdered by the hundreds. I’m sure all the children currently worried about being killed would give anything to be able to turn 40 someday, meanwhile in the west we’re on tiktok whining about how aging past 25 is literally the worst thing that could possibly happen to a woman
Consecrated sword presented by Pope Innocent XI to John III Sobieski - 'Lion of Lechistan' (1675)
I'd love a world
Where when a man is given an appropriate out, he excuses himself. If you can't deliver action behind the words you say- own up to it and respectfully let her go. Stop lying to her and yourself.
My best friends man just cheated on her in her own house. I'm so sick of this shit. Say you're done and let her go before you move on. It's that simple. And if you have the urge to move on- that's your brain telling you to let go. I've learned that the hard way
saria_n_michael
Red-Headed Krait (Bungarus f. flaviceps), family Elapidae, Malaysia
Venomous.
photograph by Ethan Lai
In the shadowplay, acting out your own death.
bambashkart
三宝院/秋の庭 Sanpo-in Temple/The Autumn Garden
Be sure to let us know when the most recent lovebomb stage is over and he feels more like your disgruntled room mate than your lover 🙄
Sunlight on my skin
I can see the changes in myself.
My eyes are no longer sunken and glossed over, my hair is growing thicker and longer, I've gained healthy weight and have curves now...
Finally healing and stepping into my personal power
Love how I use tumblr so sporadically and then just come and dump a whole journal entry.
I stop and take a moment. Everything I was wishing and praying for a year ago- I hustled (hard) and finally Im starting to get it. The peace, stability, financial independence and self confidence. I was weeping this time last year, in such a low place- thinking I'd never to experience feeling "solid" and "safe" on my own.
And I keep showing up for myself and put in the hours to do it. Even when I don't feel like it, I make myself. I go to therapy 3 times a week (2 of those times are groups- which I've gotten a lot out of) and have really stepped up at work. My side hustle is picking up interested to the point where I can be choosy about which clients I want to take on/which ones I want to refer out. I've really been enjoying my job and it's been such a huge blessing 🐾🤍
Sure there are still hurdles. Turns out when you start to feel safe, a lot of your deepest and darkest demons you push down during survival mode get a chance to come to the surface. That started occurring a couple months ago as I was reaching my sober birthday. Now I need to address how much sexual harassment/ assault I experienced, with the realization that most of it was tied to drug abuse. I repressed so much shit that's coming to the light. I know I'll feel better once I start to let some of this pain out and go, but I find the process excruciatingly painful along the way. It gives me the ick and a big part of all of this has been how much I've shamed/judged myself for situations I had no control over. I have this programmed narrative that comes from the things I heard around me growing up- and I'm realizing those aren't truly my opinions. They don't align with my values at all. And I have to let these old judgements go.
Tex and Bagels are snoozing softly in either side of me as I type. I miss Pizza and I was happy to have been able to follow thru in my promise to Mamie that he always had a home with me if need be. None of my family thought he'd live very long when I took him, because he starved himself for a week refusing to leave Mamie's side on her deathbed. I'm glad I was able to keep him comfortable for his last years. His bonding with Bagels was really sweet. And he always seemed to know when I was missing my Gma and he'd come find me to cuddle 💕
Tex must be dreaming because his paws started to twitch and he just lightly growled in his sleep 😋
