Because Im A Lady, That's Why @lipsareforbitingg - Tumblr Blog

You get to this place where the comfort of just being with them sets in. They’re your person. Your comfort. The person you can be 100% yourself around. And maybe that’s why we accept the issues and allow them to continue for so fucking long.

But then it’s time to set boundaries. And when you do, he leaves. And then you’re stuck not only feeling disposed of, but your comfort is gone. Your person is gone, and you have to focus on the bad shit to get through it or the reality of the fact that you’re losing your best friend will make you go back to accepting the bad shit too.

I don’t want that with anyone else.

If THAT person, your comfort person, can hurt you like that, how can you actually trust anyone else?

lipsareforbitingg

“I think you are ‘that’ one. Not ‘the’ one, but that one that I compare everyone to. I don't love you anymore, but I think one day I may get married, and I will be happy and my husband may do something to wind me the wrong way. And for a brief moment my mind will take me back to us. To how you used to make me feel, and a comparison will be made. I talk to guys in bars and they are great, they aren’t you - but they are still great in their own right. You made an impact on my life in all the best ways; and there is no bad blood. I treasure the short time we spent together, but I think you have set the bar for me.”

— I don’t want you back, and I have fallen out of love for you. But you treated me with the type of respect I thought was non existent which has led me to look aspects of you in my next lovers eyes. (via crashingwaves-burningsouls)