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The danser Mara Aranaz smoking at the table - Leo Putz , 1922.

German, 1869-1940

Oil on canvas, 76,5 x 70 cm. 30.1 x 27.6 in.

I think arguably one of the only things worse than ignoring / denying a victim of abuse is accusing them of being the abuser. Especially given the fact that most abusers use tactics like “you made me do this” or the old “you are abusing me by calling out my abuse bc it makes me feel bad”. The victims who escape those situations often face a long road in their ‘next life’ of internally focused paranoia and constant moral inventory taking; afraid that setting a boundary, or being firm (or being in a bad mood even) is behavior that is too reminiscent of how their own abuser acted. Trauma altering the ability to differentiate. Having to muck through the dense fucking mud of “Am I a bad person, and that’s why this happened to me? Maybe it was all my fault…” A truly devastating phenomenon.

liqre

CC: Amber Heard

#i hope Amber finds peace #amber heard

hintsofhoney

laughing because I think that kripke and the cast genuinely thought that was gonna scar us. ive read worse while eating breakfast and holding a conversation with my mother, know your audience

liqre

i think people who didn’t grow up online will find it shocking, i think there is a lot of desensitisation from porn at play too