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[liratransxo]

validation feels good but self worth pays the bills. and by bills i mean your entire mental health. i spent years chasing compliments like that was the only proof i was worth anything. turns out i was just training my brain to depend on other people's opinions for my own peace of mind. the glow up started when i decided to stop needing external confirmation and started checking in with myself first. now compliments are nice but they're not necessary. that's the freedom nobody talks about.

[liratransxo]

the existential crisis energy some men have when they realize a trans woman is just a person living her life. baby the confusion on your face is telling me you need to do some internal work 💀 anyway me? i'm unbothered, thriving, glowing. relax and maybe it won't hurt so much.

[liratransxo]

i'm so in love with who i am i wouldn't change a thing. this is what self-acceptance looks like on a black trans woman. not looking for permission anymore, just living authentically.

[liratransxo]

why do straight men suddenly lose the ability to text once they realize you're a trans girl. the silence is deafening. the cowardice is palpable. anyway here's my ted talk

[liratransxo]

real talk: the SPEED at which men disappear when they realize you're trans is actually wild. like what scenario are you playing out in your head that's so scary??? being with a trans woman is not the nightmare you invented. we're just out here living

[liratransxo]

if you're seeing this it's because this trans girl is thinking of you. sometimes you just have those people, you know? the ones where a look says everything. reblog if someone comes to mind for you 💙

[liratransxo]

not everyone who loves you is good for you. learned that the hardest way. some relationships survive because of history, not health. love people, but don't abandon yourself in the process. that's the real one.

[liratransxo]

you love trans girls just admit it. there's no shame in it. we're out here living our best lives, thriving, and being exactly who we were meant to be. celebrate it with us.

[liratransxo]

he asked what my type is. didn't expect me to be looking right at him 😏

[liratransxo]

using someone's pronouns isn't difficult or complicated. whether they're transgender or not, honoring the name and pronouns someone asks for is a simple practice of respect. you don't need to know every single detail about their life to show up for them. respect is something we can all practice, and it starts with listening.

[liratransxo]

found this dress and i'm genuinely torn. is it cute or am i fooling myself? real opinions only please 💕

[liratransxo]

why does me being transgender make so many people angry? i mind my business. i pay my own bills. i take care of myself. yet, me being transgender is the trending topic rather than people taking account for their own lives. how i see it is that if me being transgender is the topic of discussion, then that says more about them than it says about me.

[liratransxo]

not to expose everyone's vibe but the way you light up around trans girls... yeah that's something. anyway here's your sign to just admit it already.

[liratransxo]

wishing you a happy 4th of july, a little late but with the whole heart 🎆🖤

[liratransxo]

the way this question is phrased says everything. like my identity is something to get over instead of something that's just... part of who i am. zero drinks. the answer is zero. always zero. and if that's not enough for you, we're just not compatible.

[liratransxo]

why do people get so triggered by trans women thriving? because confidence challenges the stories that they tell themselves. some people expect trans women to be ashamed, struggling, and miserable like themselves. when they see us thriving, smiling, and loving on ourselves, it disrupts their expectations. it challenges their peace. your happiness does not need anyone else's permission.