5 Newborn Activities in Fargo
Home. Alone. With a Newborn. This was the start of my new life and job as a stay-at-home mom. If I applied for that job, I doubt I would be hired. I don’t have any early childhood education training. I didn’t babysit little kids when I was a teenager. And my first experience changing a diaper almost ended with me vomiting on my nephew. (I left the room and had grandpa finish the job!)
However, my MBA was actually great training to be a stay-at-home mom. While I could have run a multiple regression analysis to find out what factors produce the most breastmilk, the more applicable skills were networking and managing projects. We were six weeks into our new life, smack in the middle of winter in Fargo, and coming down with a bad case of cabin fever. I needed a plan and fast.
The goal: Expose Emerson to the world around us while getting us out of the house and meeting other moms with babies. And also learn how to function as a mom outside of the house.
Here are five activities to do with a newborn in Fargo:
Nurturing Connections Baby Café - This was my group meeting with Emerson and one that we should have attended a lot sooner. This group is a great way to meet moms with babies very close in age to yours. What you’re experiencing as a mom when baby is three months old is drastically different than what you experienced at three weeks old. I connected with another mom whose baby is just 12 days older than Emerson and we trade stories as our boys go through the developmental milestones about the same time. Sanford lactation consultants are there to help with breastfeeding concerns or questions. There are two other breastfeeding groups in the area...Tender Transitions is offered through Essentia and there's La Leche League of Fargo-Moorhead.
Early Childhood Family Education (ECFE) – The best kept secret in the FM area! ECFE is part of Moorhead Community Education and you do not need to reside in Minnesota to take classes. They offer child-parent non-separating and separating classes. The non-separating classes tend to be shorter while the separating classes accommodate time playing with babies/toddlers and then an adult discussion in a separate room. The teachers and instructors are all very knowledgeable and helpful when you’re trying to figure out age-appropriate activities to do with your little one. Pictured below is Emerson at five months in one of our classes. I just love his caught-in-the-act look!
Library – Both the Fargo and Moorhead libraries have designated times for stories and songs with babies and preschoolers. These events are perfect outings because they combine learning, new stories, and songs with playtime for both mom and baby. West Fargo library has story time for lap babies and preschoolers. We’ve met several moms and babies from the library and continue to meet outside of the library events.
Park or indoor walking track – In the winter, I was looking for a place to walk without freezing Emerson. It wasn’t until spring that I found out that Fargo provides an indoor walking track. It has convenient hours, however, they’re subject to change based on school or programming events. Although we have yet to use the indoor track, we met up with moms at parks over the summer and continue to walk every day.
MOMS Club or other clubs/meet-ups – Search for MOMS club or other similar interest groups online and on Facebook. Once you find a group, mark your calendar and go to the meetings. Going to the first meeting is the hardest. I made excuses…it’s during nap time, what if I have to breastfeed in public, what if he starts crying and many more that just prevented me from getting out. Eventually, the timing worked (or maybe I just mustered enough courage to drop the excuses) and I went. If he was asleep, I woke him up to leave. He didn't seem to mind most of the time or maybe I was just lucky that Emerson was pretty flexible on his schedule.
The game plan worked. Emerson was exposed to many different activities and I learned how to be a mom outside the comfort of my home. Now that fall is upon us and the dreaded winter approaches, we’re armed with these activities and a contact list of other moms with babies.













