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Open When... You Don’t Feel Beautiful!

So you don’t think you’re beautiful, huh?

Ooooooooookkkaayyy..... if you say so, weirdo. First off: you are beautiful. No question about it. Second: you are under no obligation to look “pretty” in the first place. Not when you’re laying around the house, not when you go to the store, not when you’re at work, not when you go to the gym. Everyone has their preferences to how they prefer to dress or look like and pretty is not the rent you pay to exist in this world as a person.

But please... don’t look at yourself as unattractive; you ARE beautiful, you are a light, an energy, an essence. You are nature itself. You are selcouth-- (which means rare, strange, and yet marvelous.)

You need to tell yourself you’re beautiful. Tell yourself you’re amazing. Tell yourself you are untouchable, radiantly attractive. Do it. Do it every day, even if it feels like you’re lying to yourself. Insist to the mirror that you are the cutest thing it has ever reflected. If you do it enough, eventually it won’t feel like lying anymore (cause it’s not). It’ll be automatic and you will finally be able to recognize yourself as the incredible, lovable babe you really are! Sing that one song-- “Too Sexy” by Right Said Fred lol

And I mean like, seriously tho. What’s not beautiful about you?? I love absolutely everything about you! Your deep dark hair is so nice and pretty, and it’s got those gorgeous waves... your smile is completely adorable... the way your eyes light up whenever you truly smile it’s just intoxicating... your hands are soft and nice to hold... you are warm and comforting I love hugging/cuddling with you... you are so beautiful and so amazing in every way. I wish you could see yourself the way I see you.

#open when #personal #mine #not finished #beautiful #doubt #insecure

Open When... You’re Doubting Yourself!

Oh come on..... really? You’re doubting yourself? okay first off, you shouldn’t be doing that. You are without a doubt, one of the smartest, sweetest, and most beautiful people I know. Don’t you ever let anything or anyone make you question that (even yourself). But I do get where you’re coming from and I honestly doubt myself more than I probably should as well... so alright, listen--

I know this is always a tough thing to deal with and I don’t know what’s going on at this current time to make you feel this way, or even what kind of doubt you’re dealing with, but here’s a quote I’ve always liked:

“Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.”

I honestly believe that and the whole yknow, “don’t let society ruin you” kind of stuff. And I believe in you. I believe you are stronger than you think you are and sometimes I think you just need someone to tell you that. You are valuable and powerful and deserving of every chance and opportunity in this world to pursue and achieve your dreams.

Be a bird.

What? Yea, you heard me. Be a bird. A bird sitting in a tree is never afraid of the branches breaking because its trust is not in the branch but on its own wings. Always believe in yourself. Be a bird. Remember that. Remind yourself... and go around flapping your arms like wings if you have to! And yea-- people are probably going to think you’re weird, but honestly who gives a shit? It’s okay to be weird because weird people make life interesting, and those other people probably suck anyways. So be a birb and just remember:

progress is progress no matter how small. I love you! I believe in you! And I am always, always, ALWAYS here for you, Lisa. Forever and ever.

#open when #personal #mine #not finished #doubt #doubting yourself

ilobcute

#miscellaneous #misc #love #sad #bad day #self harm #self love #self care

showerthoughtsofficial

It’s officially wear a sweater in the morning and regret it later, weather.

#fall #holidays #weather #cold #hot #october #autumn

ilovesmoothjazz1998

you can feel it in your chest when youve met someone thats meant to be in your life forever

#i love you #love #future

Open When.. You’re Sick!

Oh noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo babe :/

you’re sick! :( that’s not okay. that’s not good I am so sorry I don’t know what exactly is wrong, but here is some ginger tea if you have an upset stomach and some “throat coat” tea if your throat hurts or feels scratchy... or they both just taste nice and help to soothe...

In any case-- you need to get better! So pls make sure you get as much sleep as you can; your body needs a lot more rest than usual right now. drink LOTS of water! Being sick, you tend to get more dehydrated so keep yourself nice and full of water... Also- chicken noodles soup! (put pepper in it) Helps all kinds of sickness- especially colds, plus it’s also soothing and is easy to get down. Don’t forget warm blankets! You’re most likely gonna get cold. It’s just something that happens when you’re sick. Also. tissues. Keep them near- you never know when or how often you’ll need them. I love you! I am ALWAYS here for you-- and if you need ANYTHING I will do it. okay? okay.

(and if you’re not too sick to go out, we are going to Yama and getting some ramen noodles. or I can bring you some-- they say real ramen is the best a day old??)

#open when #personal #mine #not finished #sick

Open When... We’re Fighting!

Well. Here is another letter I really hope you don’t have to open, but since you did... here we go............

So we’ve been fighting. shit. what did I do this time lol

Okay. Look- I want to do the right thing here. I don’t know who started this, how it happened, who is more to blame, or maybe it’s neither? whatever. But I do know that none of those things matter. We both are hurt, we both are upset, and I don’t know about you-- but I want to be connected right now more than I want to be right. I’m sorry we got into a fight... I hate fighting/arguing with you... but yknow what? I am immensely proud of us both for always pushing through and coming out together on top ❤

If when we were fighting and I said something stupid... you know I am so sorry. Please forgive me- you know I love you! I care about you so much! ❤

I’m not perfect, and I hate to admit it but sometimes I do get upset over nothing, sometimes I say things without meaning to, but no matter what, I can promise you that no one else could love you more than I do ❤ ❤ Just because I’m upset or mad at you doesn’t mean I don’t care about you. There’s a saying that goes: “Don’t worry when I fight with you, worry when I stop because it means there’s nothing left for us to fight for.”

I want us to get through this. I know we can. What really matters is not the fight itself, but the way we work together to solve it. Honestly, I don’t know what I would do without you in my life. idc what’s going on and if we are on good terms or not, because my heart still rests with you. always. remember that.

#open when #personal #mine #not finished #fight

Open When... You’re Mad At Me!

ummmm go read “open when I’m mad at you” because I probably didn’t do anything.

lmao just kiidddiinnggggg! I know I screw up a lot. I’m sorry. To be honest, I wish you didn’t have to read either of these letters, but I know I’m going to piss you off at some point (and apparently I did). lol I probably have before-- and god only knows what I did this time... I know sometimes I can be stubborn, and I’m definitely a smartass... for that- I’m sorry. If I said something mean, I’m sorry. I probably said something that came out wrong-- I would never intentionally hurt you. If I did something stupid, ugh... I’m sorry! Sometimes I’m a dumbass. :/ I feel awful and I know I already regret whatever I did because I hate when you’re upset at me... :(

But whatever happened-- please remember that I do care about you. If you need, take some time to figure your feelings out and then confront me about it. try to do it calmly if you can so I don’t get all in “defense mode” so we can talk this out... try to keep an open mind for what I might say... If I”m mad at you, which is causing you to be mad at me, pls be patient.

I don't know why you’re mad at me right now, but I’m sure we can fix it. our relationship is worth it. we are far from perfect, our relationship sure isn’t perfect, but I believe in us. We can do this. We can make it. I’m sorry for whatever I did, but let’s talk about it and work it out! please :)

#open when #mine #finished #written #mad #you're mad at me #not finished

Open When... You’re Stressed Out!

You’re stressed out? aw fuck, babe I’m sorry :( I know you have a lot going on in your life right now and it can get overwhelming, but I need to tell you something.

breathe. everything will be okay.

I’m sure you’re tired of hearing that, I know I am lol, but it’s true. your problems will fade. just give it time. whatever is bothering you- we’ll find a way to fix it. whatever you’re stressing out about right now will seem insignificant in a few months. you are so much stronger than you think and no matter what, you will get through this.

Try not to overthink... I know it’s hard, but there’s no need to possibly make things seem worse than they actually are. that won’t help at. all. :) just remember: you are incredible. you are such an amazing person inside and out-- you are very hardworking and I know you can make it through this. don’t let whatever is stressing you out bring you down, don’t let it get to your head. you are smart. you are strong.

And just so you know, you can Always ask me for help. I am here for you. I’m here for you if you need to talk, or vent, or literally Anything you might need. Please don’t hesitate to let me know if there’s anything I can do for you and I promise I will do my best to help. I’m always here to support you and you can trust me with anything. ❤ I honestly hope you feel you can discuss your issues with me... I’ll always try to give you the best advice I can and I’m always here to listen.

I know you can accomplish anything you set your heart to, so just try to believe in yourself. and don’t forget that you have my continuous support for everything you do. I know you’re doing the best you can.

breathe in... breathe out... try to calm your nerves and relax your mind if you can. stress is a part of life, but so is peace. it’s so so easy to get lost in worries and pressures of life, but you need to try to just let it go. try not to focus on the negative...

Also please try to make sure you’re sleeping! your brain needs rest in order to function well. lack of sleep and added stress is not a good combination :/ but like I said before, I’m still here for you, please know that you are not alone. I don't mind to help carry your burdens. stay strong! ❤

P.S. Is that the sun coming up...

or is that just you lighting up my world?

#open when #personal #mine #finished #written #not finished

Open When... You First Get These Letters!

Lisa! Heyyy gorgeous ❤

So by now you probably figured out that these are “Open When” letters. I don’t know if you have seen/heard of these before, but basically the idea is pretty straightforward.

#1: no peaking! (try to only open a letter if it applies, if not- keep it sealed!)

#2: pace yourself! (there are only so many of these, so try not to open more than one per day)

#3: tell me when and which letters you open! (i worked really hard on these lol I’d love to know what you think)

Also, since it is the holidays... MERRY CHRISTMAS!! ❤

you can look through the letters to see what you have if you’d like, but don't open them all yet! Be sure to wait for the right time when you feel that you need one... or you just want to just because lol that’s fine too, I suppose. I mean they are YOUR letters. I think it would just be more fun to wait and surprise yourself! :)

I care about you so much-- I really do. I hope maybe these letters will help show that to you... please know that no matter what happens, I will ALWAYS care for you. you mean the world to me. ❤ That will never change. Not now, not tomorrow, not in a week, nor a month, or a year...never. I will always feel this way towards you. Forever and Ever ❤

As I’m writing this now, we are no longer dating. We did for a little over a month-- and I blew it. I’m so sorry. We’ve both been through some shit, and I was not mentally ready for another relationship so soon, and you did not deserve that. But I’ve really been working hard on myself, and we’ve been growing our relationship again-- even if it’s just as friends... and it is my hope that one day we can try again ❤ You mean so much to me, and to be completely honest, I really don’t want to lose you... So I hope you do take me back... and if you’re reading this, it most likely means that you have! So yay!! ❤ I promise I won’t ever make you regret it. You are such an amazing person, I don’t know how I got so lucky ❤ ❤ :)

So I hope you like these letters, I hope you keep them, I hope they mean something to you... (I would warn you that some of these letters will get pretty cheesy, but I know you love all that puns and shit lmao so be ready!) I just. really... I want you to be happy. :) And I know I’m not always around- us with our crazy work schedules and all... but hopefully these letters will help with some of that.

P.S: (even if we don’t get back together that's okay. And I understand... but I'm still gonna give you these letters. even if reading that one purple paragraph might be awkward lol)

I care about you very much, and you are important to me-- whether we’re together or just friends and that is NEVER going to change. ❤

#open when #personal #mine #finished #written