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Are you pro choice or pro life given your history with miscarriage and infertility?

I am 100% Pro-Choice. Just because I want to have children, and even though I have had infertility/miscarriages, that doesn’t mean that because this is what I want for my life, that it is what everyone should have for theirs. My body is just that, my body. Your body is just that, your body. My beliefs for my life should not dictate or put pressures on others. They are my own and mine alone. I believe in promoting safe sex, establishing a basis for preventive sexual health care, showing what healthy relationships look like (i.e. what mental/emotional abuse looks like, giving information on how to get out of an abusive relationships, etc), and much more but I do not promote telling people what to do with their own bodies. The information, birth control, and medical practices should all be there and it is up to the parents, politicians, doctors, teachers, and the individual to make sure that it is received and (hopefully) listened to.

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The thing about anxiety nobody talks about is how lonely it makes you. I want to have friends so desperately. I want to make memories with amazing people and bond over the best and the worst of times together. But I don’t. I can’t. The very thought of getting together with people and being intimate with them platonically makes my anxiety spiral out of control. Then if I somehow manage the courage to do it, anxiety puts me into a self doubt frenzy. What if they don’t like me? What if they don’t want to be my friend after meeting me? What if I wear the wrong thing and display myself in a way that is unappealing? All of this quickly talks me right back out of wanting to be social and continue to feel safe as an introvert. Then…I get lonely and depressed and the pattern repeats continuously.