your tiny coming tapping you softly on the shoulder a few times . . . “ dada !! . . . “ dadaaa !! “ I roll over to face them rubbing my eyes . . . “ dada wakey ? dada wakey up ? “ I’m awake sweetheart , what’s the matter angel ? Is everything okay ? “
“ Om nom , Om noms “ is baby hungry ? “ I say tickling them . They giggle nodding their head . “ what would you like ? Cereal ? Blueberry Oatmeal ? Hm ? “ pancakes pancakes !! “ they chant smiling .
“ baby wants pancakes huh ? “ They smile nodding . “ what kind of pancakes ? Cupcake cupcake !! “ my little baby wants cupcake pancakes for breakfast ? “ they nod once more . “ alright angel !! Let’s go make some !! “
And we we’re off into the kitchen . I have them sit up in their booster seat and I get started on the pancakes . Making sure each one was evenly made with rainbow sprinkles and white chocolate chips inside of them . I stack two on a plate and cut them into little squares . Drizzling it with chocolate syrup and a small scoop of ice cream topped with whipped cream and a bit more sprinkles .
I hum walking over and placing the pancakes in front of them . “ here you go kiddo , cupcake pancakes just like you like them “ their eyes widen seeming to sparkle as they stared at their breakfast . “ wowie dada , looks so pretty , thankies !! “ I ruffle their hair “ of course ! Anything for you sweetheart ! Your daddy’s angel and there isn’t anything I wouldn’t do for you “
I wanna talk ab the fact that age regression has been so "influencer-ized"
agere is not ab pink pastels and being clean
Bio kids are messy and gross, they're sticky and have tantrums
You are your regression do not need to be this perfectly clean, pink, princessy aesthetic bc thats not what regression is about
Regression is about healing
Its okay to be messy
Its okay to like scary things
When i was a bio kid i liked horror movies and true crime!
Its okay to like things that are the steriotypical cutesy kids show
I watched adult swim as a kid because i thought the shows were funny
and yes its okay if your regression is pretty pink princesses and not getting messy just as long as its not forced
and most importantly YOU DONT HAVE TO BE A GIRL OR LIKE FEMININE THINGS TO REGRESS!!!!
✧˚ · . things to do with your long distance little, written by a little for caregivers! ༉‧₊˚.
⇢ ˗ˏˋ more under the cut! ࿐ྂ
₍.ˬ.₎ < before i get started, thanks for reading my post! it means a lot to me even if you don't reblog or like! >
1) watch tv / movies on RAVE! rave is an app available on most devices that sync up streaming services together. you can play virtually anything on Netflix, HBOmax, and more! they also have a youtube option for kid's shows that are on youtube!
2) send care packages! big or small, care packages can go a long way for a little. even if its just some candies and a letter or a whole new paci for them, they're sure to love getting it. and what kid doesn't like getting something in the mail?!
3) play online games together! lots of kid friendly games are free to play, like animal jam! and if you a little money to spare, games like animal crossing and stardew valley are great options! there's also plenty of kid's card games online.
4) download OurHome and create a long distance rewards system! whether it be watching their favorite show/movie, or buying them dinner, you can easily set up a way to earn these little rewards with OurHome! you can give simple tasks like reading, drinking water, etc. on OurHome that your little can tick off as they do, which earn them points!
always covered in something, let it be glitter, paint, dirt, etc
bolts of hyperactivity and sleepiness
will climb a tree to try and stop their cg from taking them from the park
mismatched clothes
thinks they could would fight a bear to protect their cg
"are we there yet? are we there yet? are we there yet?"
loves to learn about the local fauna and flora
sits in sunny patches outside
steals snacks from the cupboard and runs away laughing
popsicles! lollipops! chocolate bars!
likes to wear bright colors and simple setups (shorts + t-shirt, overalls, tops and skirts, summerdresses, etc)
messy eater
has no concept of the progression time (what do you *mean* it's already time to leave? we just got here!)
always singing or humming songs from their favorite shows n movies
has a few potted plants, or likes to plant random seeds they find outside
talking about plants: they have a green little thumb!
worst days of their little life is when they wake up and it's raining (and their cg will not be reasonable and let them play in the garden. outrageous!)
puts every.thing. in their mouths, much to their carer's dismay
loves their pets to death and wishes they could have a zoo/farm
is either hyposensitive to pain or hypersensitive: either breaks their arm and runs away like nothing happened, or scratches their knees and cries as loud as they can
has to be chased down the house to go and have a bath
once in the bath, they won't leave it ("but I'm a mermaid!! I have to stay here or I'll DIE")
is either a little drama queen or a precious (yet *fast* lol) angel
wears a kid leash or has to hold their cg's hand whenever out to do errands
your kiddo playing outside on the playground . . . when you hear soft cries . . . You rush over and kneel beside them holding them close . . . “ sweetheart what happened ? “ You ask concern laced in your voice . “ did you fall ? Here baby let papa see “ they quickly move away “ m. .mm . . no touch “ they say sniffling . “ papa won’t touch but he has to see how bad it is okay ? So he can properly asses and help make it all better “ I say smiling softly .
I look their legs over , their knees pretty banged up . “ papas gonna get his first aid kit and fix it all better okay ? “ okay p. . papa “ they say through tears . “ we gotta clean it okay ? So it doesn’t get infected and stays clean , papas gonna take this and wipe it okay ? It’s gonna sting for just a second angel , but you can hold papas other hand okay ? “ . They take their tiny hand and gently squeeze mine . “ there !! All done !! See , you did so good !! You were such a brave little angel !! Look at you !! “
“ now papas gonna put some antibiotic cream on it , here’s some bandaids can you pick some out for me ? “ they take the bandaids and look at them all smiling . “ star bandaids , star bandaids “ awesome choice augster !! “ I open up the bandaids one at a time and gently place it each one over the scrapes . . “ alright kid , they’re all clean and covered “ papa magic papa magic , make it all better “
I smile and wiggle my fingers as if I’m sprinkling pixie dust over them “ there !! Papa sprinkled magic dust so your ouchies heal super fast “ they look at me wide eyed , eyes sparkling . “ ehehe thank uu , you’re da bestest dad in da whole wide world “ I chuckle and smile wide . “ and you ? You’re the best kid a dad could ask for . What do you say we grab some lunch hm ? “ they nod their head in agreement .
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