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17 | 420👽✌ | pansexual | life is a party and i'm the piñata

[oasisr]

after hearing "simply having a wonderful christmas time" by paul mccartney 74 times while working in retail, I came to the conclusion that they shot the wrong beatle

[missingvibrance]

am i the only one who felt really old when they were really young? i literally used to be this 10 yr old child who would question whether they had wasted their life or not and i was always called mature by my teachers. i rarely got along with kids my own age and it felt like my brain was 4 decades older than it should be. years later, i found out that having untreated depression and trauma can physically age your brain and it turns out i wasn't actually an "old soul," i just really wanted to die.

[recoveringeldestsupportdaughter]

Thankfully, I’ve found a man that will move mountains for me and protects me from you…

[lonelyheartsexpert]

The fact that most people would go through the most traumatising incident of their life which will probably affect every action they make for the rest of their life and then just go to school the next morning and pretend nothing happened.

[lharotto]

do you actually not like reciving gifts or did you just grow up being told how expensive it was to raise you?

and now, anytime anyone spends any money on you,you fell guilty

[myinvisibletimemachine]

If your children grow up and never speak to you again or only speak to you when there's a clear obligation to do so- you did something wrong, not them.

Don't blame your kids for how they treat you as adults. You had enough time to earn that respect.

[of-mice-and-maydayparade]

I'm trying so hard to be everything you need but it still isn't enough.

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

it was never your fault they were abusive to you. it wasn’t because you did something wrong to deserve mistreatment. it was because they were cruel and you were there for them to hurt.

[lulu-ayana-deactivated20230820]

I’m not sure why but I’m way too kind for people that are super rude to my face AND behind my back.

[perfectquote]

“I miss the way you treated me when we first started talking.”

— (via perfectfeelings)

[perfectquote]

“The worst mistake that you can make, is to walk away from the person who actually stood there and waited for you.”

— Unknown

[abadtasteonmylips]

[silviaagarciaa]

How do I explain

How do I explain to you that you’re hurting me by what you say or how you say it. How do I explain how much I truly love you but some days you make me want to be single. How do I explain to you to listen and hear me out so that I can at least feel like you care. How do I explain to you that you’re doing something when you’re so stubborn and in denial about it…how do I explain that I’m losing reasons and motives to still be with you…

[justgetmeoutofhere-blog]

I do everything for you. EVERYTHING. I clean YOUR place, do YOUR laundry, shower you in compliments, and support you in every way possible.

And you… don’t even care.

When I ask to hang out, the answer is always, “If you want to.”

And everything is always, “Fine”. Work is fine, your day is fine, we are fine, I am fine.

Why don’t you ever love me? Why don’t you compliment me? Why don’t YOU put in any of the effort?

[depressed-and-disappointed]

You don’t miss ME.

You miss the way I treated you.

There’s a difference.

You can’t treat people who are good to you like shit and then get mad when they leave you. That’s not how it works. If you want me in your life then make some changes. Otherwise just find somebody else who is willing to deal with your bullshit.

[together-translations]

[together-translations]

The worst thing you can do is make her feel unwanted or uncared for.