Wild Ride

                   pictures and quotes that show a little bit about who i am        nj//20

[saiasus]

[itsheandshe]

[klaascows]

Boop.

Love is the best scent (part 11).

[babiessss]

[labella-instagram]

[tastefullyoffensive]

[death-by-lulz]

that is the face of someone who has been deeply betrayed.

[mrgolightly]

[recovery-bound-take2]

[caffeinewitchcraft]

Relationships get so bananas when you start deciphering the other person’s love language.

Like I thought I was just acquaintances with this person because they never told me details about themselves and we just talked movies and writing . But then they made time to have coffee with me and they showed up out of breath because they ran. Like. RAN to be on time for coffee with me?

And I was like “i don’t mind waiting” cause I never want to run

But they said they wanted every minute they could get because I’m so busy usually

Which is when it clicked that I didn’t get how much they considered me a friend because I just straight away didn’t see MY signs of affection in them and went “cool! Casual buds it is.” But now that I’m seeing their signs of affection, I feel a little silly for dismissing them like that even though I felt like we could be best bros.

Anyway, some people show affection through time or intensity or commitment and not vocally. I really have to remember that!

[madammuffins]

Fyi- just in case you didn’t know.

TOUCH got a bro that likes to give high fives? Back slaps? Are they a hugger? Do they not blink an eye at cuddles?

QUALITY TIME this bro will (as op stated) sprint to spend every minute possible with you. Every second that you guys are together is a declaration of affection.

WORDS does your bro tell you how amazing and great and fantastic and wonderful you are all the time? Guess what…?

GIFTS do they buy you coffee? Snacks, energy drinks, spot you at the restaurant? Did that one key chain remind them of you? Ding ding!

ACTS are they always doing things for you? Ie: Nah bro, I got this, I can do that, need me to get anything for you, I can help with…?

PRO TIP - The way people show love is often how they receive love as well.

[queerautism]

Can I just say how much I love seeing this applied to friends / platonic relationships, when I’ve only seen it about romantic ones before?

[letlove-grow]

[theorydictatespractice-deactiva]

“And perhaps that is the single greatest test of love; when two people part ways and engage unapologetically within their own self-development. And with each passing day, the distance between them grows extensively, filled by time, new experiences and the other beings they’ve encountered along the way. And in the process of it all, the love fades, or it doesn’t. I’ve seen many pairs torn apart by the circumstances of this human life, and they never did return to one another. But sometimes, though rare, there exists a bond between two souls that no amount of novelty can break. A bond that transcends time and withstands the harshness of reality and impermanence. And one day, in a single out of the blue moment, these souls reencounter each other, and it feels as though nothing between them has changed at all. So I guess my point is the following: sometimes letting go and trusting the Universe is the correct thing to do, because what’s meant for you, no matter how far it wanders, will always find its way home.”

— 12/5/15

[jehovahhthickness]

[brilliantlybeloved]

[acupofkeen]

Note to self:

“In a healthy relationship, your partner hears you out if you’re upset, and their goal is to avoid upsetting you in the future, not to debate whether you should have been upset in the first place.”

[readme-myrights-deactivated2020]

One day I’ll be sitting on my porch with my husband watching my children play outside at sunset and at that very moment I will know I have made it in life

[wisco-country]

[ansonmount]

Robin Hood (1973)

[mossyoakmaster]

Yasss ❤️