Well, time for my take, because yknow, making my own people have beef with me is fun!!
I’m not american, and I’ve no doubt american christianity is exactly that bad. But your conflation of american protestantism with all the others is uhh....kinda hilarious. I love watching jews do the exact same thing to christians as they do to us w/r to dumb assumptions off of false or incomplete information! (And no I’m not gonna call it xianity, it has a name, and calling something by its name is by and large a nice respectful thing to do).
The point of spiritual but not religious, and general beef with organised religion can hardly ever be considered directly antisemitic, it’s just another manifestation of the general disdain for authority that comes part and parcel of being pagan/wiccan/atheist by conversion (there is a BIG difference in people who were christian, or jewish, or muslim, or what have you that abandon the faith, and people who were just born into atheist families). VERY rarely it can manifest as slight beef with Jews, but we’re often the least likely to fall victim to it, given how much of judaism IS personal, and how little of it is prescribed down (like, the fact that I can argue and finagle points of theology and ethics with my rabbi and it not be a bad thing often turns most of those who have those sorts of views to seeing judaism as the exception, since in their prior background, whatever the clergyman says, goes as near WoG).
Blaming Judaism for spreading Christianity I have NEVER seen, but I’ll assume it’s an american thing and yeah that’s bizarrely shitty. Though saying that it caused the INCEPTION of Christianity has a more stable ground, since one can argue that Christianity is just a very successful Jewish Heresy.
Saying religion in place of christianity is raw semantics, and functionally irrelevant in most cases.
One twue wayism is absolutely a problem, but that happens with literally every person whose faith gets enflamed enough. It is not unique to goyim, it happens JUST as much amongst Jews, hell even between different Jewish communities (the amount of times I’ve been barked at by my mostly orthodox family for uhh....let’s say being a bit more liberal with some points of text is ridiculous). One Twue Wayism is honestly just a natural effect of having really strong faith, as when it comes to matters of religion, how one interfaces with G_d is a really powerful thing, and people who have belief that strong are bound to end up thinking they’ve got it right. Moreover if you earnestly believe, as many do, that your way of belief leads to a good/better outcome of life, or of any afterlife, then of course you’re going to try and get more people to do so. The trick is finding the line between holding earnest belief, and not beating other people down for doing the same.
The Christian family matter, again comes down a lot more to the cultural specifics of American protestantism (maybe their catholicism too, I don’t know too many american catholics to see if they’re as different as they claim to be).
LGBTQ Speaking over nonsense, yes is shitty. And happens amongst christians too. More aptly as well, it comes from the fact that the modern LGBTQ community has a really hard time accepting religions of basically any bent (you’ll say it’s more ok with christianity, but frankly it spends most of its time trying to fuck with that so I’d argue against it), mostly due to the fact that the majority of religions are rather old, and in being so, have the occasional bit in their texts that either is, or can be strewed as problematic, regardless of how modern practice manifests with regards to it.
And now the reason I started this reply, your point about appropriation and Kabbalah or whichever of the variant spellings you want to use. No. In a word, no. If you start going down the route of various forms of magic, occultism and the like historically, you hit a point where you realise EVERYTHING is appropriated, including a lot of Jewish stuff (notably via old Persian shenanigans, as Jewish texts are one of our best ways for discovering stuff about those!). But the thing is, the time scale is so old (Christian Cabala is much younger than Kabbalah, yes, but there’s still nearly a 1000 years between its birth and today, and the hermetic Qabalah is even older still), that you don’t get to pretend it’s not become a fabric of their religious mysticism as well. If someone is straight up doing the exact same stuff as the Jewish form, reading the Zohar and the like, sure, then maybe you can argue appropriation, but the variants of mystical practice, though yes growing out of a Jewish base, are not uniquely Jewish, and haven’t been for centuries. Hell, as time progressed, Jewish Kabbalah actually started borrowing back the innovations of Hermetic Qabalah. Someone using a magical practice that, whether or not you like it, is ultimately tied into basically every faith throughout Europe, and most of the ones present across the mediterranean (if you look hard, there is an islamic variant of kabbalah as well! I’ve not read massively into it, but it furthers my point). You can’t claim exclusive rights to it for judaism any more than you could claim exclusive rights for covering one’s head, or for monotheism, or for any other belief that you can argue Judaism spread to other groups, but are still fundamentally part of those groups.
Generally being uninformed about Judaism absolutely is a problem though!
The uncensored name of G_d thing CAN be used as a derogatory thing, but more often than not, it’s born out of the (frankly correct!) attempt to refer to our G_d as separate, and distinct from the Christian one, since the word G_d in and of itself is more often associated with the Christian one, than any other (like, the same reason people refer to the muslim G_d as Allah).
Judeo-Christian as a term...isn’t a problem. There are differences, but you take any two of the major world religions, and none of them are as closely intertwined as Christianity and Judaism, and that does lead to lots of overlap, just because there have been lots of Jews living with lots of Christians for a VERY long time, and thus they have both influenced one another (it’s why I also don’t like the appropriation line, it’s only as much appropriation as saying Buddhism’s similarities to Hinduism are as a result of appropriation. The two faiths are so closely tied because they’ve been so close together for so long, not because one group looked at the other and consciously decided to steal something).
Religious/Atheist as a dichotomy is...a relatively normal assumption amongst followers of ANY other religion. I can only think of a handful (yes Judaism included), that wouldn’t have to do some legwork to reconcile being a religious atheist in their heads. But, throwing a tantrum at people for getting confused about it, is honestly just being rude and angry at people not quite getting what is quite literally one of the fiddliest things about Judaism to get (and anyway it’s only because they conflate the idea of a religious vs a cultural jew with theistic vs atheistic, which is somewhat a fumbling of terminology). You wouldn’t like it if a Christian started whining and tantrumming at you for not understanding the trinity, or a pagan (admittedly of some shapes but my gripe with neopaganism is separate), getting catty because you don’t get pantheism as a concept. It’s one of the unique, and confusing parts of the faith for an outsider, getting mad over them not getting it is like expecting a foreign tourist to have perfectly mastered your language.
Old Testament the exact point you make to them, they could make back to you. Calling what is their holy text by a different name could be offensive to them, it’s not called the tanakh in christianity, and mislabelling it is hurtful etc etc. That’s just a problem to be resolved on a case by case basis because unfortunately we have shared texts, and end up labelling them differently.
Chosen People, this is the big hook that every antisemite likes to swing around. But again as with a lot of these...it’s not unique to Christianity, or cultural christians. I’ve seen antisemitism using it to assert we think we’re superior from arab muslims, from indian hindus, from chinese atheists, from every corner of the world I’ve interacted with and made my judaism clear in, I’ve seen it at least once.
I really don’t get why so many tumblr jew pages (and it is only tumblr, annoyingly), are so intent on sticking in the knife and driving a wedge between us and the rest of the world, and why they’re so intent on being outright hostile to most other faiths (especially Christianity, though that’s only because most of them are american and that’s what you see most over there). Like, if the lesson you took away from learning about antisemitism across the world, and the hatred people have born of ignorance for our faith, and your response is...to hate them because you’re ignorant of their faith too, I really can’t fathom how you got there.
