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22 butch mdni

[loserbutchblog]

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MDNI

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[loserbutchblog]

guys is it too nerdy to ask what your loved and hated gifts would be if you were a stardew valley character??? I WANT TO KNOW PLEASE TELL ME

[loserbutchblog]

you might hear “queer infighting” and imagine a tastefully violent and deeply homoerotic physical altercation between two beautiful queer people but no. its always like 2 ppl who have never been outside arguing about whether im allowed to be a lesbian or not

[loserbutchblog]

@n0turg1rlfr1end made a post about how relying on AI is lame and embarrassing (correct) and this guy commented “live and let live” and i just responded “no” and he got so mad he commented this under my pinned post LMAOOOO

pretty sure he meant to say “boring” + he used the wrong youre but holy fuck. reading this hit me like an 18 wheeler i am laughing so hard

[loserbutchblog]

guys im starting a new stardew game who should i romance? for context i’ve really only played 2 long term games and one i started romancing maru and decided to just spend my days platonically doting on willy and in the other i married alex… butch4butch fantasies i fear. anyway ik all the butches love hayley but i just dk what to do

[loserbutchblog]

ok guys i was already considering leah pretty heavily and i’ve decided that im gonna start giving gifts to hayley and leah and see whose scenes i like better

[loserbutchblog]

guys im starting a new stardew game who should i romance? for context i’ve really only played 2 long term games and one i started romancing maru and decided to just spend my days platonically doting on willy and in the other i married alex… butch4butch fantasies i fear. anyway ik all the butches love hayley but i just dk what to do

[n0turg1rlfr1end]

Personallyyy if a girl comes up to my gf and asks them out I do not care if my gf replies “sorry, I have a gf” because it’s just polite

Dating and putting urself out there in the modern world is pretty hard especially for queer people and i don’t see why it would be a problem for ur partner to apologise for letting someone down tbh

[loserbutchblog]

ik we have all seen the trend of people stitching “lucky you” into the inside zipper of their jeans which is super cute and fun. i also saw someone post a pair that said “did i say yes?” which is an equally artistic and informative statement on consent!

unfortunately, now i cant stop thinking about a pair of jeans that say “did i say please?” on the zipper.

please tell me yall see the vision

[krowsweater]

gardenias on the fucking tile where it makes no fucking difference who fucking held back from fucking who tbh

[loserbutchblog]

sometimes losing people for being trans feels soul crushing and sometimes you are the only person on the beach at 3am. sometimes you are shirtless in a pair of swim trunks with only the kinesiology tape you bought in bulk for 14 bucks between your body and the waves. sometimes you dream that one day the sun will feel hot against your scarred chest on the same beach, but today you need to rehearse the steps, late at night when no one is there to see. sometimes you feel the sand against your trans back and that feeling forces you to stop asking “why don’t they love me” and start asking “what were they so scared of?”

sometimes you have to ask a little sandpiper what everyone is so scared of at 3am, alone on the beach.

but are you really alone if you have a little sandpiper to talk to?

[barbwirebutch]

i will get top surgery i will get top surgery i will get top surgery i will get top surgery i will get top surgery i will get top surgery i will get top surgery i will get top surgery i will get top surgery i will get top surgery i will get top surgery i will get top surgery i will

[loserbutchblog]

i have nothing against noah kahan. i just think he should be humanely put down for writing willing and able. its not personal.

[loserbutchblog]

butch culture is not smoking or even wanting to but wanting a really cool lighter that you keep on you at all times anyway

[loserbutchblog]

one of my favorite things about MY butchness is that im mostly attracted to femmes and have been for most of my life. naturally, that has been my default for so long that it never surprises me when i find myself sexually attracted to a femme. but every now and then, i see a really hot butch and want to fuck him and theres a little moment where my brain goes “oh my god you are having gay thoughts!! you are both boys!!” and then i have to be like bitch you are gay. but for a split second it feels really weird and naughty and dirty in a way that makes my stomach flip. i like it a lot.

tenderqueers please dont yell at me for being heteronormative. i am having fun gender gay sex fantasy hours. let me be happy. let me be free.

also there is nothing hetero OR normative about my identity- please and thank you.

[loserbutchblog]

yeah breakups are hard but have you ever cropped a shirt you love like 2-3 inches too short?

[finalgirlguy]

lucy dacus review for stone butch blues is so beautiful 💌 happy lesbian visibility week

[loserbutchblog]

maybe im being too woke but my biggest ick in the world rn are these posts that are super popular of people being like “you can break up with me but you cant uncall me daddy” or revealing stuff their ex was into like huh? esp when its butches/mascs/studs bc what are we talking about?? quit being weird. if someone breaks up with you and your first instinct is to say “let me try to embarrass them on the internet by revealing details of our SHARED and PRIVATE sex life” you are genuinely such a loser. calling it a tiktok trend doesnt change that.

and also what a crazy way to tell your future partners that they are only safe with you when you arent mad at them.

YUCK!! LOSERS!!!