[lottyeh]

hi everyone! i'm charlotte, i'm a questioningly irl detransitioner who stopped T after four months irl because of this kink! i'm in the process of social detransition right now

send me threats and dick pics

kinks

misgendering, detransition, misogyny, hypno, breeding/pregnancy, denial

all misogyny or bioessentialism will be tagged!

limits

scat, vomit, anything involving minors or animals, incest, ageplay, somno

(this list will be added to! my limits list is not a DNI so unless you're a minor idgaf what you post i probably just won't look or will ignore it)

i try to keep exact personal info off my page publicly but if you wanna know my exact age or smthn then dm me!

[puppygonewild-deactivated202601]

social detransition notes game

in august i will be 10 months off testosterone!!! my appearance has been feminizing and i present as female in public as much as possible, but i’ve been avoiding just going for it and fully detransitioning. everyone i know irl still thinks im a trans man, and i know that needs to change. so im posting these detransition goals, and if i get enough notes to reach them im planning on finally fully detransitioning

• i change my pronouns on all social media to they/them (100 notes)

• i come out to my mom as detrans (200 notes)

• i come out to the rest of my family (300 notes)

• i change my pronouns on social media to she/her (400 notes)

• i make a public post on social media coming out as detrans (500 notes)

• i start presenting female at work (600 notes)

and maybe i’ll add more goals if i reach them all? i’m not sure. but i know i need motivation to do the right thing and tell people who i really am. spam is encouraged and appreciated 💗

[ftmgirltits-deactivated20240910]

Sorry for being so inactive lately, here’s my latest outfit for the detrans challenge! I wore this out to an appointment, a groceries trip, and a walk around my neighborhood and I got gendered as female the whole time!!

[confusedcunny]

detrans/misgendering tags are important

Out of kink post:

Can I start something? I noticed a lot of detransition kink posts use tags like 'ftmtf' or 'detransition' and such. I used to do this myself, until someone (politely) asked me not to this. I realized they were very much right. Lot's of us do this without bad intention and without realizing it can have a very negative impact.

People who genuinely detransition or are ftmtf are probably flooded with kink content they didn't ask for. So maybe it's on us to stop using 'ftmtf', 'detransition' and instead start using 'ftmtf kink', 'detranstion kink' etc.

I also try to add as many trigger warning tags as I can think off. Such as 'tw detransition' 'tw detransition kink' 'tw misgendering kink' etc.

Maybe we can make this a trend?

[lottyeh]

adding onto this, sometimes if you tag things as two separate words, kink posts still flood over into regular tags. i've started tagging things as #detranskink as a single word which seems to avoid having my posts show up in other tags!

[reorientation]

i'm being completely serious: i have 100% detransitioned because i got into this kink. i stopped T over a year ago now and all the (admittedly very few because i was on a low dose for a short time) effects have totally reversed, i dress fem every day, i never bind anymore, i took all my pronouns off of my social media and i let every new person i meet assume she/her. i don't even think of myself as ftm anymore, i literally just view myself as female and i don't get dysphoric anymore. there's a small group of people left for me to tell i use she/her now and after that i'll have finished going back to female.

to ftm girls reading this: this can happen to you to if you just let it! <3

What is there to add, really? They should make Hallmark movies about this stuff - wayward girls learning the true meaning of womanhood.

I'm proud of you, Anon! A lovely example of just letting all that gender confusion settle softly into your past and simply becoming the woman you were meant to be. I'm sure there will be plenty of girls reading this and feeling jealous of you, and maybe some of them will learn the right lesson from it.

[lottyeh]

yayyyyy! i can't believe it's been a year! i'm feeling better than ever, my dysphoria's almost totally gone, and i'm so so happy i stopped taking T

[confusedcunny]

As Detrans December starts I think it’s a good time to remind anyone (and perhaps most of all remind myself) that you don’t owe anyone anything. Notes games, promises and anything else, it’s just for fun and for kink. If it doesn’t feel good: don’t do it. If you changed your mind on anything that is totally fine.

Unless you are actually detransitioning and discussed it with your doctor, don’t mess up your hormones. Sudden low T can cause negative moods, low libido etc. You can totally just play pretend. It’s just kink.

Feel free to share this or create your own version of it, someone out there might need to read this.

If someone is angry about that, they can go and be angry somewhere else. You are enough and don’t need the internet points to be valid.

That being said, have lots fun this month! Make sure to drink lots of water, pet a cat or dog and tell yourself you deserve love 💕

[lottyeh]

Can I ask how you’re inducing lactation and how successful you’ve been? That’s something I’ve been interested in but I know it kind of takes a lot of time commitment and I’ve seen some people use supplements that can be hard to come by, so I was just wondering your methods? I really want my tits to get bigger and more sensitive so hearing your success really makes me hope it’ll work for me too!!

hi! i don't use any supplements or anything. i pump using hand pumps or express by hand as often as i can, aiming for around every 3 hours. a lot of people say you have to be really strict with how often you do it and it does help but you'll still get results if you're a bit lax with it! so far i'm only getting drops but it's slowly but surely increasing. if you're just looking for bigger more sensitive boobs then you can afford to be more relaxed! that started happening in the first few weeks of just massaging a few times a day for me :)

finding a source of domperidone (the drug everyone uses) definitely helps with quicker results though lol

[lottyeh]

hey everyone! i didn't realise i hadn't properly been on here since june so i wanted to make a little update post to say how i'm doing. if you're new here, none of the stuff i'm talking about here is fantasy. i'm just a bit weird and am exploring real detra.nsition using kink hahaha

i've been off T for 255 days, or over 8 months, now! i've not got any changes that stuck around, thank god, so i look completely female, like i was never on T at all.

i haven't worn a binder in just about as long, i don't even know where in my room it is anymore. i've been wearing bras every day and any chest dysphoria i had is totally gone, i've taken to showing them off and showing cleavage and stuff which has been really fun! i also wear skirts or dresses much more often than i don't and wear makeup every day. none of this, surprisingly, has made me dysphoric at all?

i've started a new college course and haven't introduced myself to anyone using he/him so they're all using she/her for me! i've taken the pronouns out of all of my bios and "accidentally lost" my pronoun pin so there's literally nothing to correct them.

literally the only thing between me and being totally detran.sitioned is telling people i know. that probably won't come for a long while yet but otherwise i'm presenting totally female. it's a lot of fun! you should try it if you haven't <3

update: hi again! adding onto this a little while later to say i've started coming out as detran.sitioning irl!! kind of. i'm letting everyone new i meet assume she/her and telling everyone i already know that i don't care about pronouns anymore. everyone i've told that to so far has immediately defaulted to she/her. it's felt great! i still need to confront my birth name but that's a task for later me. i'm just celebrating what i've managed so far!

[lottyeh]

Do you still wear boy underwear or have you thrown all of it away and replaced it with pretty panties?

i still have a few pairs somewhere but never wear them! i might throw them out soon, that would be fun. but yeah, other than those it's just panties!

[lottyeh]

Then you know the answer is to do the second option, tell everyone you were wrong and then you'll never be able to take it back again. You'll be a girl forever and no one will ever see you as anything else.

i'm so tempted, you have no idea. to just completely close that path off to myself. tell everyone i know that i'm certain i was wrong and they were right all along, to tell them to challenge my retran.sition if i ever want to. to tell the clinic to put a note on my file to never give me T. to change my name back to my deadname with enough attempts to bar me from changing it again. i want to so bad

[lottyeh]

Are you into Hucow or is the lactation a part of your breeding kink?

much more related to the breeding kink but i'm open to a little hucow. as a treat!

[lottyeh]

Really there're a few ways to do it, you can tell them you experimented with your gender identity and realized you're happiest as a girl, you can admit that you were wrong and they were right (though that might reinforce any unfortunate beliefs they might have), or you can stop correcting people entirely and allow it to happen naturally until no one misgenders you anymore

the last option is what i'm probably going to do in reality but i do like the idea of the permanence of the second one. who'll listen to me if i change my mind but have already admitted i was wrong the first time?

[lottyeh]

guess whose cup size went up?

[lottyeh]

guess whose cup size went up AGAIN?

[lottyeh]

The best way to get used to your dead name is for everyone to use it for you. Jump off the deep end and tell them the truth already, you know you'll feel so much better after you do it

i knowww it's just so scary! how do i even go about telling them? i don't know. "hi parents i fucked around with a kink and now i'm detransitioning for real. sorry for years of arguing with you, you were right!"

[lottyeh]

How much did your pregnancy scare contribute to you detransitioning? How did you feel about it at the time?

i was scared at the time but definitely excited by the prospect! i wouldn't say it's the main reason i detransitioned but it definitely sparked something. it made me realise that if i was pregnant and carried it to term that i would detransition to be a mother for the baby. no shade to seah.orse dads, obviously

[lottyeh]

Do you keep yourself shaved and smooth like a good girl?

mhm! i've been thinking about getting waxed so it'll last longer