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Hi, I think it’s about time I address this before it compounds and snowballs, generating animosity where there should be love. Like so many people on this platform I post things that I like and make me happy. Little sayings and motivational pieces to help get me through my darker days. At first when I had no followers, nobody paid any attention to me or what I was posting. I would go on Google images or Pinterest and pull pictures that made me smile. Soon after, people began to follow me and appreciate the affirmations I was sharing. For the first time, I felt that I wasn’t alone in my struggle. This motivated me to make my own content that was inspired by the things I saw on Google and other content creators on Tumblr. I didn’t even realized what I was doing in the beginning was wrong because spreading positivity and helping others is and has always been my mission. Before I knew it, the Cwote Community grew and I began getting messages regarding the posts I made back when I had no followers, I didn’t know what to do. I was distracted by the people I thought I was helping… I know that I’m not alone in this, people take content that doesn’t belong to them every day and I’ve been stolen from too, hundreds if not thousands of my pictures are posted without my consent all over the web. From positivity blogs and Instagram accounts, to Miley Cyrus’s social accounts. This doesn’t justify what I did back when I began this account, I am simply extending an olive branch of empathy.

I know this won’t fix the wrong I’ve done, but as a conciliation, I would like to make a shoutout post to anyone who feels i’ve wronged them. If you send me a message saying I stole from you, robbing your creativity, I will add you in the post, as well as take down your content. I am terribly sorry and hope that this will be a step in the right direction of giving back to those i’ve taken from. Something i’m learning is that when you have influence, you have a responsibility to do right by the people who can see you. Thank you all for caring enough to call me out on my bullshit. With your help, I will be better and we can continue spreading positivity to those like us; those who need it most.

xoxo, Cwote

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i am guilty of this too and want to fill my account with my own original content from now on as well !!

I think i'm afraid to be alone. Theia things fill my head when i'm not in a relationship. There just so overwhelming, and idk what to do. if i give myself a break from fasting and stuff i just get so sad, tired, and i just feel alone.

whoever you are - you are NOT alone. i know it can get really hard sometimes being single because it can feel empty, but your relationship status does not correlate with your self worth or mean that you’re alone and don’t have anybody. there are so many different types of relationships in a person’s life, you don’t have to be in a romantic relationship all the time. i’ve been single for so long and i’ll admit, i too find myself searching all over for that special someone at times as well. but the most important relationships that i have in my life right now are with my closest friends and closest family members. the right person for you will come along, but you’ve got to be patient and accept that it may take a while. but i swear, when you search desperately for someone, you push it further away and everything gets blurred. you miss out on things because you’re looking in all the wrong places, and it truly does make it harder to find someone. the best things really do come to you when you’re not looking for them. so don’t miss out on the other close friendships and relationships you could be strengthening right now because you want to be in a relationship. it’ll come, just focus on the good people you have in your life right now. they’re all there for you. once again, i promise you’re not on your own. people truly do care. otherwise, why would i be answering this right now?

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1. i do not own any of the gifs or pics posted on here unless stated otherwise. if you see your content posted on here, pm me for credit or removal.

2. i am in no way a certified or licensed therapist/counselor or anything like that, i am simply giving my opinion and personal advice to those who ask for it. you absolutely do not have to follow or listen to anything i tell you. i am fully aware that i am not always right, i just try to share my honest thoughts on issues. it’s okay if you disagree with me, as long as you remain respectful.

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So I broke up with a guy about three months ago. He still lives with me though and it still feels like there's feelings on both sides. Family likes him too. The reason we split though was selfish on my half, I didn't enjoy the sex as much as I did with others and I wanted that back, without cheating. So how do I fix that issue on my side?

i would definitely be honest with him about why you broke up with him if you weren’t already. i think he deserves to know the truth, especially since you live together. i’m going to be straight up with you, if you truly believe there are still feelings on both sides, i think you might have made a mistake breaking up with him. if you genuinely liked him a lot, i don’t think mediocre sex is a big enough problem to cause you to break up with him… because that’s totally something that can be fixed. you’ve just got to communicate to him what you thought worked and what didn’t. if he really likes you, i’m sure he’d be willing to try new things because boyfriends want you to enjoy the sex too. i know it’s hard to be honest about those things because you don’t want to embarrass him or make him feel bad, but if he likes you a lot, i’m sure he’d rather change it up in bed than get dumped. but honestly, there’s a part of me that’s skeptical about this too because you said the only issue with him was the sex. well like i said before, that’s not really a major or unsolvable issue that causes a lot of breakups between two people who truly love each other. so i just feel like there may actually be a deeper issue there that you haven’t come to terms with yet. maybe you’re struggling a bit to commit right now or something and the sex is just a coverup excuse for that? (i’m not trying to sound mean, but typically when small issues disturb a relationship that much, the problems root from something bigger.) You may want to reevaluate yourself and where you’re at emotionally in your life so that you can make the best decision for yourself on how to move forward with/without him because there may be some things you yourself need to resolve first before getting too involved with him again.

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Need oral and sex advice can you help

hahaha sorry, but i definitely couldn’t give you any advice in that field. i’ll be honest with you, i am MUCH less knowledgeable and experienced with that stuff.

So my friend n I hav been friends for 2.5 years and he decided to move back across the country. Before he left he got drunk and told me he loved me (which he's said before) and loved me just as I was and if I asked him to stay he would try and figure out how to stay and then he kissed me on both cheeks. And then before I left he held my face in his hands and told me to look him in the eyes and told me he loved me again. Does he want a relationship or want someone to want him to stay?

i can’t really accurately answer on his behalf, but to me, it honestly sounds like he genuinely loves you. i have a feeling he probably does want you to want him to stay, but i don’t think he’s only telling you he loves you because he wants someone to convince him to stay. that’d be really weird. if he wanted to stay, he could definitely just stay on his own and not tell anyone he loved them if he didn’t. that wouldn’t be practical.

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OKAY Y’ALL. so i still have a lot of unread submissions from you all, and i realize that most of them are probably pretty old and you don’t even need/want my advice anymore. but i’m still going to try and answer most of them because maybe someone who stumbles across my blog in the future will have the same issue and may find some answers and/or comfort in some of my responses. so, yeah. ya girl’s back for now!

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Hi I see that you give out some good advice. I been single for year now & was having trouble letting him go.I recently meet this guy who understands that im still not emotionally prepare to start a relationship & we are completely honest to each other about our past.I tend to push people away when I notice a slight change.Lately he has been distant but I been thinking of my ex.I dont know if its cause I still have feelings for my ex or is it cause Im insecure to develop feelings for this new guy

hmmm… these are always tricky situations because you don’t want to end up using this new guy to get over your ex, even if it’s unintentionally, because that’s super unfair to both of you. that could also really hurt him. but at the same time, sometimes letting yourself fall for someone else is that last push you need to move on and finally let go. i’m a bit biased because i’m personally not a fan of on-off relationships, and i really do believe that exes become exes for a reason. so i feel like if you’re thinking about your ex again, it might just be a defense mechanism you’re subconsciously using to avoid heartbreak with someone new since you feel this new guy’s growing a bit distant. either that or you’re just not fully over your last relationship yet and still need some time to recover. but don’t play it too safe because you could potentially be missing out on something really special here. thanks for reaching out :)

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Hey ok so there's this guy I like and it seems that he likes me to. One day I was at an amusement with him and he would playfully push me and stuff like that and while in line he would hug me and stuff like. I feel like he likes me but at the same time I don't know how he feels about me. I really like him and I want to take a step further but I'm scared. lol I get nervous but if u get what I'm asking then can u help me out. 😅

bruhhhhh he’s SO flirting with you. i mean, i don’t know the guy. but from my perspective, i take that as he’s totally into you. if i were you, i’d take all those things as positive signs because i definitely don’t act that way with any of my guy friends. even my close close guy friends. i only do that stuff to guys i like. and i think it should give you a little boost of confidence knowing that because i’m sure everyone else around you thinks he likes you too, so i’d just go for it and make a move. or tell him how you feel about him. ;) good luck!

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I like this guy in school I already gave him a drink but I don't know how to approach

depending on his personality, i tend to find either the subtle/flirty approach or the straight-to-the-point approach most effective. i’m always very straight forward with guys i like because that’s just who i am and it eats me alive if i really like them and i don’t know how they feel about me, but it’s actually always worked out in my favor… so i’d just try whatever you’re most comfortable with, but still get the point across fairly obviously because in my experience, GUYS DON’T PICK UP ON THE HINTS I DROP EVEN THOUGH I PRACTICALLY DANGLE THEM RIGHT IN FRONT OF THEIR FACES!!1!1!1!1!1!

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I have so many feelings for him it physically hurts my heart

friend, i relate to this on a spiritual level. but when you love someone that much, you can’t hold it in. tell him so that if he feels the same way, you two can let those feelings thrive and flourish together. if he doesn’t feel the same, just keep on living. you will meet someone who does eventually.

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My girlfriend is rude what should i do?

tell her to be nice and change her attitude/the way she treats people or drop her!! rude people are NOT fun to be around and that’s not a good quality for the person you’re dating to have.

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