friends joke around about me being the grave digger because my fiance is 12 years older than me, people look at us funny in restaurants, people look so confused even when i say im engaged, but especially someone so much older than me. people moan and mock about how he could be my father or whatever, or how im just doing this because i lost my father at a young age. Those people can have their thoughts and opinions, but heres how i feel.
99.9% of the time im not even thinking or worrying about the age difference, and that 0.1% of the time when i do think about it, it’s because someone brings it up ad asks me about it.
Ive been with him since i was 18, ill be 21 this fall, people hoped this would just be a phase that i would go through right out of high school, wrong. people thought i wouldnt last this long in a relationship with someone so much older than me people would ask how i felt about him going out to places 21+ because im underage, yeah for the first year i would sit up and wonder, but he always came home to me and reassured me that he was mine. most 20 year olds are still going through their boyfriends phones while they are in the shower, Me, im settling down in my own home, eating food i bought without FS from the fridge that i paid for.
i sincerely think being with someone older has made me more successful.
i found my best friend and soulmate all in one, just so happens i found him at 17 and ensued a relationship with him by the time i was 18, i went to a birthday party with my sister for her friends son, turns out he was the uncle, we had a friendly conversation, of course to myself i was thinking about how handsome this man was, when i was 18 he came to one of my sisters parties and i was able to reconnect with him.
2 1/2 years later i still think hes my best friend and i want to spend the rest of my life with him, he has never talked down to me, he doesnt ever try to control me. he is a mature adult.
Im glad to say being with him i was able to skip over the drunken whorish college days, unplanned/unwanted pregnancies, and most importantly i dont have to deal with FUCKBOIs
moral of the story, ladies, if you have your shit together and know what you want in life go for the older guy, men dont mature until their late 20′s, and theres absolutely nothing wring with being a successful sexy trophy wife. he wins, i win.
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