BAREBACK: things to bear in mind :
- Not everyone that says he always uses condoms in their profile is honest and HIV neg. Actually, A LOT of people are searching for a raw fuck in private messages, even when they don’t say it in public to avoid being judged. The same way, it happens a lot that even when many guys start using the condoms in their sex dates, they end up taking them off to enjoy a bareback fuck when they are horny, but of course, for the public they “always practice safe sex”. Strange times when natural sex has became a taboo…
- If u are willing to fuck bareback in casual sexdates, don’t ask the guy if he is NEG as a condition to fuck… What is the point? Do you really think everyone is honest about their status or they all are actually aware of it? most of new infections come from people who don’t know they are HIV positive, therefore they are not in treatment yet, consequently, they can easily transmit the virus during bareback sex.
- Is safer to fuck bareback with an undetectable HIV+ person than using a condom with someone whose status you don’t know for sure. Transmissions caused by broken condoms - the incidence reaches a scary 11% of the encounters - or other circumstances has happened, while an infection coming from an undetectable HIV+ person has NEVER happened. In fact, it is so safe that undetectable people can have children without infecting their partner or child. Also a lot of neg people started using PrEP, which also avoids HIV infections much more efficiently than condoms.
People that criticize barebackers are usually the ones that crave it the most privately. It is very typical that all those guys that are so frustrated for not being able to make their fantasies come true, want others to frustrate their sexual life as well. Why do you care so much if others fuck with condom or not? You are “safe” as long as you use it in your own sexual encounters… Don’t you think? If you don’t like bareback, just use your condoms with others that enjoy sex that way and leave barebackers enjoy their way as well. Don’t use your shallow and fake “health awareness” to excuse what actually is a case of nosophobia, serophobia or simply envy.
- But there are more STD besides HIV! You may say… Well, unless you suck dicks and ass holes with a condom - never seen that- I have to give you some bad news: those STDs are also contagious during oral sex. It’s true that the more practices you do without the condom, more odds you’ll have to get a STD. But, if for instance if you get fucked with a condom by a dick with chlamydia, you most likely won’t get the chlamydia in your ass, but if you previously sucked that dick without the condom, the chlamydia is probably in your throat already. We all know that the “other STDs” argument is just another excuse to shame bareback in undetectable poz / PrEP neg users, So if you are going to use that argument, go all the way and use your condoms also in oral sex to protect yourself from them. Good luck enjoying that.
At least barebackers in general get tested constantly. condom users normally don’t do it until they get symptoms. Getting tested more regularly and taking the treatment in case of transmission is the way of prevention.
The old statement “condoms=safe / bareback=dangerous” is far from accurate nowadays. Get updated, be aware of the different situations of each person and avoid misconceptions and prejudices with information.
