The most self loving thing to do is always the most loving to others too! Even if it doesn't seem like it in the short term. In the long term though everyone involved will see that you doing what is best for you was also truly best for them. Knowing this can help you make what sometimes can be not so easy choices. The most self loving is not always so easy, particularly to the people pleaser but with practice, your heart will speak louder and will be easier for you to listen to.















