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@lucithegreat666
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💫 Lux 💫
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🌟 primarily here to talk about npd and other mental health things as they apply to me (may discuss other personality disorders, will discuss ADHD and autism occasionally) as well as hellaverse or any other fandom content I feel like.
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Lmao why are anti-kink minors interacting with me?? 👀 I know this blog is safe for work but I am very pro-kink just for the record.
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There is no way to claim that binary trans people face specific forms of oppression that non-binary people do not without being exorsexist and reductive. Many people, binary trans people included, constantly forget that non-binary is a spectrum rather than a rigid category, meaning it would naturally include individuals with transition goals that intersect with those of binary trans people.
I’ve come across transmasculine non-binary people who want to go on T, get top surgery and pass as binary men because it would be gender affirming to them, all of which are steps many binary trans men need. They would likely face a significant chunk (if not all) of the exact same legal, social and medical discrimination binary trans men following the same path would face. The same can be said about transfeminine non-binary people who desire similar transition goals to binary trans women.
Of course, not all non-binary folk who were AFAB and want to pass as men are transmasculine, just as not all of us who were AMAB and want to pass as women are transfeminine. And an obligatory none of these steps are needed to identify as any of the aforementioned labels. But these are just examples to show that the transition pathways and discrimination many non-binary people experience overlap directly with binary trans people.
So, frankly, it would be ridiculous, or misinformed, at the very least to claim that non-binary people are exempt from issues faced by binary trans people. But I have seen this sentiment perpetuated in online trans spaces, including those that claim to be anti-transmed.
this is exorsexism.
i mean, heck, even a nonbinary person who was AFAB, does not medically transition or want to be perceived as male (and vice versa!) still experience antitransmasculinity or antitransfemininity respectively, just not the parts specific to medical transition or being visually perceived as men. but all nonbinary people who were AFAB, even nonbinary women, are framed as traitors to womanhood and feminism because they are "rejecting womanhood", "trying to escape misogyny" etc. a lot of people also think that all AFAB nonbinary people are "trying to be men" because if someone is not (strictly) female, they must be male. all nonbinary people who were AMAB, even nonbinary men, are seen as appropriating womanhood to an extent, as "trying to escape the responsibility of male privilege, as gender-transgressive. and again, people don't believe nonbinary people are real, so many think that all amab nonbinary people are "trying to be women". anyone who is seen as rejecting womanhood and/or trying to be male, or as rejecting manhood and/or trying to be female (or in many cases, both) will be affected by antitransmasculinity and antitransfemininity respectively, which is exorsexist in itself because most of it is due to structural misgendering of nonbinary people as some kind of trying to be binary.
and those of us who are androgynous are often the victims of both transmisogyny and antitransmasculinity in our day to day lives. we are constantly having to deal with being misgendered (by being mistaken for a binary trans person) and defending ourselves while ALSO defending the rest of the trans community to combat the slew of transphobia and exorsexism we face and yet binary trans people often do not extend that same olive branch to us. i cant even begin to count the amount of times ive defended binary trans women and men to transphobes who had confused me for one, yet i see them constantly blaming us for the divides within our community or claiming that we can't possibly understand the true extent of transmisogyny/antitransmasculinity and denying us our own experiences. it's extremely frustrating. as an androgynous person i live my life in fear because i can not pass as anything other than queer. there is no "stealth" mode for us. there is no default or status quo i can cling to for safety, no matter how we present ourselves, we can not win any favour from others. binary trans people can gain favour in the larger public eye, but you could never have a nonbinary blair white or kalvin garrah because no transphobe would listen to us even if we catered ourselves to them the way the two i mentioned before have because we are viewed as being worse than binary trans people for denying the gender binary via our existence.
nonbinary folk deal with antitransmasculinity, transmisogyny, and exorsexism daily and yet people think that for some reason we couldn't possibly have to deal with it to the same extent as them and ime from going to a binary trans person to a nonbinary trans person is that i face so much more transphobia now than i did being openly transgender at a wonderbread trumpie high school. i can't say that's the reality for all nonbinary people but i, personally, am very sick of seeing so many binary trans people talking over us and scapegoating us all the time, treating us as both babies who don't understand true transphobia and also as master manipulators who are purposefully out to divide and cause unrest in our own community.
NPD culture is wanting to be praised for masking so well, but... Then they'd know you're masking.
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Blocking is self care ❤️
Logging off is also self care
Blocking is self care ❤️
Uh- are you aware of the meaning of proship?
Proship has never meant anything except a combination of three ideas:
Ship and let ship (your ships don't harm me and vice-versa) and YKINMK (your kink is not my kink, and that's okay; my kink stories don't harm you and vice-versa)
Harassment over fiction is not acceptable
Censorship of fiction is not acceptable either
Any other definitions are made by antis, not proshippers, and are an attempt at revisionism to justify harassment based on false claims.
WAIT that’s what that means?? 😭😭
everyone always has a dni for proshippers I thought it was something freaky or fucked up 😭😭
Yeah. Antis like to claim that the "pro" means "problematic", but nope. "Pro" (for) is simply the opposite of "anti" (against), and all that "proship" really means is "Let everyone ship what they want, everyone mind their own business".
Why does every egotypical I vent to feel the need to tell me I’m not a bad person when I never said anything about being a bad person??
I want therapy sessions every day, I want my therapist to specialize in ME. How is she supposed to understand how my brain works when we’re just barely able to get through talking about the worst of what the week has thrown at me??
First therapy appointment is today and I’m kinda freaking out
Why am I not allowed to know definitively what other people are thinking
WHY CANT THE EGOTYPICALS FIGURE OUT THE EXACT TYPE OF ATTENTION I WANT AND GIVE IT TO ME ALREADY
npd + autism culture is ISTG empathy is some fucking inside joke.
maybe its bc i've never felt empathy due to my autism, but my GOD. the concept of empathy sounds borderline supernatural 😭
like what do you mean you FEEL other ppl's emotions. wtf. how is that even possible 😭😭 -🦇🪰
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For real though actually because why do they get to think they’re mind readers but if I do that it’s a “””delusion”””??
there's probably a better way of wording the last part but like come on it doesn't matter if we're all the same to fascists
quick what's your 69th song
