malani.i

women and black people first forever!! sideblog for edowayeye & biscotticaprisun

[ma-lani]

[iceyrukia]

[uncomfortablecliche]

south korea is one of the most misogynistic ‘democratic’ countries. remember the femicides and the endless telegraph rings of men posting their wives and daughters? the arbitrary line drawn between prostitution and the porn industry and trafficking vs some ‘global elite pedophiles’ is just based on money and power.

[g1rluninterruptedd]

every male has the capacity to be a trans woman. there is no difference between you sleeping w a male proclaiming he’s a woman and sleeping with a male who’s fine with being a man. there is fundamentally no difference except one saying “i am this”. you’re not a lesbian. a “girlcock” is a penis. period. you’re not having sex with their essence or their mind or their identity. if you like penis, you’re not exclusively same sex attracted. you’re not a lesbian. and with pride month coming up, i don’t wanna see yall “WOO HOO LESBIANS!” talking about a male in a wig

[itdoobielikethat]

[rosalesbeausderholle]

I find it interesting how I've seen even feminists take the "sex is inherently degrading" ideas that patriarchy pushes quite literally (because of who "fucks" and who "gets fucked") because obviously I know men think it is degrading for women but why should anyone listen to them? I think the solution to that is to attempt to create new models of sexuality which are healthy and based on pleasure and on a mutual desire to give each other pleasure.

Like, obviously being a lesbian makes me biased on this because of how lesbian sex dynamics are. But it also allows you to experience first hand that "getting fucked" or being the passive partner is not inherently degrading because you're the one there that is getting all the pleasure, you're the one there that the sex is all about, sex becomes an act of service to give YOU pleasure and make you have a good time. At the same time "fucking" or being the active partner is not inherently harmful because again, you're literally making another person feel good and that's all you're doing there, her pleasure is the point, you're the one providing it. This doesn't mean that there cannot be sexual abuse in lesbian relationships, but it does mean that there are ways to have sex that are not patriarchal power plays and that straight people/bi people in straight relationships and gay men also have access to. So we should build towards a more healthy model of sexuality for everyone rather than being bioessentalist about it.

[radlymona]

Sabrina Carpenter’s music and image isn’t for the “female gaze” as her fans will delusional say, but it isn’t tor the “male gaze” either because that type of music is just not popular with most men. Sure they’ll think she’s hot, but they won’t actually buy her albums or go to her concerts (which Sabrina and her team know).

It instead acts as a weird validation for women who don’t want to interrogate behaving in degrading ways for the benefit of men. It’s just the musical manifestation of “bimbo feminism”.

[loversofsappho]

It is propaganda designed for women by a team of males and handmaidens. They only want to further women's oppression by making womenbenevolent agents of patriarchy. Selling your body, fitting yourself into male fantasies, infantilizing yourself in pornographic ways - you retain your will, as you willingly comply, as you willingly denature your self. Isn't it so freeing?

Same old shit recycled again and again.

[emeritusprofessorofnothing]

What's the saying? They pay someone to convince you to do that for free?

[antiporn-activist]

looking for this?

[artemis-melody]

Brown men say it's white men

White men say it's brown men

Left wing men say it's right wing men

Right wing men say it's left wing men

Muslim men say it's Christian men

Christian men say it's muslim men

Poor men say it's billionare men

Billionaire men say it's poor men

Gay men say it's straight men

Straight men say it's gay men

What's the common denominator? Are you noticing a pattern here?

[beyonslayed]

Things Black men think are destroying the black community

homosexuality

Things that are actually destroying the black community

Black men’s emotional and physical violence towards black women

Erasure of black women from discourse on police brutality and racialized violence

murder of queer and trans black folks

black men’s infantalization of the white woman yet derision of the black woman

colorism (primarily directed at dark skin black women)

pedophilia

[clit-licker420]

how much of the strength divide between males n female is truly biological and how much is the result of epigenetic trauma from the worldwide comparative starvation of female children for thousands of years?

[clit-licker420]

especially considering that nat geo article about prehistoric women being stronger today than female athletes. and even today girls are encouraged to eat less than boys, when i was a child i knew girls on diets aged EIGHT! chronic malnutrition severely impacts the ability to build muscle - multiply that by five thousand odd years, centuries of discouragement from exercise, positioning of strength as an ‘unfeminine’ quality, confinement to the home, constant pregnancy, sexual preference for weaker, delicate women, and you have a recipe for progressively weaker generations.

i don’t deny at all that there is some natural difference in strength levels, but i wonder how much of an impact the past millennia of misogyny has had on women’s strength, whether we will ever know the extent, and how long that would take to undo.

[deerwomann22]

Also I think pedophilia plays a huge role in this. Men were taking for a fucking millennia really young brides and assaulting them I dont believe that it caused no consequences

[scribbles-0f-a-madwoman]

I read somewhere that anthropologists believe the age our ancestors would start their first period was around 17 years old. They also suspect a woman would have her first child at around the age of 19. Furthermore, humans did not have contraceptives, YET, their children were commonly 4 years apart in age. Our relatives in the great ape family do not practice abstinence, they just have a naturally set cycle of reproduction. Somehow, scientists haven't figured out why human females have started their periods earlier and earlier. They also have no explanation for the disruption of natural childbirth sequences. Let me be a skeptic of knowledge for a second... science is largely male. Lets be honest, they know its patriarchal reproduction "methods" (if you can even call it a method, its more inefficient chaos where bad genetics are passed through rape, effectively fucking our species up). They wont study it because they don't want to know the truth. Thats why they wont study the female body in medical research either. When you actually learn about a subject, you have to confront the lies your society has made about it. The lies that comfort you, the lies that soothe your subconscious instinct. Instinct that whispers about the blasphemy of current sex dynamics. Males are truly the variable subjected to the use of female. Its written in the law of sexual selection. And they hate that. So much so that they scream over women and enforce the idea that nature consists of purely patriarchal brute force and female submission. Thats far from the truth. Why would the sex that labors the least have the authority on when labor takes place? They do not know efficiency. But thats how men work. Men are dogs without masters, lost without direction. They act without cause because they have lost their leader, the one who determines efficient production with her desire and welfare.

That is why I believe we as women need more skepticism. Men twist knowledge to make it seem like this pain is innate, but its really a cover up. I've been in scientific studies, I've seen the loopholes and casual disregard of female welfare. What made me stand out from the others (and eventually leave due to the unbearable conformity, the constant push to accept that humiliation is intrinsic to female) was that I dared to doubt. I dared to question. Knowledge is a tool, and men use it against you, constantly. Many times I'm looked at as if I am a conspiracist, operating on crazed urges rather than logistically assessing if something is true, but so many eat the poison that we call knowledge without thinking of who curated it in the first place. No true knowledge can be derived from mindless following.

In short: yes I do think men have raped their way into devolving our species collective health ESPECIALLY womens health :)

[5739e8-deactivated20260524]

as a lesbian, am I the only one who hates the concept of a masc/butch and femme? how is this not heteronormative, a way of saying who the 'man' and who the 'woman' of the relationship is? ig i'd be considered a 'masc' just bc i don't wear makeup, i workout, and i wear baggy/comfortable clothing. how is this not reinforcing gender roles? it's so annoying how pervasive this is among lesbians. wake uppp these labels are dogshit and sexist

[rey253]

i hate any and all gendered labels and roles, idk why some people only apply it to straight people, i think it’s just all equally regressive.

a woman with a stereotypically “masculine” personality/aesthetic shouldn’t be some sub category of “manly woman” (even if she’s a lesbian)

[femclasscirce]

Absolutely losing it at how ancient Athenian law literally had the Nordic model.

But only for boys

[femclasscirce]

Literally says:

"If any boy is let out for hire as a prostitute, whether it be by father or brother or uncle or guardian, or by any one else who has control of him, prosecution is not to be against the boy himself but against the man who let him out for hire and the man who hired him (...). And the law has made penalties for both offenders the same."

[femclasscirce]

Hits different when you know the guy who's allegedly responsible for this law was also the guy who introduced state-sponsored brothels to Athens. which he staffed exclusively with enslaved women

[femclasscirce]

Solon

There's as always academic debate about whether or not he actually wrote the laws, if its just a compilation of laws from his time attributed to him bc he was one of the leading figures, or something else. Tbh in my opinion it doesnt matter, what matters is that both this Nordic model law and the female brothel slaves were real, and existed at the same time

[femclasscirce]

Living for these tags @colonised

At everyone else in the notes saying some variation of "women weren't human to them, only men mattered" yes literally you have no idea how right you are, it's visible down to the minutiae of language in ancient Greek. I'll add to this or make a new post once I have compiled more research because it is legitimately important to remember this aspect of our history.

[gnomebutch]

blackpilled feminist should mean people like Valerie solanas not whatever the current tumblr microculture has deemed it as

[kiefbowl]

normal sentence: men have male privilege over women

crazy ppl: and if that man was only a floating head, what then, hmm? when can we talk about massive bitch privilege, hmmmmm????

[somedumbduck]

as serious and real as trans people frustration is with terfs is. Whatever danger terfs seem to think they pose to them isn’t. Trans people aren’t going to harm terfs on any real level and all this “Kill terfs” is a essentially a joke in the same way “down with cis” was, used to vent frustration against a group actively oppressing a group unable to do anything about it. Those threats aren’t real. What is real is the dangers terf’s ideologies put transwomen in on a daily basis, and  the mistrust it instills in feminism in every transwoman whose’s ever been harmed by those ideologies.

[cocksmasher69]

“Men threatening to rape and murder women they disagree with isn’t actually dangerous, no, womens’ words are what is truly dangerous!!” nice deflection but the trannies are wrong yet again

[darkfemalley]

“Those threats aren’t real” and yet they were when y'all beat up and stole from a 60 yr old woman for just saying gender should be abolished.

Give me ONE example of a “terf” actually harming a trans person. Michfest has a ton of examples of trans women harming women, and we have video proof if someone hurting a woman because they viewed her as a “terf.”

And also, fuck you. Men HATE radfems more than they hate trans people, don’t shift the blame of male violence on women that are hated by men. You’re an idiot.

[rad-and-i-dont-stop]

Gaslighting and DARVO. Nice

[daisydeadhead]

Transgender Activist Dana Rivers Arrested for Brutal Murder of Lesbian Couple and Their Son

Did you say something?

[respectthefemalebody]

Women harmed by rape in bathrooms by Males:

Woman raped in Vermont courthouse bathroom | Local News 

Phoenix man raped woman in park bathroom - AZCentral.com

Woman Raped in Downtown Annapolis Restroom: Police … 

Cross-dresser arrested in bath house 

Stranger Grabs Woman by Throat, Rapes Her in Bathroom … 

Woman Was Raped In Flatiron District Bar Restroom, Police … 

Woman Raped in Bathroom of Gramercy Bar, Police Say … 

Man arrested in bathroom stall assault at Circle Centre Mall … 

Union Square Park bathroom rape attempt on woman, 63 … 

Police Warn of Attempted Rapes in Downtown LA Restrooms 

Sexual predator jailed after claiming to be ‘transgender’ to assault women in shelter

Women get raped in public toilets in shopping malls. - Belle … 

Man Hiding In Bar Bathroom Rapes Woman - Huffington Post 

Woman, 23, raped in busy Manhattan sports bar restroom … 

Cross-dressing Peeper Infiltrates Cal Women’s Locker Room 

Police: Cross-Dressing Peeping Tom Arrested Again 

Woman (50) raped in toilet at her work in Chloorkop … 

Man at-large who lured 12 year old into CVS bathroom … 

12-Year-old Raped By Stranger in Public Bathroom - Jezebel 

Texas police hunt man who lured a girl into a restroom and …

10-Year-Old Girl Raped in Restroom of California Denny’s … 

The Threat to Women and Girls Presented by Bathroom Bills  The story of biological male sexual predators who used nondiscrimination laws protecting gender identity to sexually assault women.

Here is a site documenting 250 cases regarding transwomen harming women and girls over a five year time span. 

And here’s some more:

A transwomen rapes and kills a six year old girl.

Man, Dressed as Woman, Charged With Sexually Assaulting of Boy | NBC 10 Philadelphia. 

Crossdresser cabbie convicted of rape 

The ‘Cambridge Rapist’ is dead 

Transgender Woman: Convictions Irrelevant to Citation 

California: Male rapist claiming “transgender” status placed in CA WOMEN’S prison: 

David Megarry (“Sandy Jo Battista”), a convicted sex offender who has molested girls, expects tax payers to pay for his feminizing hormones. 

Male-to-Female transgenders are 18 times more likely than women to be convicted of violent crime

Regarding any crime, male-to-females had a significantly increased risk for crime compared to female controls (aHR 6.6; 95% CI 4.1–10.8) but not compared to males (aHR 0.8; 95% CI 0.5–1.2). This indicates that they retained a male pattern regarding criminality. The same was true regarding violent crime. 

In other words, MtF’s were seven times more likely to be convicted of violent crimes than women, and just as likely as “cis” males to be convicted of a violent crime.

Trans-women violence against females and children:

Sex offender sentenced after dressing as a woman and going in women’s locker room Cross-dressing cab driver convicted of rape Man dressed as woman beats up mother-in-law Man dressed in women’s clothes flashes children Man dressed as woman arrested for sexual assault

Transvestite arrested for groping women while seeking “fashion tips”

Cross-dressing suspect arrested for raping woman

Cross-dressing child molester will serve 15 years in prison

Cross-dressing fake nurse targets the elderly

Man disguised as a woman takes pictures in women’s locker room

Male transgender exposes his genitals in a maternity store

Man dressed as a woman solicits child for sex

Man wearing female mask & wig spies on women in public toilets

Male transgender exposes his genitals to women and children

Male trannsgender exposes his genitals to students

Male transgender spies on women in university restroom

A transsexual killer who tried to rape a woman must be moved to a female prison because holding her with men breaches her rights, a judge has ruled.

Transwoman rapes 13 yr old boy, is identified in press as a woman 

Transwoman sex offender arrested for not registering as a sex offender after befriending and moving in with a woman with young child

A cross dresser and sex offender sneak in elementary school

Cross dresser arrested for being a serial child rapist

Male child sex predator identifies as a woman in prison and is allowed to change name

Child rapist is arrested and found to be living as “a woman”

Convicted sex offender sues over sex change operation 

Plymouth transgender sex offender jailed after coming into contact with child 

Dothan Man Sentenced for Child Pornography

Christopher Hambrook, who claimed to be a woman in order to gain entrance to a woman’s shelter, where he raped two homeless women.

Cross-dressing man arrested for exposure at Walmart 

Purdue police investigate report of man taking photographs in women’s restroom 

Police: Man in bra and wig found in women’s bathroom - admitted to other offense where he showered in the girls’ locker room for sexual gratification 

Police: Sex offender posed as woman, went into women’s locker room 

Cross-dressing man allegedly videotaped women in restroom 

Police: Predatory Sex Offender Entered Girls Locker Room …

Man dressed as woman arrested in Central stabbing …

Australia - Registered sex offender dressed as woman busted …

Predator who claimed to be transgender declared dangerous offender…

There is research documenting shame and narcissistic rage in autogynephilic MtF transgenders.

The few studies that have examined personality disorders among transsexuals usually have found that these disorders in general—and disorders in Cluster B, which includes Narcissistic Personality Disorder (American Psychiatric Association [APA], 2000), in particular—are more common in transsexuals than in nontranssexuals 

Founder of the “TERF TRACKER” outed as a violent sexual offender

Transgender MtF’s use status as “women” to try and receive lighter sentences on crimes committed; avoid registration as sex offenders:

Suspected Transgender Serial Killer Donna Perry Defense Says She Shouldn’t Be Punished For Alleged Crimes Committed As A Man

Philadelphia man who dressed as woman to scam bank …

FBI investigating two Monday bank robberies in Oak Park

Cleveland Heights fraudster who sought leniency for being transgender gets 14 years 

One In Six Sex Offenders Change Names To Avoid Registration: Study

Child sex offenders who secretly change their names to try and hide their past face five years in jail 

Dodging Google? Convicted rapist Jeffrey Kitze’s name change draws attention of victims rights advocates 

Thousands come off sex offender list months after new law 

Convicted of sex crimes, man gets pardon, changes name to …

Sex Offenders Employ Simple Techniques to Change Identity 

Violent Offenders Seeking or Granted Sex Reassignment Surgery:

James Randall Smith – kidnapping and raping a 17-year-old girl

Luis Morales/Synthia China-Blast – rape and murder of a teen girl: 

Wolfgang “Beate” Schmidt – serial rapist and murderer

Rodney Quine/Shiloh Quine – murder, kidnapping and robbery

Jeffrey Bryan Norsworthy/Michelle-Lael Norsworthy – murder

Steve “Nikkas” Alamillo – murder 

Lyralisa Stevens – killing a San Bernardino County woman with a shotgun in a dispute over clothes 

Noel Crompton/Maddison Hall – murder of a 28 year old hitchhiker, charged with rape after he was moved to a women’s facility

Michelle Kosilek – killed his wife by nearly decapitating her with a piano wire

Dillon Andrew Shadle/Riley Nicole Shadle – sexual assault of a child 

Peter Laing/Paris Green – beat, tortured and murdered a man, moved to another women’s prison after having sexual relations with female inmates

Vance Egglestone/Shauna Taylor – serial rapist 

James Elliot Wolfe/Jessica Elaine Wolfe – child rapist 

Mark Brooks/Jessica Brooks – murder 

Violent Offender’s and Women’s prison (expressed interest in or already moved):

Tania Veilleux – sexually assaulting a young girl for 4 years: 

Luis Morales/Synthia China-Blast – rape and murder of a teen girl

David Wesley Birrell/Bella-Christina Birrell – murder

Michelle Kosilek – killed his wife by nearly decapitating her with a piano wire

Christopher “Kitty” Grey – molested a child for 5 years

Phillip “Sabrina” Trujillo – stabbed a man, theft and robbery

Pre-op placement:

Cheyenne Lamson – privacy complaints due to pre-op status

Noel Crompton/Maddison Hall – murder of a 28 year old hitchhiker, charged with rape after he was moved to a women’s facility

Peter Laing/Paris Green – beat, tortured and murdered a man, moved to another women’s prison after having sexual relations with female inmates

Tara Hudson – assault

Jaris Lovado/Bianca Sawyer – robbery, possession of stolen property and fraud

Stuart Kelly/Katelyn Findlay – robbery and assault, registered sex offender

Richard Chaperon/Richard Kavanagh/Synthia Kavanagh – brutally murdered his ex roommate, a transsexual male prostitute, with a knife and hammer

Jade Follett – stabbed a man who stalked and threatened after they met through a dating website

Post-op placement (includes prison transition and self-castration):

Peter Rogers/Debbie Vincent – ex-military animal rights extremist charged with intimidation, threats, placing car bombs, arson, disturbance of personal remains and theft of ashes:http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/crime/10772486/Debbie-Vincent-Former-soldier-turned-animal-rights-extremist-jailed-for-six-years.html

Melissa Young – killed neighbor by stabbing him 29 times over rejecting a gift:https://archive.is/C3QK8

Robert Hilton/Rebecca Hilton – murder: http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/jailed-as-a-man-released-as-a-woman-robert-hilton-becomes-rebecca-hilton-in-prison-8496049.html

Richard Masbruch – serial rapist: https://archive.is/0MpQX#selection-1223.0-1223.16

Douglas Wakefield/Tai Pilley Wakefield – strangled his uncle, beat him with a hammer and stabbed him 48 times with a garden fork. While incarcerated, he strangled, stabbed, beat and killed an inmate, held prison officers hostage twice and attempted to kill one of them:http://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/latest-news/293991/Sex-swap-lag-s-wedding-chop

Glenn Nelson/Leslie Ann Nelson – killed a police officer and investigator with an AK-47 assault rifle: http://www.njpen.com/20-years-after-leslie-nelson-shooting-haddon-heights-police-grieve-reflect-rededicate-themselves/

Granted surgery, awaiting placement:

Rodney Quine/Shiloh Quine – murder, kidnapping and robbery:http://www.latimes.com/local/california/la-me-inmate-transgender-20150810-story.html

David Cross/Kelly Denise Richards – armed robbery: http://www.irishtimes.com/news/armed-robber-has-sex-change-1.1110904

Alan Baker/Sarah Baker – kidnapped and tortured his step-mother’s brother, attempted to kill another inmate: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2383992/Violent-inmate-Alan-Baker-given-10-000-sex-change-NHS.html

[lesmercy-deactivated20190205]

For all the anons saying trans women dont hurt women, or who are saying men dont call themselves trans women to assault women ^

[celtyradfem]

@the-rice-cat here are some good reasons to hate trans males

[la-lesbians]

Tag TRA’s in this post. Let’s see how they try to excuse this.

[terfinesse]

I’ve been waiting for 84 years for genderhairs to name even One (1) case of a “terf” doing real tangible harm to a trans person, meanwhile the number of mtfs who have predated on, assaulted, and murdered women and children are already immense and growing everyday.

The idea that tims are only “venting their oppresors on the internet” is blatant propaganda used to draw attention away from the countless cases of mtfs comitting sex crimes against women and children, don’t fall for this cultist tactic, do not ignore the reality of male violence against women, do not prioritize the fragile feelings of these men over the safety of women and children.

[oracle-cassandra]

all these deaths are horrific

[yassss-black-diaspora]

ALWAYS FUCKING REBLOG

[fretami]

and these events are just those reported.

in a world where reporting a man for being in your lockerroom, bathroom, crises center etc. can get you kicked out (see la spa, see the women who have lost their jobs for saying a man was in their changing room or bathroom, see the EXTREME lashback high school and college girls especially get due to the culture in schools around trans ideology), most women dont report.

ive been in a spa where a grown man came in with a sports bra and shorts on, and he was esentially free to voyeur all the naked women. even if he truly believed he was meant to be a woman (often inspired by porn for straight/bi men) he was still living out his male fantasy. and no one did anything. i left a review, but thats all you can do in a hyper blue state, people support men way more than women any day.

[themusicdanceexperience]

Queer theory is so funny to me as African because I'll see all these people in the western countries trying to assign meanings to clothes and to pronouns and to parts of their personalities, they'll believe that changing their clothes or their pronouns or their language or their behavior will exempt them from misogyny. And while I understand that it is a condition of the System to keep us all separated, I can't help but bristle at the racism behind this all.

If any of these liberals had bothered to read, they would know that there exists many many communities indigenous to Africa whose languages don't have gendered pronouns, where clothing rules are different. Where men and women dressed the same, where the rules of nudity are different. Where men are effeminate. And in most, if not all of these communities, misogyny will still be rampant.

My community used to allow female to female marriages but all those women were still circumcised. My language does not have "she" or "he" but that did not save any of us from misogyny. My friend's community doesn't even have gendered slurs and she still had to run away when she was 11 so that she wouldn't be circumcised. There is no solution other than uprooting the whole system. Creating more categories does nothing.

[lesbinewren]

crazy how every time a female character gets cliche misogynistic writing we have to explain to people again that fictional characters are not real and do not choose things for themselves.

[lesbinewren]

it’s really this at the end of the day tbh

[aishabellasbigblogofeverything]

👆🏿

[anxiouslyliquidcurse]

up and thinking about how men can piss in public but big chested women feel like theyre assaulting people just by existing