As the title suggests, it was my birthday, yesterday. However, there was absolutely not enough time for me to celebrate. There was no birthday cake, no surprise party; no alcohol was flowing freely and no family or friend gathering; just work. In fact, I only got home from work at around 20.30 in the evening, something that I will be doing tonight (Friday) and on top of that, I’ll have to work on Saturday as well. Whatever it takes to finish a last minute project before the end of February. Therefore, no party no nothing.
Actually, that last statement is untrue; there was a very private party. I came home to my wife and a wonderful home-cooked dinner. Too vanilla? Perhaps, but then again it is not something we get to enjoy every day. In addition, it’s quite an impossible task to come home and turn on the “Submissive” switch after a day full of stress, reports, meetings and fruitless discussions. In any case, we enjoyed our dinner, we had the chance to catch up on our day and after a few drinks, we did rather shift the conversation to include bits of Femdom.
Me: “So… How about a femdom birthday gift”?
From there on, we had a nice chat about what we’d like to explore further in our relationship. We laughed and discussed possibilities; simply enjoying our night. I did press the issue of punishments, even if it had to be in the form of a special birthday present. Obviously, it could not be something that would happen on that day as it was getting late, but something that we would look forward to in another day. And for the first time, I did have positive a positive feedback.
Her: “Does it really have to be a physical punishment? Could it not be some form of psychological punishment? I think I’d do better…” Were her exact words.
Of course, I could see her point. It would be better for us to anticipate something that we would both be 100% into it rather than just one of us be insecure about it. “Well you did say you wanted to be locked up somewhere while I do whatever… Plus, I already give you corner times so it seems easier for me…” She concluded and I could feel my submissive side slowly taking over everything. In the end, we agreed that she would plan something but only after my project is finished. It really had been a year-long discussion about punishments and for the first time she seems willing not only to try something, but to even plan it. And indeed that was the best birthday gift I could get.
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