I am Unwritten

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[madame-brooder]

Salig lang. Makalampos ra ka

[madame-brooder]

Dear Future Someone,

Hi, I don't know how to start this one but I would just like to say that I am a very complicated person. I like a lot of things and then I don't like them, I'm one of the boys, gays, seldom with girls because I want life to be less complicated. I can be a real pain in the a** but I sure do know how to love.

I have always been a believer that relationship is a work-in-process. Both partners must exert effort in order to get what they have now last for a lifetime. I can also be martyr at times, I can give you the world even though it means sacrificing my own happiness because that's how I love.

I get jealous easily so even when you just talk to other girls, it can get my nerves going. I'm not a fan of a heavy heart so I usually blurt out the things that I want to say and am always hoping that you would do the say. I'd like to keep the communication open because I believe it is the greatest foundation in a relationship.

You don't have to court me for years, if I think I know you enough and that I am already comfortable being around you then you can expect my yes to come around. 

I don't like being pushed towards other people because when I love I never look at other boys for I don't want to hurt the man that I love. However, I don't also want to get dragged and kept hanged in a relationship where the only person who is holding on and trying my very best is me.

I won't or rather I can't tell everything that I do and do not want because I'm not very consistent with things. Besides, wouldn't it be better if you yourself could get to know me better?

[madame-brooder]

The Concept of Getting Even

Sometimes, the reason as to why people tend to break up easily is because of the getting-even mentality. For example, once your partner starts ignoring you, you'll ignore him/her back which usually leads to you doing other things that can hurt your partner thinking that "WTH, he/she doesn't care anyway"

That's the problem with couples and even with friends, most of them like to reciprocate the pain the other has inflicted whether intentional or unintentional. They don't realize that in return they could hurt the other even more and can even tear up the relationship they are in.

For me, it is better to talk things out. Never miss a day without letting them know what bugs you or if they had done something to piss you off. Remember, it might be easier to just ignore things and act like nothing's wrong but talking has its different charm, it gives people the chance to be heard without the risk of getting anyone in pain.

[madame-brooder]

Bagito Scandal

Grabe ba, basta mga sex scandal kay abtik kaayo ang mga taw. Karon o, naa nasad daw part 2 atong Bagito.

Ang ako lang ba kay diba katong sa unang Bagito kay nagpakamatay man ang laki, maghuwat pa ba ng ga-upload ana nga mga video nga naa nasay masayang nga kinabuhi aron lang di nila ma-experience ang pag-bully sa ila?

Kung buot hunahunaon mali man sila sa fact nga ga-jug-jug-ah-ah sila sa public place pero diba wa man sad siguro sila gadahom nga i-video dei sila ato. Luoy lang kaayo ba kay bata paman gud, naa pay chance sa kinabuhi. Usa pa, dili rasad bya ang ga-jug-jug-ah-ah ang masakitan ug maglisod ana ay, pamilya jud ang dako kaayo nga maapektaran ana.

Bitaw oy, para nako, unsa guy makuha anang pag-capture ug pag-upload anang nun-ana. Fame? Recognition? Pride? Ahang dapita? Sus, nakaguba ra nuon ug kinabuhi. Taas na kei kog gistorya ba? Makalagot man gud oy kay luoy jud. Hays. Sigi. Bye.

[madame-brooder]

That Awkward Moment

That very moment in which you want to disappear not because you could feel the pain but because the situation just seem to be so awkward. I mean, how could it not be, he brought his girl while you were there coupled with the fact that your friends keeps on putting on that teasing face.

This may sound a little bit overrated but srsly that's not actually what it is. I just don't want to get caught up with ex situations. Well, I don't blame him since I seldom go with them during Sunday's but I think the event was actually helpful than destructive. Come to think of it, once I saw them I realized that I really was over him and those feelings which I thought still linger is not there anymore. It was very much like the story Dead Stars.

Maybe my bestie was right. I was going over the memories but haven't considered to measure my feelings. I think it really was a blessing in disguise because if today didn't happen then I might still be crying over the things that I can't have anymore.

[madame-brooder]

A little something about Love

I read another tweet saying that once you've found your one true love, they won't let you cry, but do you know what I think? Well for me, that's bullcrap.

Love is a cycle composed of happy moments and sad ones. Crying and getting hurt is part of loving because that only means that you care so much and you feel so much about that person that something he/she does affects you in so many ways.

The problem about people is that they tend to create a world where only happiness when it comes to love exist and that for a fact isn't good. Besides, getting hurt just means you are alive and you feel. It means you are a person who has its emotion still intact. You don't need to measure the love you have for another based on whether they make you cry. Anyway, just make sure that the person you have doesn't makes you cry too much that it isn't good for growth anymore.

No relationship is perfect. Every single one of them has its own ups and downs, keep that in mind.

[madame-brooder]

Random Thought

Kuyaw kaayo ba kay sa twitter naa koy nabasa about long-live nga love affairs. Ngano daw ug giunsa pagdugay, dayon nakahunahuna pud kos akong self ba nga dali rman na tubagon gud.

First, gugma gud mo diba? So it's not that difficult samot nag circumstances does not hinder people from being together. Maliban nalang ug di gugma, maglisod jud ug padugay sa relationship.

Naa say uban nga sag gugma, di jud magdugay. Tungod sad guro nas other factors. Family, setting, mga nun-ana gud. Pero para nako bitaw no, mapangitaan manag paagi samot na kung distance ra inyong problema.

Basta oy, ay jud mog katingala sa langevity sa relationship, mas katingala mo anang dali ra kaayo mag-ilisilis ug bayu nga murag gikabuhi. Hahahaha. Mao ra guro to karon oy. Kapoy na. Bye.

[madame-brooder]

Kabantay ka?

Kabantay ba ka niya, kato siya ba nga pirmi gatan-aw sa imoha.

Kabantay ka ato niya, siya biya tong naas imong kiliran atong dako kay kag problema

Pero nganong imo man syang gipasagdahan?

Nganong imo man syang gipasakitan ug gibiyaan?

Kabantay ba ka atong mga panahon nga wa pa ka kita niya,

Siya naa ras daplin gapahipi, naghuwat nga ikaw makabantay niya?

Pero nganong karon imo ra syang gisalibay,

Wala ra ba ikaw nagmahay?

Undangan ta na ning mga pangutanaha,

Kay kibaw ko, ug kabantay pa ka,

Wa ta nimo siya gi-ingon-ana,

Unsa ng ingon-ana?

Kanang halos gihimo na nimo siyang basura..

[madame-brooder]

Lami kaayo kag smile, makalanay

[madame-brooder]

Gugma tika, gugma nimo siya. Kung sa ako pa ka, di na ta tika lisudlisuron pa

[madame-brooder]

You don't need to be perfect, just stay real.

[teenagerposts]

[madame-brooder]

The music you make causes my heart to always melt

[madame-brooder]

I don't know why but it seems like I'm having this thing with musicians.

[madame-brooder]

Dear Someone,

Thank you for the million sparks and electrics that keeps on running every time we're around. It keeps me very happy knowing that you may not be mine but at least we are continuing on filling in each other's spaces.

Sincerely,

me

[madame-brooder]

Can you let him have me for the rest of his life, say yes, say yes, 'coz we need to know.

[madame-brooder]

If their understanding seems to be different than yours then be the better person and let things be.