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i want to be a vampire so bad. it would open up a whole new world of procrastination. puts off finishing a novel for 100 years. i don’t do the dishes for 20. oh wait i don’t have dishes because i suck blood. another fucking win
finished toadbert's halloween costume
little wizard
his cape has his name on it
It’s PRIDE MONTH and wanting to start with this little remembrance from queer people in the past.
From the book: Baby, You Are My Religion by Marie Cartier
at the farmer's market the baby was pointing at the tomatoes and going ba ba ba and signing "on" so my sister was like "how much for just one tomato" and the person at the stall was like "oh he can have one. don't worry about it" and the baby stood there by the stall devouring the tomato like an apple in big messy bites and people kept stopping and going "awwwww" and then "oh man that does look good" and buying a bunch of tomatoes. all natural organic advertising
lmao
your record playing. . .
crisp air breezing. . .
coffee is brewing . . .
f a l l
It’s about so much more than babies.
fucking hate it when the stuff everybody says "actually works" does actually work.
hate exercising and realizing i've let go of a lot of anxiety and anger because i've overturned my fight-or-flight response.
hate eating right and eating enough and eating 3 times a day and realizing i'm less anxious and i have more energy
hate journaling in my stupid notebook with my stupid bic ballpoint and realizing that i've actually started healing about something once i'm able to externalize it
hate forgiving myself hate complimenting myself more often hate treating myself with kindness hate taking a gratitude inventory hate having patience hate talking to myself gently
hate turning my little face up to the sun and taking deep breaths and looking at nature and grounding myself and realizing that i feel less burdened and more hopeful, more actually-here, that i am able to see the good sides of myself more clearly, that i am able to see not only how far i have to grow - but also how much growth i have already done & how much of my life i truly fill with light and laughter and love
horrible horrible horrible. hate it but i'm gonna do it tho
when parents said "cuz you be on that phone!" they were so right. some of y'all really, truly missed out on proper socialization and normal life experiences, social cues, relationship building (both with friends and romantic partners), and skills needed to competently function as an adult bc you really did spend the past 10 years glued to your phone. you can name every scandal james charles has been in, write a 12 page dissertation on why this kpop idol sneezing during jimins part of an awards speech is directly disrespecting bts and the entire nation of south korea as a whole, you know every popular tiktok sound but if I told you, a 22 year old, to give me an example of how to flirt your brain would start smoking and short circuiting. if I asked you to form a personality without it revolving around whatever niche aesthetic trend of the week is making the rounds online or whatever female character in a show you're watching who lives a life completely and utterly different to you is like, you couldn't do it. it's weird! I'm sorry to tell you but there's a new, evolved strain of 'basement dwelling, fedora-wearing, socially inept loser' going around and some of you have caught it.
as a lesbian who was in a 5 year relationship that ended a couple of months ago, my advice to fellow gays is to BREAK UP YOUR OWN WAY. when my ex and me broke up, we didn’t know how to navigate it because the model of heterosexual breakups was all that was available - the damage, spitefulness, ignoring each other, moving out straight away and fighting over household objects/pets, talking shit about each other etc. I really pushed for us to do what felt natural to us. after all, the reason we were both sad about breaking up was losing the FRIENDSHIP part of our relationship - so why couldn’t we keep it? it was such a healthy breakup. we only argued once when we were drunk and insecure. we still live together (along with my cousin/housemate). we still catch up on our fav tv shows and order take out. we don’t talk shit about each other. my family and her still chat and we still attend family events together. she still physios for my brothers footy team. we just fell out of love and our relationship turned into a friendship. you don’t HAVE to lose that. do your break ups your own way, gays. don’t look to het relationships to guide you. they suck.
Also, straight people? Your break ups don’t have to cut you off from a great friendship either. As a bisexual, everyone needs to just do their own thing and not feel like they need to cut someone off if it’s just because “it’ll be awkward” or “that’s how these things work, right?”. Give yourself time and feel things out. Maybe you’re not a good match romantically, but you can still be buds, feelings just take time and work.
