Belle's Life in God's Little Paradise

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Pregnancy

Now that I am an adult, I see women around me get pregnant. Some were normal, some had complications, and some lost their little ones.

Knowing these scares me.

Me and my partner aren't even financially stable yet and I am also not ready. There will be many changes in my body when that happens and things may not always go in my favor. I am not yet willing to commit myself to those endless list of possible pregnancy complications.

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GRIEF

865 days since my cousin, who was like a big sister to me, passed away but it feels like it was just yesterday.

I still can't forget the morning of June 7th. I woke up to my little sister's message saying that our cousin already left the realms of humanity. I pinched myself hard enough wishing it was just a dream - that I was just reading the message in my dream and nothing was real; but it was real. There's no coming back.

I never had the chance to visit her at the hospital because of COVID restrictions and my workmate recently tested positive during that time, so all of us who shared the same room with him had to self-quarantine. Now, I wish I could turn back time to visit her while she was still alive and bring her the burger that she was craving.

Well, time did not heal my grief. Although I worked my way around it, I still find myself tearing up from time to time because I miss her. We planned so many things and all of them were never realized. Those were simple things like eating out at the newly opened restaurant, and going to local places we've never been. I think grief is also about mourning the things we could've done together.

Before all this sadness, I had anger. I was angry at her for not telling anyone about her diagnosis that she knew a few years back. I was angry at myself because when she showed signs that she was sick, I was not stubborn enough to annoy her into telling me what's wrong. And most importantly, I was angry at cancer. Out of everyone, why would it strike someone who carries her family's burdens, who had big hopes and dreams of a comfortable future. In all honesty, I would trade my life for hers. I was raised in a comfortable, privileged life. No was relying on me and I didn't have any plans for the future. I was empty and numb. But that's not possible.

I scratch my brain asking the reasons why. I even dreamt of her but all I heard was her laughter and a hint of secrecy. Somehow, it felt like she wanted to get away from the pressure and responsibilities that was put on her shoulders and that was her one-way out. If this is true, I couldn't, and wouldn't blame her for that.

What weight is my grief and anger compared to the suffering that she endured since her childhood?

Maybe, just maybe, it's true that all things happen for a reason and that things will surely work together for good. Once I saw things beyond grief and anger, I found comfort in knowing her suffering has come to an end.

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Sometimes tho, I think i've read too many books and poems, and watched too many movies, all relating to love and romance that the things that happen to me, somehow don't feel new to me anymore.

Like, I know when a guy's supposed to say something and he actually says it and I'm just laughing internally because my expectation happened and it wasn't as fulfilling as it was in the poem or the movie. Ironically, I laugh when i get disappointed. Disappointment caused by a little sadness from the awareness that things portrayed in books and movies do happen in real life which for a long time, I believed, don't happen.

So, as I accept the fact, I learned to not be surprised anymore by what they say but I almost, always don't respond. Why? Obviously, because I think too much and I get all over my head and bam I've already thought the conversation through and how it's gonna end, so i just scoff/laugh, whatever you call it when you blow to much air from your nose, ending it all in my head.

Sooooo~ when I say, "communication is the key to everything"...that's really, really, like truly what I wanna do instead of curling myself up into a ball and raise my walls higher, believing it's all good for everyone, only to return empty handed —losing connections for thinking too much. Great.

-3AM thoughts

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hello ocean 💟

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//my first ever vector art//

Congratulations, Angelika! You made it through college!

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Bring Me The Horizon // Deathbeds

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If you are stressed, anxious  or just need to breathe try this gif

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“She thought she was independent and strong, but she got one small taste of love and she was hungrier than anyone.”

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February 21 at 1:32 AM

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I am not a trophy that you can display in your home as an achievement and a note of your masculinity, nor a Rubik's cube you can twist and rearrange however you want as long as it is pleasing to your eyes though you never know how to solve it, you just twist and turn, and sigh in satisfaction as if the current state of it is your hard work.

You loved the idea of me, all the good things you imagined me to be, turning a blind eye to my flaws, my issues, my needs, and my being. You saw me as a non-changing object and when I changed in front of your eyes, you panicked in confusion, always asking what happened to me. Nothing happened— nothing out of the usual. Just like the moon, I change phases. In your case, you loved the crescent phase so when I turned into a new moon, you didn't recognize me at all. You followed me around, trying to morph me back to who I was, never aware that I was already who I am, avec ou san toi, you just didn't know who I really am because you were so busy drooling on the ideas you've built.

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I'm sorry. I just feel really really lonely.

[abduction]

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Peace out ✌️

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You don’t attract what you want. You attract who you are

—some website

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It makes a big difference when you're too apathetic to give a fuck and when you wonder why you never feel so deeply.

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From Nadarang to Hindi Na Nga to Ligaya?