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surprising to see a video essay that is actually critical about the sex industry & uses critical thinking, its really refreshing. i want to boost this video & this woman's channel
just watched an episode on a serial rapist where a 18 year old girl was told by a policeman he’d put her in jail himself if she was lying, so she quickly changed her story & was fined $500. Years later a serial rapists computer was found where he documented all of these eapes & a photograph of her in the circumstance of her story was right there. “False reports” well I wonder how many “false reports” are true. & men are more likely to be raped than falsely accused also.
I've been saying. "False reports" are true reports that were recanted due to threats.
Yep!!! & I honestly hadn’t thought of that.
Police officers are also often abusers themselves, so what they consider "assault" against a woman is incredibly skewed.
For more information about this issue, check out Victim/Suspect (trailer) a Netflix documentary that follows the investigation by journalist Rachel de Leon on the disturbing pattern of young women going to the police to report they've been sexually assaulted, only to find themselves charged with the crime of making a false report.
End Violence Against Women International (EVAWI) has an informative publication on this issue called "Raped, Then Jailed: The Risks of Prosecution for Falsely Reporting Sexual Assault", which includes the case example of the 18-year old OP is referencing:
Sexual assault (SA) crimes are difficult to investigate and substantiate, and the police are pressured to "close cases", the easiest method for SA reports is to get the victim to recant her statement, thereby providing evidence for them to charge her with a false report which is a 100% slam dunk way of closing a brand new case.
Men can not be rehabilitated, as psychologist Rebecca Myers found out after many years of hard work.
Rebecca Myers has dedicated her life to trying to change the most brutal of Britain’s serial rapists and abusers. When people hear that, they always want her to reveal the “worst” thing she has heard.
Go on, they say, as though it’s an episode of The Killing or CSI. Myers, who is a forensic psychologist working with deviant criminals, will give away a few things, such as the fact that she can’t look at a table knife casually left in the butter over breakfast after her prison housed a man who stabbed his girlfriend in the bath and left the knife behind, stuck in. Or that the theme tune to Coronation Street gives her chills. One of her first cases was a man who went on a three-year raping spree, breaking into the homes of single women while wearing an animal mask. On one occasion he hid behind the sofa of his next victim in his terrifying costume as she, oblivious and happy, watched her favourite soap opera.
The actual worst thing? She won’t tell me that — she is scared it will contaminate me too. “I have never told a soul, and never will.” That’s her job, to suffer so that others don’t, to save other women.
One of the worst things she has heard wasn’t exactly a crime. It was after a lifetime of getting into the heads of these men through a gruelling and expensive rehabilitation programme for sex offenders that thousands of male prisoners in this country undertook over a two-decade period, at a taxpayer cost of an estimated £100 million. She personally started working with the Sex Offender Treatment Programme (SOTP) when she was 22, soon after she joined one of Britain’s most notorious prisons, known for the number of inmates convicted for sexual or violent offences. She worked with them, including the mask-wearing rapist, out of idealism and trust.
Then, in 2017, after Myers had spent 16 years on the front line of the SOTP, the results of a national evaluation came in. The SOTP didn’t work. It was abruptly abandoned. She had spent so long attempting to change people who had done horrible things, and when they were released they went out and did them again at just the same rate as the men who hadn’t attempted any change.
“It was gutting,” Myers, now 49, says to me. “Just shocking. A massive disappointment to so many people that had invested decades of their lives, totally and utterly driven by wanting to stop these people from doing it again.”
I find it more than a little ridiculous that we are treated to this statement regarding Myers' work "That’s her job, to suffer so that others don’t, to save other women."
Only to conclude with the following statements from her:
“No, because we can’t just do nothing. We don’t have the death penalty, we release people. We’ve got to carry on.
“I know the research showed what it showed, but I like to believe that I have averted crimes. I have to believe that over the last 25 years I have made a difference. I have to believe that or I couldn’t keep doing it.”
I'm sorry, but that sounds like profound intellectual dishonesty for the sake of preserving her own feelings about men. Many women know that predatory men cannot be fixed or saved, not from study or interviews or gathering police data, but from lived experiences with these men, being hurt by them, watching other women be tortured and murdered. I do not think highly of the priorities of a woman who has the opportunity to study the depth of this issue, draw the conclusion from the facts, and persist in supporting these programs and release of "reformed" predators back into the public because "we have to carry on". That is not "suffering to protect women", that's upholding the status quo of valuing men's "potential" over the lives and safety of women.
Benefits of describing prostitutes as prostituted women instead?
Not sure what the context is for this.
I would say that as the term 'prostitute' is a patriarchal categorisation: a symbolic and distinct 'type' of woman, separate from the non-prostitute - the 'normal woman'. The existence of this classification is useful for the patriarchy for two reasons:
A woman being a 'prostitute' marks her as essentially un-rapeable; the whore to contrast the madonna. This alleviates male guilt;
The concept of the 'prostitute' being separate from the 'normal woman' exists as an ever-present threat - stay in line, behave, put up with abusive behaviour, or else you risk leaving your safe domain under the supposed protection of one man, and so becoming her.
Note there is a contradiction there: the prostitute is sold under patriarchy to men as an un-rapeable woman, but is sold to women as a threat of rape. Men intrinsically understand that the prostitute is raped - but they use their symbolic framework to shift the classification of rape from 'psychological and physical terror' to the symbolic 'corruption' of some essential essence of the woman's soul. The 'prostitute' under the patriarchal pornographic ideology is un-rapeable, not in the sense that she cannot be subject to terror, but rather she is uncorruptable as she is already corrupted by her prostitution. The reality of rape is thus disguised through this symbolic framing, and furthermore pornographic ideology believes the 'whore' to represent the true essence of women's sexuality: a masochistic desire to corrupt oneself and submit as the animal below male humanity. It's convoluted, but it has to be, because patriarchy requires these symbolic categories - for without them, there would be no justification for rape, for violence, for hierarchy. To categorise a woman as a 'prostitute' would be to engage with a patriarchal framework that is specifically used to supplant the reality of rape with symbolic corruption.
However, 'prostituted woman' emphasises that she is a human being first and foremost - she is coerced under patriarchy into prostitution i.e. she is prostituted. So it is both a more accurate description of her situation and also re-emphasises that she is not a distinct category that we as 'normal women' can feel separated from, but rather she has been victimised in a way all women are vulnerable to.
Not to get too hopeful, but we as feminists frequently and vastly underestimate how much we got done in barely a lifetime. In countries like the United States, a babygirl born in the 1900s would’ve been forced to become voiceless property barely after reaching her late teens, but instead, by the 1990s, she could’ve gotten to die as a woman with completely recognised human rights, able to have remained single, able to have gotten a job while legally protected from discrimination and harassment, able to have opened her own bank account, able to have travelled alone, and able to have worn pants and short skirts and tattoos and piercings and a shaved head if she so wished, amongst so many endless things. We used to not be able to vote! It’s almost unimaginable how the turn was so sudden and so radical in the whole West and good parts of the East, as well, and we should always remember that whenever discussing our current problems and affairs
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This is a lecture Dr. Gail Dines gave at the Nova Scotia Women’s Summit in 2012. It’s about how women are portrayed in the media in general, but about halfway through (40 minutes), she starts talking about the research she’s done on mainstream porn. Said research is complied in her book Pornland, which I really recommend. That there links to a full PDF.
This is a group of articles titled The Protection Project by the Journal of Human Rights and Society. Long read, but it talks a lot about how porn contributes to sex trafficking.
This is a TED Talk by Ran Gavrieli about quitting porn that has 20 million views
Pornography: Men Possessing Women by Andrea Dworkin
Anonymous on Pornhub's Parent Company Mindgeek
Hot Girls Wanted is a documentary about the "amateur" industry
I analyzed how often men search for "teen" and other CSA terms in 2016
How viewing porn impacts the workplace
This website is meant to provide resources for anti pornography activists as well as to expose the harm caused by the porn industry.
an addition
What ACTUALLY helps women leave the sex industry, from a prostitution survivor
Financial assistance- grocery gift cards, preloaded transit cards, rent and utility assistance, etc
Community connection- support services, women’s spaces, recovery groups (SLAA, ACOA, Codependence Anonymous, One More Day, NAMI, + others)
Individual assistance- help with resumes and job applications, offer childcare so she can attend work/school/support groups, assistance with filling out government forms, offering transportation to medical appointments, offer to be a reference or sponsor, connect her with your connections
Personal connection- buy her a coffee on a cold day or water on a hot day, keep some single bills in your bag, treat her like a real person, offer to help with small tasks, recommend nearby resources
Take time to know her. Build rapport. Don’t assume you can “save” her. Don’t expect an instant connection. She likely has her guard up, and may be opposed to any random help offered.
Outreach to homeless women. Ever wonder why you mostly see homeless males outside? Because we’re usually working. Or with a “manager”.
Finally, and this a hard one, get comfortable working with religious organizations. Right now, most exit orgs are religiously affiliated. Many government run programs expect her to either work with police, narc, or go into detox.
So until we have feminist exit organizations, you’ll have to get used to working with religious groups. The exit org that helped me was Christian-affiliated. They saved my fucking life and never made me go to church.
These are all things that have helped ME and many women I’ve worked with (both while I was actively involved in the industry and now on the outside). YMMV.
cannot stop thinking about how good the fabrication of consent in squid game was… like yeah, the participants consent! over and over, from agreeing to the slapping game to ringing up the number of their own accord to meeting at the location to signing a separate sheet once more upon arrival… they can even disband the game if the majority decrees it. but this is all performative. because of course they’ll agree - of course they’ll come back.
the second episode is even all about addressing this ‘consent’, and that potential audience superiority: “so why don’t they just leave???? if they can??? why did they even do all this to start with?? it’s so extreme, to do all that just for money, i would never”
because, the show says, look at what they’re returning to. look at the life that’s offered as their alternative. debt up to their ears, money-brokers beating them up, poverty at its worst. do you see? do you see how yeah, joining that game is optional, but it’s optional in the sense of choosing to be stabbed or shot: theres consent, but not actual desire. that theres agreement, but under exploitation. there’s a reason only poor people are chosen to compete and it’s so obvious but i fucking love how the show handles it and addresses any audience superiority anyway
When will y'all start having this conversation about prostitution too? Y'all believe these vulnerable women choose to do it? Y'all truly believe that sex by coercion is not rape? Y'all think that consent can be bought?
love how op removed this response from the notes lol
Op is weak hypocrite lmao
“…theres consent, but not actual desire. theres agreement, but under exploitation…”
OP I’ve never read a more concise yet nuanced analysis of prostitution…oh wait..
they just making shit up at this point
so has any human being who isn’t an MRA or a troll or a terf in disguise actually used the term ‘cotton ceiling’ or
I’m an MRA and I’ve never heard that term before. What is it supposed to mean?
it means nobody likes you go away
Gonna assume it’s not something I’d ever say then.
Cotton ceiling is the tendency of trans women to be excluded from the higher echelons of (cis-dominated) women’s and queer spaces — specifically within the porn industry, but also society in general. It is a manifestation of transmisogyny at the intersection of cissexism, misogyny, and the glass ceiling
I mean I don’t use it, and I don’t really understand it etymologically, and I think it’s couched in a lot of fancy language which means a lot less than it says, but… I don’t see what’s wrong with it, either…
You don’t see what’s wrong with women’s underwear being called a barrier to be broken through?
the underwear being referred to ISNT the cis women’s; it’s the trans woman’s (or fat, disabled, nonwhite, etc. woman- the cotton ceiling often refers to radicalized bodies in general). the implication is that what is in the trans woman’s pants is excluding her from spaces and connections, and it’s something she needs to overcome. transphobes twisted the language the other way to demonize trans women.
Dude, I was around for the Cotton Ceiling Conference.
Like, literally irl around. It was hosted nearby, even, and I spoke with Morgan Page, one of the people presenting it.
It distinctly referred to the underwear of lesbians who refused to find trans women sexually attractive.
But hey, don’t take my word for it! Let’s hear from Avory Faucette, a trans activist involved with the Cotton Ceiling:
[T]he cotton ceiling [is] us[ed] to challenge cis lesbians’ tendency to support trans causes generally but draw the line at sleeping with trans women or including trans lesbians in their sexual communities.
Drew Deveaux, the originator of the term, is even more specific:
“The cotton ceiling is a theory proposed [by trans porn star and activist Drew DeVeaux] to explain the experiences queer trans women have with simultaneous social inclusion and sexual exclusion within the broader queer women’s communities. Basically, it means that cis queer women will be friends with us and talk day and night about trans rights and ending transmisogyny, but will still not consider us viable sexual partners.
The term cotton ceiling is a reference to the “glass ceiling” that second wave feminist identified in the workforce, wherein women could only advance so high in the workforce but could not break through into positions of power and authority. The cotton represents underwear, signifying sex.”
So right there from the horses’ mouth–
The cotton ceiling represents underwear, signifying sex, and the underwear in question refers specifically to lesbians’
Please, don’t try to retcon history to someone who watched it go down.
They are trying to backtrack and rewrite their own disgusting misogynist terms to make them more palatable to the masses. Nope. The cotton ceiling is most definitely rape culture rhetoric. Anyone who says otherwise is flat out lying because they know how disgusting it makes them look.
“Sexual exclusion”. What a rape-y thing to call women’s natural boundaries.
^ From the horses mouth (again)
^ “Breaking sexual barriers” (implying that the “cotton” part of “cotton ceiling” = women’s underwear to be “broken” through, as one would wish to “break” through a glass ceiling)
^ Even from a pro-trans perspective this sounds entitled and rape-y as shit!! More examples here and receipts of trans people using the term unironically here.
lmao look at them trying to redefine the word
Of course they are. They got called out for what it is and now it has to be the terf’s fault somehow.
So this is how 2026 is starting for women.
Martyna Ogonowska
From the Guardian.
There is still a huge lack of awareness that choking cannot be performed in a safe way, and its normalization through pornography is putting people at risk.
Three women tell of blacking out, feeling dazed and dizzy, and of ongoing memory issues and fatigue
Shocking discovery: Violent action that is usually done when you want to kill someone is dangerous, actually
If you could would you prevent any trans women from being in the same public spaces with you? Yes or No
If you could would you prevent any trans women from being in the same public spaces with you?
Yes
No
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For the hetero girlies out there who are desperate to be in a relationship:
I work in finance in a department that is all men, plus me. I work very closely with them.
Half of them are taken, have a beautiful wife with children or a girlfriend. I know they treat their partners very well, are super romantic and thoughtful by the way they treat them at business events, BUT:
The moment the women leave and we’re back to everyday life in the office, it’s boy locker room talk.
And I’m in the middle of it.
Your boyfriend let me scroll through his FYP on TikTok and Explore page on IG to prove his point that every man’s feed is full of næked women and soft p**n. Even though he’s not liking the posts, he stays long enough on them for the algorithm to learn that he likes that content.
Your partner is getting a hard øn just by the photo of an outlook contact by the hot colleague from the legal department and is constantly raving about how hot she to me.
Your man to whom you said yes to is started smoking just to go on smoke break together with the hot young assistant of his boss.
She’s very new to the office world because she can’t nail the business casual dress code yet but her taken boss doesn’t say anything against her baby pink frilly skirt that ends just under her butt cheeks.
Who are their female partners? I can tell you; I talked to them.
A college student in her masters program.
A doctor in training.
An entrepreneur who started her own business and has been the bread winner for 3 years.
A woman who gave her boyfriend or my boss three sweaters for me because I forgot to pack something warm for the group business trip.
A woman who left all her friends and family behind to move 500 km to be with her broke ass partner.
You’re not special, your future love won’t be special and that damn man won’t be either.
Gays are so annoying
You’re entitled to your opinion, but being homophobic & mocking the women who try to warn you about these things won’t save you from male cruelty and betrayal. Also, op never explicitly mentioned her sexuality in the post. How do you know she isn’t straight?