Pay Attention
After listening to the interview with LaidNYC, one thing that hit me was that many of the "men" in manosphere, who comment and/or write posts, may not actually be approaching or doing what they say. I'm not saying that they aren't, just that, in general, the best advice is through learning on your own.
Lo and behold what I wondered (after LaidNYC's interview): check the male-only comments on certain blogs by female manosphere readers and suddenly, they don't add with their other posts off them. And consider these same commenters are also posting at CH, RT, AG, D, and others with ideas that don't match when it's a different gender. Do their posts tone match from one site to the other?
The point - we should take action on our own, learn the lessons on our own, and from time to time, ask the community and learn from doing who's advice is good and who's advice is not.