youre not a lesbian. youre feminamoric.
What does that mean?
You can't be an enby lesbian. That's an oxymoron and you're misgendering yourself. Feminamoric is the term for you! Lesbianism is for women, and only includes women, and enbies aren't women. It literally insults the entire identity. Lesbians have been ridiculed and seen as lesser women simply for their attraction to women. You can't be an enby and be seen as less of a woman, because... well, you're an enby, and if someone saw you like that they're enbyphobic, plain and simple.
Lesbianism is for women and women only. GNC women are allowed because they're still women. You can't be enby and be a woman at the same time. That's misgendering yourself. If you're fem-aligned, you're still not a woman. I don't understand why this is such a hard concept to grasp.
Not a woman? Not exclusively attracted to women? Not a lesbian.