Gaymer Junk Drawer

a Not Always Safe For Work collection of things on tumblr and blogs I like

[kiss-my-piss]

Resources for Male Victims of Abuse

How to Recognize Abuse

**Emotional Abuse of Men

**Sexual Assault of Men and Boys

**Men Can Be Victims of Abuse, Too

**Domestic Violence Against Men - Know the Signs

**Information for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

**Help for Battered Men

**Battered Men, Battered Husbands

**For Male Survivors of Rape and Sexual Abuse

**Male Survivors of Incest and Sexual Child Abuse

**Help for Men Who Are Being Abused

Help Lines (Phone and Text Chat)

National Domestic Violence Hotline: [phone] (or 1-800-787-3224 for TTY)

National Dating Abuse Hotline: [phone]

National Sexual Assault Hotline: [phone]

National Suicide Prevention Hotline: [phone]

Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men: 1-888-743-5754 (US and Canada)

Hopeline Suicide Prevention Hotline: [phone]

National Hotline for Victims of Crimes: 1-855-484-2846

National Human Trafficking Hotline: [phone]

Polaris Human Trafficking Text Line: Text “BEFREE” to 233733

**1in6/RAINN Chat for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

Support Groups

**1in6 Support Groups

Male Survivor Support Groups

Pandora’s Aquarium - Chat (includes chats specifically for men)

Pandora’s Aquarium - Forums (includes forums specifically for men)

How to Find a Shelter

Domestic Shelters Search (shelter locator with filters to find shelters specifically for male survivors)

SAFE (located in Austin, TX, but states they can help people find resources/shelters in their area)

How to Find a Therapist

**Male Survivor Therapist Directory

Mental Health Services Locator

Resources for and About the Abuse of Kids/Teens

Love is Respect Hotline: [phone] (Hotline for teens)

Darkness to Light Helpline (Sexual Abuse): 1-866-367-5444

Darkness to Light Text Line: Text “LIGHT” to 741741

ChildHelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline: [phone]

Children of the Night Hotline (Children in Prostitution): 1-800-551-1300

National Runaway Safeline: 1-800-786-2929

Covenant House Nineline (Homeless Youth): 1-800-999-9999

Stop it Now Hotline: [phone] (for adults concerned about the welfare of a child)

Jennifer Ann’s Group (for teens experiencing dating violence)

Other Resource Lists 

(While I tried to include the most helpful resources I could here (i.e., resources that lend themselves to one-on-one communication, individual reading, etc.), there are plenty of other great resources, including regional resources, listed in these links. Some of the resources are specific to men and others aren’t, but they are all helpful for male survivors.)

**Male Survivor (regional, international, and online resources)

**Husband Battering: Men and Domestic Violence

**Help for Battered Men: Online Resources

**Help for Battered Men: National and International Resources

**Help for Guys: Help for Victims (some resources for men, many general resources)

[theliterarywolf]

What exactly happened with LADS all I'm aware of is shit based death threats made on the devs about a new character or something?

So, LADS was due to introduce a new character named Valko in an upcoming update.

This character would have also brought new additions to the lore, character interactions, and more.

However, a very, very, very loud portion of the Chinese playerbase (since, of course, LADS is a Chinese game) decided that this new character was an abomination and went against everything LADS has stood for up to this point.

For what reasons?

He's a larger, muscular guy... with animal ears... who could potentially appeal to gay and Western players... 'he looks like he would break into my house'... and he has darker skin than the other love-interests in the game.

And when you look into the tag here on Tumblr, you will get people mentioning 'oh, there was some part of his story/development that made reference to Unit 731', but in regards to the bulk of the discontent? It was primarily 'ew, this design appeals to Western players'.

Now. Usually when something like this happens, the vocal section of a playerbase will keep their complaints online or, in rare instances, wait for a livestream or open-forum event to share their displeasure.

... The loud portion of the Chinese playerbase did not decide to do this. Instead, they:

Started spam-reporting the game to Chinese authorities as being 'Unpatriotic'

Started spouting racist and homophobic vitriol in every online LADS-related window possible

Started harassing the writing team (including death threats. Yay)

And sent literal animal shit to the front door of the development company

It got to the point that, rather than decry and voice their disapproval of these actions, the LADS team announced that they would be removing the character and all game-assets relating to him.

So! Months, if not YEARS, of work removed because some idiots didn't want the pure, pristine image of their game to be ruined.

... Keep in mind, this is the same game that:

Reportedly, has characters with multiple dicks Has such stellar dialogue as "Your final gift... is right here." - Said by guy wearing bunny ears with his legs spread akimbo "Hey! Don't pinch me!" - Said by guy after you squeeze his tits "Didn't you say I shouldn't take it out on the plants? Where should I put it then?" And not to mention a character who looks like someone's knockoff-Sephiroth OC wearing bondage gear while being trapped in a cage.

But, uh... The shitshow apparently isn't just localized to this game! Apparently, the idiots bringing attention to the game in this case may have caused the unexpected ripple effect of Chinese officials looking into banning otome games in their entirety.

So this very much is a case-study in

And you know what the most idiotic thing about this whole shitshow is?

^This is the guy. This is the guy who's addition to the game's cast would have RUINED everything the game stands for.

[sfde8871]

Clay 🦨😅0430

[boogybln]

[loverofallthingsbeef]

🤤🤤🤤

[sawbuckplus]

[brosef-von-dudehomie]

Watching the scrambling, pleading, bleeding cope of the Twitter leftists dealing with the idea that the very organization they relied on to fight hate (which apparently the SPLC is where the Charlie Kirk being racist shit came from), has been inciting and orchestrating hate, is the delicious breakfast getting me out of bed in the morning.

[beardedmrbean]

Be double fun if someone does the aclu next

[damnyourefatdude]

This guy has struggled with his weight for the past few years. Before college, he was lean and fit and through the four years of college, he got up to 315 pounds. Once he graduated, he got back in shape and got down to 195lbs (first pic). Then, he got into a relationship, started grad school, and the weight began to pile back on. The last two photos were 6 months ago and he said he’s lost 70lbs since then, but his current shape is definitely still chubbier than his leanest, so I’d guess those newest fat pics have him weighing in closer to 275-280. I’m sure he’ll blow back up again in no time.

[friends-of-chuck]

Jack-up Roid Daddy knows you want him. AI

[purpleguitar]

all hands on deck!

the new content filters and the flagging system require every reblogger to appeal independently from the poster.

What is happening?

With the latest tumblr content filter updates, every reblog is flagged independently from the original post without the OP knowing. This means that if your post is reblogged by someone and that reblog is flagged, you won't know. The note count will go up, but the note is hidden: you can't see it on the rebloggers blog or any other reblogs branching from the flagged post.

What should I do?

Every reblogger needs to appeal for their own reblogs. Thankfully the review time on Tumblr's side has been fast, usually in a couple of hours they restore the post. If you can notify the OP, grand. If you have time, leave a support ticket, choose feedback and tell them why you think this is a bad model.

Why and how should I do it?

We all know the latest and contested change about the note counts that was thankfully rolled back, but its ramifications are still in use. Tumblr now considers every reblog a post in its own right, as you can see from the new banners for the same post as above:

The turn this website has taken regarding the ownership of posts is at best discouraging and at worst a massive disrespect done to all the artists, creators, gifmakers, fic writers and meta writers out there, making fandom fun and alive. If artists, writers and gifmakers don't get autonomy over their own art being shared on this website, how is a reblog different from a repost, something tumblr actively discourages from doing? How can the OP appeal for a post if they don't even know it's flagged? Why are we taking away ownership of the art from the artist, the human behind it?

How do I appeal?

Tumblr has this very useful feature, both on the website and on the mobile app:

You can find all the flagged posts on your blog either by going to the relevant blog>right hand menu, below Posts, Followers, Activity>Review flagged posts on the website OR by going to Settings>Review flagged posts on the mobile

Then you click on Appeal, and write a very short reason why, describing the post. You can even write this:

This post has nothing that is against the User Guidelines.

Let's keep fandom culture alive, folks.

[augustcascade]

Satyr

https://www.tumbex.com/sweatygymcox.tumblr/posts?tag=muscle

[fantasybeefblog]

I was trying to do a series of images of bodybuilders checking out their bodies in the mirrors at the gym after a workout, but Google ImageFX seems to have difficulty grasping the whole reflection thing. Much of the time, it treated the reflection in the mirror as if it were another person rather than the reflection of the bodybuilder standing in front of the mirror. So the bodybuilder might be doing a most muscular pose but the reflection in the mirror was doing a double bicep pose. Kinda like something out of a horror movie. However, after many repeated attempts, I did get a few plausible images I could share.

[martikhoras]

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Its particularly interesting because he seemed unconcerned actually hooking up at work And now I want to know what the fuck is up with Boss I thought I had his number predatory dominate sort of bisexual (gets off on display, and control and being wanted/flattered) but mostly into ladies. Only going to men as a way of emasculating them. But that seems to be a known DL cruising spot. I mean the makeouts are pretty damn public and the advertisements barely secretive as to the appeal. Not sure what to call this guy. I feel bad I wrote him off or at least didn't think had more to say/indicate. Not a request, not a criticism just an wondering if a female character/pov will be coming up. We have a well set up simmering pot with all the men. So chaos has to come and not just traditionally but by the nature of these men, the setting, and the tale chaosbringer being one of the … 3 ladies? okay more than that I think. two distinct office ladies, two on the street, flashback mom, and Boss's wife. However one of them taking notice or wanting to exert or feel or see or act in this dangerous web is just the building destructive twist well set to go.

Unless we're going more for STI needless to say these are NOT safe sex practices and a dangerous highlight appearing by the transition through glasses, so far the only direct conduit in the modern day only no there IS Boss. just he connects to most points.

I realize none of the music has been strictly 'period' but this feels the most divergent/modern choice with this guy. (double checks) OOH I'm wrong Donna Summer the QUEEN OF DISCO. I better turn in my gay card. And my 'talking out my ass card' I thought it was a techno music thing. I assumed the montage was to show the guy wasn't 'experimenting' he was an experienced desperate regular. But while the men blur they are also diverse AND the primary activity/shot is more…mutual/romantic, as to glasses more dirty/implied and rapid cuts. If Glasses has to explode but not really think about it. Don Bathhouse (not feeling it) seems an inverse someone who also wants to avoid the public but DROWN himself in the experience and shut everything else out and be swept away. Even brave enough to take a dude home (glasses couldn't join at a table, risk association OUTDOORS, and even ineffectively fled his case being returned) but he can't quite connect in some way. It likely isn't 'impotence' but something about the flashback means he said or something happened in his actual bed that lost the intimicay.

Admittedly maybe being a little naive/romantic but it felt like an issue between lovers as to a 'done with you get out' like he's scared to go further, not doesn't want to, or resents the concept. Still an obstacle but one may not feel this guy who he is more in the infatuation/projection/honeymoon stage with (if anything) wants or can face that with him or fix it and certainly he can't use him as 'medication' to suppress the trauma/anxiety.

[muttonchopguy]

Hello everyone!

I'm back with another video, this time being another recommendation from my discord members! It's a story that starts out rough, but has a very nice sweet ending, while having all the raunchiness in the bedroom.

Hope you enjoy!

[muttonchopguy]

Hello, I was just wondering, have you ever read 'Staring at your back' by Nohara Kuro? If not, I recommend you to check it out!

The manga was illustrated in your somewhat typical bara art style but while theres a few fan service here and there, unlike most gay komi, the main focus isnt p*rn (theres no sex at all!) , but rather the relationship between a closeted boy and (what I assume) a (slowly awakening) bisexual boy in a conservative small society.

I think you would love this kind of story, especially the emotional setting it gives to the reader. 👍

I have not, but I will add it to my list of recommendations to read! Thanks for giving me one to check out!

[muttonchopguy]

Bara manga??

Bara manga??

Yes, a niche genre within the medium of manga that I go into great detail in this handy video I made a while back. I do suggest checking out as I cover as much of its history, traits and distinctions from other genres in manga.

[keozrb]

The Doctor: Sumo size

The doctor is a series of story where people go see a Doctor but the crazy old senile Doctor keep on making mistake about his patient. But the Doctor is never wrong.

Jack, a young college wrestler, visits the campus doctor after injuring his shoulder, only to undergo a bewildering transformation. As he grows larger and stronger, he finds himself changing into a sumo wrestler, complete with a new identity and language. Embracing his new form, Jack discovers a passion for sumo wrestling, culminating in a victorious debut at a competition in Japan. His journey explores themes of identity, adaptability, and the unexpected joys of change.

Jack, a young college wrestler, had just hurt his shoulder. He walked into the campus doctor's office. The doctor greeted him with a warm smile, ready to help.

The doctor asked Jack to take a seat, addressing him as 'big guy'. Jack was confused, he was never considered big. As he sat down, he felt his body start to grow.

Jack's body started to grow bigger, muscles bulging and height increasing. The doctor asked if he was a heavyweight. Jack was still confused but continued to grow larger, his frame becoming wider and thicker.

The doctor then asked about his English, mentioning he didn't see many foreign exchange students. Jack tried to reply, but to his surprise, he could only speak in broken English. His skin also started to become more yellow.

The doctor then asked how Jack had been in Japan. Jack, now looking and sounding like an Asian man, tried to respond, but his words came out in Japanese. He was now an Asian college wrestler.

The doctor asked if Jack liked sumo wrestling. At his words, Jack's body began to expand, his muscles replaced by fat. His belly bloated outwards, ripping his singlet.

Jack, now a sumo wrestler, was handed a traditional sumo mawashi. He put it on, leaving the doctor's office to find himself in Japan, at a sumo competition.

Jack didn’t know about sumo wrestling but figured it couldn’t be that different from regular wrestling. He entered the ring with his new enormous body and surprisingly won the match.

Jack didn’t understand why, but he was happy with his new sumo size. He was ready for his next match, embracing his new life as a sumo wrestler in Japan.

[keozrb]

Santafication - Santa? part 1 EXTRA

Some Extra AI Image from Santafication - Santa? story that i didn't end up using

[keozrb]

Index

Hi there this is just a index of all my story and pic I made using AI

Story:

muscle growth/Weight gain : (The Heavyweight Shake) | (The Three Wishes) | (The magic Potion workout) | (The Hulk Within)*1 | (The Wishful Football Player) | (The Ice Cream Lifeguard) | (The New Lineman) | (Magic underwear) | (The Bearish Man) | (Bear-stripper)

Mpreg: (The Magic Island Wish) | (The Enchanted Idols) | (Unexpected Heirs) | (Unexpected Protector)*1 | (Unexpected Expectations) | (Breastfeeding Dad)

Age: (The Fountain Of Youth Speedo) | (The Cost of Ambition) | (Hairy Changes) | (The Texas Rancher) | (Fathers and Sons)

Body swap: (The Cop And The Stripper) | (The Wishing Well Wish) | (The Switch At The Olympics) | (Beach wish)

Series:

The Doctor: (The Strongman) | (The Smoker) | (The Coach) | (The Bear) | (Unexpected Gains) | (Army man) | (Roid Rage) | (Gridiron To Diving) | (The Lucha libre) | (Minor League To MLB) | (Constant Transformation) | (Sumo size) |

The Witch's Transformation: (Part 1) | (Part 2) | (Part 3) ]

Halloween Party: (Fire cop) | (Strongman) | (Nerd & Jock) ]

Hot: (Firefighter) | (Cop) | (Jock - NFL) ]

Santafication: (Bodybuilder) | (Cop) | (Wrestler) | (Lawyer) | (Stripper)

Image:

Random: (Big army soldier) | (A Growing Love) | (Speedo Cop) | (Blue Brief locker room) | (Mirror) | (Football interview) | (Jock in Blue) | (Wrestler) | (Cops) | (Expecting a baby) | (Big Men) | (superhero) | (Beer & Blue) | (coach) | (old business man) | (Big Red) | (Baseball Belly) | (couples) | (Firefighter) | (Cowboy) | (Strongman) | (Gladiator) | (Olympic) | (Doctors) | (Black, white, and Blue) | (Beach Couples) | (construction undies)

Beach: (Start) | (Green) | (Red) | (Blue) | (Yellow) | (White) | (Black) | (Gray) | (Brown) | (Orange) | (Bonus 1) | (Bonus 2) | (Bonus 3)

Extra Image: (#1) | (#2)

Extra story Image: (Enchanted idol)

The Witch's Transformation : (part 1) | (part 2) | (part 3) Santafication: (Lawyer Part1) | (Lawyer Part2)

video:

Luma: (#1) | (#2) | (#3) | (#4) | (#5) | (#6) | (#7) | (#8) | (#9) | (#10) | (#11) | (#12) | (#13) | [ (#14-A) | (#14-B) ] | (#15) | (#16) | (#17) | (#18) | (#19) | (#20) | (#21) | (#22)

Kling: (#1) | (#2) | (#3) | (#4)

One-off:

Sora

Sora character index #1

Sora character index #2

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