oh my GOD sex work isn't fucking "violent". What's violent is that we have to work to survive.
In an ideal world, women would be able to do sex work freely to earn a little extra cash for luxuries like a nicer computer or fancy clothes. There would be brothels where potential clients would be searched and rid of anything they could use to harm sex workers and there would be an emergency system to call in a security guard if things got out of hand. Sex work sites would have identity confirmation and facial recognition to catch and liberate minors who were trafficked. Bots would scan the internet for stolen media so sex workers would have full agency to take down images and videos they no longer wanted to be available. People who find sex work arousing and fun could do it safely and leave as soon as they no longer enjoyed it.
Until then, sex work has to be decriminalized. There's no other way. A few more things need to happen too:
- Trafficked women need to be able to go to the authorities and be immediately taken to safety without questions about their legality or whether they're telling the truth. It's been proven time and time again that people, especially cis men, are willing to go out of their way to traffic women, with or without legal approval. The only way to prevent trafficking is to make it safe to report.
- ICE has to be abolished so trafficked illegal immigrants can report without being threatened with deportation, separation from their families, or criminal charges.
- Brothels and strip clubs have to be monitored and regulated, and the workers checked in on regularly to ensure no coercion or trafficking is taking place.
- Orgs need to be set up to help consenting sex workers who wish to retire transition to other jobs.
- Sex work sites that host rape and child porn need to be shut down.
- Sex work sites that want to continue to exist need to require proof of identification to post and have report features for suspected rape or child porn.
- Report sites need to be set up to report porn featuring children or where rape might be or is taking place.
- Police need to be held accountable for ignoring the pleas of raped and sexually assaulted women.
- The justice system needs to be held accountable for giving cis men who are sex criminals slaps on the wrist for their vile treatment of women.
- Disability payments need to be made more accessible so disabled people don't need to do sex work to survive.
- Any bills involving free necessities like healthcare and housing need to be religiously and intensely supported.
You'll notice this plan isn't as simple as "just make it illegal!" That's because simple solutions to complex issues don't fucking work and people who think they do are naive and need to take time off to consider how their naivety could be hurting people. There's no arguing against the fact that there are sex workers, trafficked or not, who are struggling financially. Putting every sex worker out of a job and basically saying "have fun dealing with that!" isn't the solution. This will result in thousands of women being made homeless or dying from lack of health care. Moreover, it isn't necessary because there are women who legitimately enjoy sex work who aren't in any real danger. The only logical solution is to allow women who enjoy it to enjoy it and allow women who don't (or don't anymore) a safe exit path. That requires a lot more work, a lot more laws, and a lot more time. Until we can get everything working as intended, the best we can do is what we do for any other marginalized group, offer compassion, support, and willingness to act.